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I think the bot simply chooses whoever writes long answers. Every long answer of mine gets selected as the superb opinion.
You are absolutely right! There is a saying that I love; confidence is quiet. Guys that are TELLING you who they are instead of showing it don’t accurately represent or understand what they’re saying they are.
@princesssnowflake totally! "show, don't tell", as they tell writers
I 💯% agree with this women,, that's what I also would have said
I agree that your grandmother is more alpha then most men today ! Spot on.
So I assume that your definition of an alpha is someone who sucks up to society in exchange for mercy from it?Yeah, you're mundane af..
@FýrdracaDócincel Nailed it my dude.
Its about fitting in with polite society and not being an arsehole to everyone in the belief it makes you valpha
@FýrdracaDócincel think what she means is someone who's not hung up on their desires like an addict (what "technique" can I use to get her, etc.), a man who is in control, dominant & beyond need for acceptance & approval form others, because all his strength exists inside, he doesn't need anger, violence, or control in anything outside to feel powerful, strong & confident within & also treats others w/ the same attention, priority & focus he gives to himself, again, because he's not only interested in his own satisfaction like a drug addict needing a "fix".
@chris0977 She's the kind of woman who would call her Karen grandmother "alpha" and then sneer at the same behavior from men (most likely unironically using the word "man-child") because she's mentally incapable of mentally crossing the gap between the sexes.That's all that needs to be taken into consideration.
You can't really "act" alpha... sooner or later that mask will drop!
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Feminist are degrading and sexist is that what you mean I am asking not for or against just curious
Unless... a man dosnt give a shit what society or women think of him, a man who can't be bought with money or cheap sex, a man who can't be shamed or intimidated. What will they do then? Ostracize him!! You say what can do to a man comfortable in his own skin?
I don't know not having a relationship might just mind fuck women back to their senses... worst case it’s just 1-2 generations. Had to happen during my time though... I want to see how women handle a future doing everything in their own working 80 hours a week for their new jobs while men live comfortably separate. The world and especially the USA is heading to dangerous times and when it gets bad and women can’t work enough hours to pay the bills and men arnt there to help when someone breaks into their apartments... I want to see their strength through the hard times.
at which point you ignore them and continue on with whatever you were doing like an alpha and laugh when they get even more uppity.
There is no such thing as an alpha female. When the going gets tough for them they conveniently fall back on the “damsel in distress”. I’ll give you an example: Rhonda Rousey. Yes she was all badass until she got KTFO from Holly Holm. Then a week later she was on the Elle show saying she was suicidal. Can you imagine Conor McGregor or any other top male UFC fighter going in the Elle show after losing saying they are “suicidal”. Not that suicide isn’t serious, it is. But honestly would any male still be considered “alpha” after saying that?
False. Alpha males in nature are decided by violence and I'm hyper violent, you know your place.
Exactly. You don't know.
What a clown.
@havingfun101 ok take your alpha cone head somewhere else you’re a joke 😂
Relational aggression is most commonly studied amongst females; either come up with a good argument or know your place. Ten of you with knives would be a good time for me.
@havingfun101 👁👄👁 HUH?
@havingfun101 Shows the problem liberal policies have with law enforcement and coddling to criminals, considering we have a inmate having access to the internet right now.
@havingfun101 “ten of you with knives” lol what an idiot! I’d kick your ass with one hand tied to my back. No knives, just fists, the old way.
@havingfun101 not true
@NYlatefunI already have, except that they were black and some had clubs or Mexican & had cases of full & empty beer bottles and a gun. My step mother alone has tried to stab me more times than you've been in a slap fight. You're a white knight who was trying to save @Some_Goof but a masculine man would have addressed my arguments or at least said: "leave her alone", but you're a matarchial male."I don't make a habit of fighting the elderly!"-- Lion Rafale, Virtua Fighter 4
@brennanhuffThat's changing."Sometimes you must Hurt in order to Know, Fall in order to Grow, Lose in order to Gain because life's greatest lessons are learned through PAIN!"-- Nagato Uzumaki, Naruto Shippuden
@havingfun101 was that for me?
@havingfun101 you are weird man.
