Would you date someone who smokes cigarettes?

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Genie23 · Accepted Answer

No, never. That's one of my deal breaker. If he a man does not care about his health, I do not see him as someone I'd want to make my partner. Not only it puts him at the risk of cancer and heart issues, it will affect my health too because second hand smoking is equally harmful. Not to mention how some become heavy smokers when their stress levels go high, they end up ruining their teeth, gets premature very noticeable lines especially around mouth and stained nails and fingers too... That's just not attractive.

Maxiebleu · Accepted Answer

It’s an absolute No on straight up cigarettes, they reek and it the scent follows you everywhere you go, no matter how much you clean. If they want to smoke, there are other things options.. like vaping. Vape juice smells good and the scent doesn’t linger on clothes, in your home or car. And it’s a little bit “healthier” than cigarettes.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Back in college, I dated a girl who smoked. She told me she wanted to stop, so I told her "Whenever you get the urge to put a cigarette in your mouth, I have something better for you."

She didn't stop smoking but she did cut down to only a few cigarettes a day... and I had a good time while our dating lasted. ;-)

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I dated a few girls that smoked. This was when it was a lot more popular. One girl really smoke a lot. She really liked it. It never really bothered me because everyone I knew smoked. The only thing that was gross was when I went out in my car the next day after we went out the night before.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would not date them or even be friends with them unless I had a special reason to associate with them, such as they are the parent of a friend or boss.

Avicenna · Answer

Hell no. I recently met a very nice woman who did and had to tell her I wasn't interested due to her habit.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

I have in the past, but in the future, I'm not sure. The one problem I do have with it is when I'm with a girl who smokes, the cigarettes come first. With my ex, when we were out to dinner and waiting for a table, she would want to leave because she needed a smoke.

Then there's the money issue. They waste so much of their money and my money supporting a habit that can kill them.

Then there's the health issue. I don't want to fall in love with someone I could lose to cancer someday.

But I probably sound like a picky jerk, who should be happy with anyone who comes along.

CAPLOVE · Answer

I think that's a little off-putting. That shouldn't be the main factor though. Personality and looks come first. If he's a chain smoker no but every once in a while I'm fine. Also is he offers it to me or forces me that's a no no and I'm no longer gonna be inserted.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not. Both my parents smoked so I grew up with my fair share of second hand smoke. But I never realized after growing up and getting away from it how much it bothers me now. When I whenever I visit the casino I've noticed after 20 minutes inside my throat is burning. So no, I don't think I could tolerate it. I think smokers become desensitized to it. I always used to make fun of non smokers and thier prissy attitude towards smokers. I never realized how much I smelled like smoke before because I was probably desensitized to it.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

I have in the past and I don't know if I would again.

A lot of people that smoke cigarettes pop them as much as I might pop a favorite mint.

If they only smoked on a Friday/Saturday night (7pm - 3am) with their friends that'd be cool, but most people that identify as social smokers inhale them daily like there is no tomorrow.

nolabels · Answer

I would.

I quit smoking cigarettes about 30 years ago. I can't stand to be around cigarettes now.

I've taken up cigars and bourbon in recent years. I enjoy the hell out of them.

If some cigarette-smoking babe wants to do me, when she's done with her smoke, she can boink the crap out of me.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, me and my ex-girlfriend, both smoked Newport Cigarettes, but I know better not to do it because cigarette (smoking cancer related) killed my Mom, her brother, my Aunt, my grand-dad, (Mom's father). All on my Late Mom's side of the family. I've been trying for a lot of years to stop smoking. It's the work of the devil.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Yes the only downside is kissing ( bleh ) but other than that dating a smoker is still better than dating a girl who takes really smelly dumps

I’ve dated two women ( Gorgeous ) but the bathroom smelled horrible when they came out like if I cracked a window birds would fall from the sky

Anemone978 · Answer

Never, I made my husband quit cuz kissing him was just disgusting.. plus always having that in the house and them not going outside is fucking annoying I can't stand it.

blackgaletiger · Answer

Its not a big deal for me as its their choice. The only time i see it being a issue like any other habit is when a big part of their income goes into buying the product and they smoke a lot in one day. A couple a day fine whatever but when you get into a pack a day vibe and knowing how expensive cigarettes are here in my country. It would be tough to be with a person like that. I see the same as weed alcohol or shopping habits.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

Sure.
I'd prefer not but I don't judge.

