Once someone betrays you and hurts you - should you take them back?

[sage2021]

https://youtu.be/YPSo04eSxGo?si=9hm9Mv4n10fndQ_N

This is really a great video! I was betrayed by my husband and this video really hit home for me.💔

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He also speaks about what good, healthy love is and love that isn't healthy or good for you but brings you down. This is very uplifting and informative about what a good and healthy love is and what it looks like.

[Oldschool1981]

My wife has a boyfriend and I don't feel betrayed at all. That sort of thing isn't a deal breaker for me

[Daniela1982]

@oldschool1981Sounds like you don't value the sanctity of marriage then. Adultery is never a good thing in a marriage. 🤧

[Oldschool1981]

@Daniela1982 I'm okay with it. I don't advertise it, but it kinda turns me on

[TonyMetal___86]

Very hard to and if it's cheating than never!

[FunkyMonkee]

Not as a lover. If you can't trust them, why would you want them, back?

[sage2021]

@FunkyMonkee

That's just why when I found out that my husband was cheating on me I knew right there and then that he broke the trust that we always had and I could never go back with him because of that. Once that original trust two people have with each other is broken, well, that's the end of the relationship!!

It's like that song Mcauthor's Park.
Someone left the cake out in the rain and I'll never have that recipe again.

music.youtube.com/watch

[sage2021]

https://youtu.be/NR8ABtJwcEk?si=_-kqajpJsasjCcfI

[sage2021]

@Funkeemonkee

[FunkyMonkee]

I know what you mean. I trusted my ex-fiance and, after 10 years together, I discovered that she'd been cheating on me the last 2 of those 10 years!!

[sage2021]

@FunkyMonkee
I had our first little son only months before he cheated on me.
He finally abandoned us on December 2nd, 1978 which would have been our son's first Christmas.🎄
So I became a single Mom. Oh, and he also took my 1973 Chevy Nova which I bought before I ever knew him. Never saw it again 😔
My story continues to get sadder but I will spare you the details.
He never paid child support either.

And as for you - man, after 10 years together!!
Some people are so damn ruthless huh?
Did you listen to the song I sent you? The second one has the lyrics 👍🏼😎🎸

[FunkyMonkee]

I've heard the song MANY times and have at least one copy. Soupy Sales parodied it on Motown, of all labels!! It was called, "Muck Arty Park".
I lost the t. v. and waterbed that I paid for, a few cassette tapes of mine, she tried to steal a CD from me that I would've had no problem making a copy of for her, if only she would've asked, and a blanket that WE bought my grandmother for Christmas but she told me she'd give me her half of the cost later. and never did and she lied to me a few times. There was also a really nice pair of partly turquoise earrings for at least $60.00 that I bought her when we first got together and she lost one of them after only wearing them once and I found the other in a crack in the wall covered in dust 10 years later.

[sage2021]

@FunkeeMonkey
We all have our stories to tell don't we?
Man, I could NEVER treat another human being like you and I were treated. And for what? Who did they think they were? Not special or worthwhile that's for sure!!
My life went on without him. I kicked up my heels 👠 and pressed on. I had a new baby to take care of so I had to pull myself together and go out into the world 🌎 so we could survive! It wasn't easy believe me! But I am a very strong woman and I just put one foot in front of the other one and continue on my path to greatness 🙂

[FunkyMonkee]

I know what you mean! I'm not like that at all, either! I wouldn't like it if someone treated ME that way so, why would I do it to someone else?
Mine cheated on me for about 2 years before I found out. When I did, she said, "I thought you knew!'" A year later, she left HIM, TOO!! So, you threw away MY ten years of loyalty to fuck another guy for just 2 or 3 years?

[Jennz6]

No, never trust him again

[Dongie]

Nah!

[Dongie]

Oddbeme just said if a girl gets drunk at a frat house, she is fair game to be raped.