"What a clown... you're weird, man." -- hoe saving wimp
@havingfun101 I am not defending girls here. I am saying you are full of shit. As a civil engineer I deal with very aggressive men everyday in the construction site and I can tell you that I put them in their place with no need to even raise my voice. Violence has nothing to do with it.
@ThisIsMyOpinionFirstly, false; you can't lie to me. Secondly, no one would listen to you unless you had authority over them or they were soliciting information. Work isn't a pure dominance/competence hierarchy due to societal rules. You're being dishonest or oblivious; I can't tell which. I regularly command hostel groups of men, because they instinctively know what I'll do if they act stupid. You all are simply domesticated, like women, so you can't tell what's going on. Other people look; I see, in this regard, I'm a seer.
@havingfun101 I am not their boss and I do not have any authority over them. I don't pay their salaries and I have to make sure they listen to me or they will do what I they want. I can do it without being violent with. Being violent more often than not only gets you ostracized instead of listened to. If you are someone worth listening to you will be listened to. If you have zero of worth to say and on top of that are violent you won't last.
@ThisIsMyOpinion @havingfun101 WTF both of you sound like beta's... I am alpha... no I am... no your not... I am... LET IT GO!
A “man” that gets his quotes from Virtual Fighter! 😂 🤡
That made me laugh.
"I have to make sure they listen to me" - U... Y? Insurance, regulations... stuff gorillas and lions don't deal with? Keep it simple, stupid. The threat of violence backstops all authority, which is why kings rule scientists instead of the other way around... it's about armies or in other words: violence.Ostracizing people is proxy violence due to the risks associated with lack of reinforcements... wake up.See? Worth to say... didn't you think this through as a child? Circle back to competence informed dominance hierarchy, as opposed to violence (different kind of competence) informed hierarchy. Smh...
@coachTanthonyYour sarcasm indicates that you were raised by a single mother and thus, are likely brown. Am I wrong?
@NYlatefunIt's okay to quote someone once one has acquired their fighting style, fat boy.“Even if my enemy is far stronger; even if my body should fail me, I cannot lose.."-- Neji Hyuga, Naruto Shippuden
@havingfun101 No sarcasm sorry.
The you're unironically calling yourself an alpha, while engaging in tone policing, like only a truly petty and weak person would.
Single mother raised darkie confirmed? 🤣
@havingfun101 You both sound like morons. Have at it. I could care less.
"Go ahead and fight, you dumb boys! I don't care, anyway!" -- a girl
@havingfun101 "The threat of violence backstops all authority" wrong. The king had all the authority to begin with not the scientist. No matter how violent a man is he will always have to answer to some authority. In my case I have neither yet I do make my will enforced by simply not backing down when they come at me. So by being violent he is ostracized and therefore causing violence upon himself because he chose to use violence in the first place. That only shows why violence is not the best option to begin with. Society might had worked like that at some point but now anymore. We live in society not anarchy.
@havingfun101your intelectual level makes Trump look smart... that’s it...
@ThisIsMyOpinion🧐🤣au·thor·i·ty/əˈTHôrədē/noun1. the power or right to give orders, make decisions, and enforce obedience."he had absolute authority over his subordinates"...Dominance hierarchy is a type of social hierarchy that arises when members of a social group interact, to create a ranking system. In social living groups, members are likely to compete for access to limited resources and mating opportunities.When Violence Pays: A Cost-Benefit Analysis of Aggressive Behavior in Animals and Humans: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3859192/
Thank you. 🥰Mr. Trump was a student at Wharton when it was possible to derive an accurate IQ core from known SAT scores. Given the usual requirements for admission to a top school like Wharton, I estimate that Mr. Trump has a 156 IQ at the minimum.www.jacksonville.com/.../fact-check-how-smart-president-elect-donald-trump-iq-score-isn-t-official
@havingfun101 Case in point! Why am I not surprised that you’re a Trump lover? 🤔Just like your mediocre leader, uneducated, rude and delusional. 😂😘
@havingfun101 A society needs to have a leader. Sure, but that has nothing to do with violence. If it did the leader of a nation would always be chosen with a fight to the death. Instead most of the modern world has democracy.Being agressive is not the problem. Being violent is. You can be agressive while debating you ideas whitout ever getting violent.
