We met online, should I meet him in real life?

[Venus_Aphrodite]

This guy and I have been talking since July of last year. We met on Facebook but we live four hours away. We plan to meet for the first time in January. He's the one talking in the black and I'm the one talking in the blue. I'm not interested in having a relationship with him.

[Anonymous]

I would make sure you're on the same page before you met him. You aren't interested in a relationship, so what do you want and what does he want? Talk about it first. Then decide if you're still going to met. But then there are no assumptions made or misunderstandings.

[sadMeester]

4 hours isn't that far. If he really wanted you he'd make the effort to go to you sooner and meet you in your own area

[Venus_Aphrodite]

Actually, he was in my area a few months ago and he wanted to meet me. But I couldn't meet him because I was busy.

[sadMeester]

He could come anytime. I drove 3 hours a day when I was working an office job. It's not that much more.

[Venus_Aphrodite]

Yes, and I could come to see him anytime as well. I would rather go to him the first time we meet I have my own personal reasons.

[sadMeester]

If it's 4 hours he could easily come near you without learning about where you live or places you frequent.

[Venus_Aphrodite]

You really aren't understanding what I am saying. A couple of months ago he came to my town. Because he had to take care of some business. He was trying to meet me but I was busy and I couldn't meet him. I feel more comfortable going to him to meet for my own personal reasons.

I think him trying to see me while he was here shows some effort. And you weren't really driving only 3 hours to work every day. That's six hours there and back every day I find that hard to believe.

[sadMeester]

Most day's it'd be about that. Maybe closer to 5. I work in the oilfield and had to drive from the offices to the jobsites to collect info. Many trips back and forth every day. It was hell on my little truck

[SunnySri]

Mam, if you think you can trust this guy then you can go, but take some precautionary measures like keep some people's number on your speed dial for your safety, just in case.
Ok mam good luck.
Have a great experience and stay safe.

[Anonymous]

I mean you can meet him but just tread lightly because I feel if someone is saying they are trying to love you before they have even met the person in real life they are usually just looking for sex

[Venus_Aphrodite]

That doesn't automatically mean they are just looking for sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever bitch I’m a lot older then you don’t come crying and complaining when you find he is using you for sex so fuck you and shove the fucking down vote up your fucking ass slut

[Venus_Aphrodite]

You're the bitch assuming shit about people who you don't even know. And you aren't a lot older than be you stupid cunt. Fuck off you idiotic troll you have been reported.

[Venus_Aphrodite]

*me*

[gandolph3]

you haven't really met yet