I'm a party-smoker, but I don't like it much otherwise. Besides I don't like to be enthralled by behavior that I don't see as my own, but at parties it don't get to me the same and as a social tooln it's great, gives you that excuse to come and strike up a convo without being too direct, eventhough most times both know that's what it is; an acceptable, soft way to test the waters.

Sam161 · Answer

My wife smoked before got married but stopped during our marriage. After we got a div. She started again, but I don't snake and can't stand the smell.

sage2021 · Answer

Yes, I would, but with one caveat, he would have to smoke outside.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Less than 10% of the adult population smokes here anyway, so that is unlikely to happen.

worldscolide · Answer

Eww fuck no, a woman could be a perfect 10 in all respects, the moment she lights up she becomes a zero. She looks like the crypt keeper (tales from the crypt) to me.. Nasty.

Bricealan · Answer

I have, on two occasions and NEVER again. What a nightmare

NathanDavis · Answer

heavy smokers, vapers... no way those who are always annoyed because they can't quit, I rather not... casual smokers... that once tried but were able to just quit like that, yes... I could

OlderAndWiser · Answer

HELL to the fucking no!

DancingQueen16 · Answer

No way because the smell of cigarettes always really bothered me

LovingJo · Answer

Not as a rule, no. Exceptions would be if they are trying to quit!!

Mangospacho · Answer

Oh yeah, it’s like making out with an ashtray. I don’t care who says they can just cover it up - non smokers can always tell.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

🚬🤢🤮 Huge deal breaker. Extremely unattractive and nasty smelling regardless what cigarette is being smoked.

mommymommymommy · Answer

My uncle married my aunt, she smokes. My mom, married my dad who "didn't" smoke, but recently picked it up

admles · Answer

Nope, it's a complete deal breaker for me. My wife is an ex-smoker and she knows she has to stay that way.

MrOracle · Answer

Immediate deal breaker.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Never again. The smell, the nasty taste when you kiss her, the health risks.

Iron_Man · Answer

She would have to quit I don’t want secondhand smoke

catiecatie · Answer

I’m not a big fan of cigarette smoke smell but I wouldn’t be against it. I’d just want them to maybe eventually quit but slowly not all at once.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Not interested. I'm turned off by the smell in public areas, I could not be with someone that smelled of smoke in their hair, clothes, etc.

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Only if she smoked Marlboro Reds. It takes a special kind of woman to get me into her bed.

alearningboy · Answer

No because women is a flower. It opens when she smells good because she is happy. With smoking she will stink so the flower dies.

damaster · Answer

Definitely not, that's an deal breaker. Automatic turn off for me

Lionman95 · Answer

No, to me smoking is a deal-breaker. I don´t smoke and I don´t like the smell of it.

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

Occasionally, sure. Chain smoker, no.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

No, i hate smoking, it stinks and is a waste of money.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Not likely. I'm turned off by the smell in the breath and clothes

Lliam · Answer

I would if they only smoked on occasion, but not if they were a heavy smoker.

SoJust · Answer

No never I not drink cigarette, but I did drink hookah before , but i left him me :) because i saw that it was harmful to my health, I was panting while running , I favorite hookah is banana

andreasderjuengere · Answer

It's more attractive than doing ''anal''. So I'm ok with it

bolverk · Answer

No never - I hate the stink of them, and the persons breath would constantly smell like an ashtray.

YourExLover69 · Answer

Nah sorry. I don't smoke myself so I prefer she'd rather not too

shades777 · Answer

I done it a few times, definitely not a preference never let them smoke in my house or car, shit is disgusting

dragoblack · Answer

I would prefer not to, just because i find th3 smell of nicotine a turn off and because i have asthma like symptoms around cigarette smoke

Paris13 · Answer

Many Times. xx

musicbrain5 · Answer

Absolutely not.

desidoll · Answer

No, because I am not a smoker myself.

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

Twalli · Answer

Probably not unless she was recovering from smoking

HighValue · Answer

No. It's gross and smells bad.

jimmy2 · Answer

No I can't I am a ex smoker It nasty It's unhealthy It will take your breathe away Then a really really slow death

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Nope!! I don't wanna smell your stink!!

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Dealbreaker so no lol

yourloveistoxic · Answer

No. Cigarettes gives me migraines and I hate smelling it anywhere or on anyone.

MysticDevice · Answer

Not a chance. No thank you. Not for me.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

No ...

poetic_pisces · Answer

Why not

tomgrosse77 · Answer

Nope. Not only no, but he’ll no.

Beth1212 · Answer

no its gross and disgusting

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

Yes, i would (i do not smoke myself tho)

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