@NYlatefunCall when you're leader of the free world, bud.
@ThisIsMyOpinionIn civilized society we rely mostly on proxy violence of war, police, poverty and shame; but at the end of the day, all of the above boil down to: 'I can kick your a$$.' Human alphas do exist and violence is behind all authority, even that granted by knowledge, thus the sayings: knowledge is power & knowing is half the battle. Being overly domesticated is a liability and the projection of strength isn't the attainment thereof. Democracy is mob rule, absent physical violence or competence hierarchy, a feminine form of government.Article 4 Section 4 Of The U. S. Constitution: "The United States shall guarantee to every State in this Union a Republican Form of Government, and shall protect each of them against Invasion; and on Application of the Legislature, or of the Executive (when the Legislature cannot be convened) against domestic Violence."
@havingfun101 I can see why you're single...
@havingfun101 leader of the free world!!! Lol you really drank the kool aid...Someone said it before, you’re weird, very weird!
@havingfun101 that is violence to stop violence. Not just violence for the sake of violence, completely different concepts. While society accepts the second it completely disapproves of the first. So if you are just violent for no good reason people will look down on you, not respect you. Case and point, I do muay thai at my gym. I had many MANY loud mouths, alphas like you call them arriving and thinking they will be the best in two days. They have zero car with others and just swing full force. When me and others with experience notice that do you know what we do? During spar we make sure they regret coming to train that day. No more alpha attitude. The term alpha itself was disproved by its creator look it up. Once again when violence is used to stop stupid violence. It's acceptable and encouraged. The other way around you will just make sure no one likes you and get yourself a ass whooping.
@brennanhuff70% of American people (wealthy countries) are overweight or obese, I'm shredded and marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows. How single are you and isn't it by choice?
@NYlatefunThe term ‘Free World’ originated in the cold world era. Back then Free World was used to collectively refer to the non-communist countries including the US. Since US was/is the most powerful nation militarily and economically, the president of the US naturally earned the title of the leader of the Free World.
@ThisIsMyOpinionThe reason for violence is irrelevant to the discussion of as to whether or not authority is backed up by violence, which would be self evident if you would let go of the need to be right and see things as they naturally are.You assume I'm loud and careless; this is psychological projection of matarchial masculinity. Also, I don't play fight, as it breeds weakness and a false sense of security.Attitude has nothing to do with raw force.Oh, "muh debunked?" 🤣 ... it's a term for a relative position, thus it may fluctuate & so, alpha is more of a hierarchical descriptor; not a living being, ergo no known absolute alpha exists in the living world. Are you even serious? ... You: muh fee-fee's. Me: raw power. 🧐
@havingfun101 I am single and it is by choice. You however and your psycho ass are single because you creep the shit out of every woman you come across
@brennanhuffCalled it! 😎Awwww? The last women to romantically interact with me said that I was a badass with a nice ass. Girls don't say that over nothing; what I did to illicit such a response is too secret & nigh impossible a technique for your eyes.
@havingfun101 hahahahahha you’re so weird
@NYlatefunBeing a human omega isn't an argument; at least @ThisIsMyOpinion actually tried. Human beta is still better than human omega.
@havingfun101 are the voices in your head back? Take your meds ok? 😉
@NYlatefun It think he has sex dolls, but since he has voiced in his head. He thinks a woman is talking to him and complimenting him. When the reality is that, only a sex doll would be anywhere near him, because his creepy ass can't attract any woman lol
@havingfun101 the reason for it matters. And a lot. Go outside and punch someone. Next go outside and punch someone who is assaulting a child. It is very different. One can put you in jail the other will get you praised. Yes it was debunked by the guy who came up with the term after a study with wolves that he used to try to compare to humans. Not long after he wrote a book about it he himself saw wolves display behavior who disproved it and tried to tell society about it. Sadly since some people feel better about calling themselves "alpha", it's an ego thing, the term stuck around. Simple as this.
@NYlatefunYou have no argument; you're just pitching a fit.
