I met a guy online now we finally meet in person 2nd meet up coming soon help?

[Anonymous]

We met in person and he scheduled we meet in December 31 to have lunch together in a Italian restaurant ! However he doesn’t text anymore everyday as he used to. He can go many days without messaging BUT if I message him he replies
When it comes to messages it feels like he doesn’t care much like he isn’t interested. But in person he seemed interested even though we didn’t touch or anything at all I mean we only met once so far.. when we met I noticed him staring at me for seconds.
He asked to meet again.. but when it comes to messages recently he only replies if I message him if I don’t he can go days without a single message send to me
Why? Is this a sign he isn’t interested? Before he used to message every day
😣

[Avishh]

He is playing his cards right, he is letting you wander about him and by reading this question i can tell it’s working for him. In the beginning It’s very normal for guys not to engage into conversation over the phone, rather set dates and do it the right way. Also if he planned a dinner date that’s a good sign. Once you know each other more the attraction will grow, until then enjoy the process, don’t overthink and raise all these barriers in your head. Keep your focus on yourself and have fun on your dates. All these questions whether he likes you or not only gonna make you more anxious which is gonna affect your dating.

[Asker]

It’s not a dinner it’s lunch for New Years

[Avishh]

Wait until to see how the date goes and if he keeps his behaviour the same towards you, don’t waste time hanging there.

[cloud9vortex1234]

He still likes you. As long as he continues to want to see you in person then he's interested.

[spartan55]

Which is more important to you. Face to face interaction, or stupid texting...

[BeyondBirthday]

I think he is just comfortable with you now. He doesn't feel the need to write everyday but he does like you.