Please note, writing this comment, there is no offense intended,
Who is taking who back? The way I see it, we should be asking him whether there is a reason to take you back.
Let's get real here. I see myself in this guy 💯, I normally do this to a woman of interest, very good at first then stop everything or cut communication, WHY because I want to test her. Sometimes I will even create a situation, like tell her I am stuck financially to test her reaction. See how deep she cares about me. There is no need to invest your time, money and emotions to someone who is just settling for you because you are good. That's the only way a man can tell a woman is really into him. Most women don't call unless you call, they do nothing to grow the relationship, they just wanna sit, wait, there feeling all special. A relationship is a two way traffic. If you aren't fully in it, why should I be? With my experience, there are women with a man just because he's good to them, just setting because they haven't gotten a man of their dreams, there are just there waiting, they are quick to monitor a mans movement, quick to suspect him, and quick to bounce.
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If he wanted you he would have responded, plain and simple. Unfortunately that wasn't the case and it's very apparent after 2 months. If you have such strong feeling for him go ahead and make 1 final attempt. If you get nothing after that then delete his number and block it the next day. Forget about him like he never existed.
Did he explain what he meant when he said" it's unsafe to be around him at this time "? If a guy said that to me, I'd assume he meant he's capable of causing me either psychological harm or physical harm.
Personally, I would avoid a guy who said that me without explaining in more detail. Also, it shows he will walk out of your life whenever he's going through a hard time. He's shown you what his potential is in the future. He will probably be the type of guy to walk in and out of your life, because he seems emotionally immature and unable to communicate when he's in a bad place
He's obviously in a bad place right now, and doesn't want contact with you. So I'd move on.
I think if you love him and you feel that he makes you just that little much happier, then you give that person chances because they deserve it. Their place in your life is valuable and vice versa.
Now if this person has severely disrespected you, betrayed you or damaged you it's best to shut the door and let time take care of your feelings and attachment.
Most importantly, you have to view yourself as your own soulmate and then make decisions based off of that. Would it be detrimental or healthy to take this person back? That must be the foundation to everything.
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