@brennanhuffThis is why I never promoted you to human gamma. You're too weak & indirect to be a gamma. I haven't purchased a robot vagina because I'm too big for 90% of them. You wouldn't understand.
@ThisIsMyOpinionYou're demoted to human gamma. I don't get caught by the police or identified by any victims, although I only act in self defense. You're projecting your own incompetence onto me. Either way, what I command goes, because if not, I use force; otherwise I'd make a suggestion. The saying "might is right" is meant to convey this obvious truth. Look, gamma, I I already explained your (and his) false equivalence informal logical fallacy, by way of a realistic lense and no amount of "muh created it" appear to authority informal logical fallacy will change that. I'm an apex predator, no creature on earth is a match; because I'm always in control, especially when I choose not to be. Brain with me.
@havingfun101 what is a human gamma? If you only act on self defense of course the police wants nothing with you. What? At any point I talked about you. I am simply giving examples, but I never said anything about you. I actually laugh at the last part "Brain with me" 😂 What you command goes? No one in real besides a dictator can say that, even presidents have restrictions to what they can do. If you use force everytime someone does not agree with you or does what you say you are simply out of your mind and are not a functioning human being.
You're a human gamma & your example was one alluding to incompetence, which must come from your mind; as I know better than to get close to being caught, as my many, many undiscovered felonies make clear.You're welcome! 🥰Your functional human being is my ultra domesticated wimp."Pick your battles and win them." -- My Twin Brother
@havingfun101 Felonies... PALEASSSSSE... you hide behind a keyboard all day long... look at this pathetic thread. Online tough guys are the best! So enjoyable. You are a legend mate.
You're projecting your own nature onto me. Deception is a product of weakness; you wouldn't understand, human omega. I once ran a larceny ring that the FBI was looking for, I've seen myself on the news jerking it in public and been in more fights (also felonies) than one may shake a stick at, to say nothing of drugs and arson. 🤣👊🖕
See what I mean? You're matarchial to the bone.
@havingfun101 Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha OMG nobody with that kind of history is on GAG bragging about it. I am on here because I am content creator. Why are you? Why not be that cool bad ass spooky scary tough guy... why are you HERE MAN... Come on. Be honest.
Only a very astute person can tell someone's history, even partially, by looking at or interacting with them. You're a liar or you wouldn't say I am, without proof, human omega. I'm just being me.Appeal to false authority: This fallacy is used when a person uses a false authority as evidence for their claim. These fallacious arguments from authority are the result of citing a non-authority as an authority.
@havingfun101 I get paid 6 figures a year to wreck fraudulent fucks like you! I get paid to be here. You don't... stay behind your keyboard where you belong!
Oh, that's funny! You receive Affirmative Action & your job is... what? Hocking self help jargon? Your accomplishments aren't an argument, human omega.
@havingfun101 Well on GAG is exposing little sissy's like you! And you might be my biggest sissy catch yet!
Leave me out of your homoerotic fantasies, human omega.
@havingfun101 Do better... you are an ALPHA.. come on man.
Alpha's are dependent upon external validation. I said that I'm hyper violent, not an alpha male or did you not notice? You sound like a dating coach, not a football coach; marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows. Business must be good, but it's not working out for the customer, en masse... oh, well.
@havingfun101 Keyboard warriors are not hyper violent unless they are just killing animals in their back yard. I've seen havingfun101 before in my previous career... juveniles who were molested or beaten or what have you then turn to the internet for revenge with tough talk and pseudointellectual speak. If anybody understands I do. So there is help if you choose to accept it.
Again, I've been jumped a bakers dozen times as of a few months ago; often they were armed and in large groups. However, I wasn't starved, beaten and tortured as a kid; but that doesn't change the truth and the help that you describe is just paying a usually female psychologist who's useless outside of feelings. What you're really asking me to do is become more controllable for your sake, because I'm more powerful than you are able to control, thus your outlook. I'm not a member of the matriarchy, which is what you're used to; my father has similar attitudes and is similarly weak, petty and easily controlled by external forces.
@havingfun101 Wow you just don’t break character at all Ha Very cool!
Imagine being such a matarchial male that you can't even see through another man's eyes...
@havingfun101 Yep Im bored. It's been fun man... to say the least.
You did well today, human omega. I'll be working on my dancing if you need me! 😍
@havingfun101 You keep getting funnier and funnier xD So you were involved with the FBI, you keep doing fellonies and not get caught, you act in a violent way everytime you don0t get your way.BUT let's assume that all of that is true. I don't believe it for a second but me and @coachtanthonyT are having a good time with you so I will play along.If all of that was true that would just make you human trash. Utter garbage and nothing more! xD That's why this is so funny you actually think those things impress someone and are supposed to make you look bad ass. Not even close!
@ThisIsMyOpinionDo you feel strong beating on that strawman argument? I didn't say we were involved with the FBI, we got out before they caught up.I'm only violent in self defense, except very rarely when I do make a command and it's not followed and I drop the hammer.You must be a liar like Tanthony or you'd take me at my word and roll on.Hey, jerking it in public was an act social commentary, so try not be be so jealous!
@havingfun101 Jealous of what? You have nothing to be jealous about.
That's just statistically inaccurate, human gamma. 😎
@havingfun101 uh? What statistics have to do with the fact that you are a clown and that for me to envy you I would have to be under the influence of hallucinogenics?
Hey, don't drag hallucinogens into this! I thought you were referring to wang size, in which case; I'm statistically impressive, which explains why you so jelly!
@havingfun101 what? Since when you are talking about that? You are officially insane. I am out.
You were never in. I mentioned it as one of many felonies. Your relational aggression is as feminine as ever, human gamma.
Glad you agree.
Your the dumbass... imagine being unable to comprehend these words describe select character traits not the entire personality.
Funny coming from the guy that misspelled you're 🤣 clearly a first grader has that down better than your ass. Oh look I used "your" properly. I hope you're taking notes boy.
Your response is a grammar nazi response... figures... whatever
Well we could but that ain't triggering enough for me... My posts need a little bit of pizzazzzz!
For mobile users:https://youtu.be/l0ur76Y6Ul4
Forgot the gammas... Oh how could I forget about them 😂 I don't people with their traits
Skip to 8:30 if you want clarity of this guys intent. Because that's when he talks about the misunderstandinga
Ha love it!
I keep saying the same thing - low testosterone. Well put regarding a man from a 100 years ago. It is bizarre for me knowing I have far more testosterone circulating within myself than an early 20 something guy today. I mean, I never heard of boys nor men having anxiety attacks growing up. Now it is a question who has them more often, men or women. Which even with women not long ago, even they having anxiety/panic attacks were nearly unheard of. Now the sexes are becoming damn enemies and depression/anxiety is at an all time high. It is a crazy assed world out there...
Naa. Some men, a lot of men, are pussies.
I hate agreeing with you on that point @ChurchOfSteel but you are not wrote.
Not wrong* ... damn lack of sleep.
I don't know about why other people have panic attacks, but on my case, it's traumatic life experiences. I'm sure it's common for people my age. I've talked to a lot of young guys who have been homeless, and what I've heard is that there's no $90 a month food stamps for them. The average income for people under 40 is something like $30k. It's disturbing how competitive college educated people are for $15 an hour. I don't think older people or well-off people realize how bad it is.I'm not saying guys my age need to "man up," per se. Just saying that they have objectively low testosterone. Men's levels are tested at least at lower than they used to be. What's considered average is way lower than optimal, ie, what your body was made to have.Testosterone is related to seeking risk, among other things. You'll see guys ask for advice about approaching women, citing risk as a reason they don't. "What if we're not friends anymore?" Or they'll make excuses for why they don't approach attractive women, " they're ALL high maintenance and it would definitely be bad, even though I don't know this person." A man with high testosterone doesn't hesitate, and is attracted to the risk.Men seeking risk is what kept humans alive and at the top of the food chain. You don't want the men in your tribe to be afraid of wooly mammoths. Men who aren't fearful aren't alphas. They're just healthy men.I think it's a combination of bad water, formula feeding, and preselection. If you're not giving your son mother's milk, he's going to have trouble producing certain hormones. And then when I talk about preselection, I mean going from a competitive system like monarchy to a agree to go along and get along system like democracy. The biggest yes man gets to pass on his genes. I've always been skeptical about our "perfect" system of government.
And speaking of government, corporate interest, etc, the response to lower testosterone has been to ban testosterone replacement. They like men who are docile and easy to control.
You aren’t wrong either @BigSis.
Fear is wisdom in the face of danger, to quote Sherlock Holmes, @BigSis. I see what you're saying, and there's definitely a good deal of truth to it, but the modern age has also made it to where we don't keep our women at home and slap them around when they talk back. Testosterone can increase risk tolerance, yes, as can alcohol. That doesn't mean alcohol is a good thing. It isn't the stone ages anymore. We don't have to jump into a crocodile's mouth to survive. Or value our lives less. That's simply stupidity. And I don't think men in the past were stupid, either, on average. Men aren't a one-dimensional force, right. Were you to have Isaac Newton and tell him to go attack a Woolly Mammoth, that'd just be some dumb shit. Don't get me wrong, I'm shredded and in the top 1% strongest men; and I very highly value power and strength and enduring *proper* amounts of danger and stress to bolster one's survivability. I plan to sit out in the winter cold for as long as I can in my underwear this winter, for instance, for no other purpose than to harden my mind.That said, it all depends on one's definition of "Alpha". They tend to be assertive, chill, don't get angry easily, adaptable, athletic, willing to fight, but only do so when necessary. Basically, my understanding is simply "High value". I will also say that we shouldn't only think physiologically. Sociologically, what has happened in the past 30-50 years? One extremely big difference is the level of influence women have in society. Feminine virtues are upheld and the best man is touted to be "a woman in a man's body". So this isn't only about physiology, right.
@MannMitAntworten I can guarantee you I have more testosterone than you, good sir. I've been a natural bodybuilder for 4 years, healthy diet, etc and my T has yet to start dropping. We lose 1% per year, after 30. At 46, you should have 16% lower levels than a 20-something male.That said, last year I had a slew of panic attacks. These things hit you randomly and with no apparent cause. I could be sitting down playing video games, then just randomly get symptoms of a heart attack. So, over 250 heart attacks in 2 months. Lemme tell you, that was Hell. I will also say, I'm a relatively tough guy. These things aren't necessarily so simple as "He's low T, because he experienced something; he's not low T because he is nonreactive." I think that tends to be the definition of a real "man" or a high T man. He doesn't react no matter what happens. That's simply unfeasible. Not to mention dumb. That goes along with the previous generation's mens' reluctance to go to the doctor when shit was wrong with them, right. "NO! ME TOUGH MAN!" No, yous a dumb mother fucker who's gonna die.I'm reminded of Khal Drogo from Game of Thrones. Badass mother fucker, highest T of the lot. And he willfully lets himself get sliced in the chest then dies from infection. Basically Marines vs Rangers. Marines are pitbulls, and sure can't doubt their high T. But they also die a lot more than Rangers. And a Ranger. Pshc. Put 10 Rangers in a country, and they could topple the government or reinstall a new leader and cause substantial societal shift. Special forces > empty-headed high T pawns. in my opinion, the most powerful men are moderate T, but CONTROLLED T. They combine both estrogen and T to encompass the balance of femininity and the power and strength of T.Anyway, all this is to both give a counter-argument to "panic attacks = pussies" along with "high testosterone = alpha or good".
I body build too... since 14. Further, I appreciate your assumption of my lack of knowledge of anything remotely involving human anatomy physiology... and the further assumption that my own physiology is a statical ‘norm’. It is not. As I have touched a nerve with you I shall let your “guarantee” slide. First, never assume a statistic average is the rule. This is taught even before one’s first year in med school to encourage, “talking with ‘and’ listening to the subject.” Next, statistical data is commonly a +/- 4 point margin for error. Continuing on... statistical average is just that, an average which is covered in 4th grade mathematics (at least it was in mine along with mean and mode). Average implies that there exist data with lower numbers and data with higher numbers... and all points in between. My testosterone levels are in the higher spectrum and always have been. Now, I do realize you were unaware of this but it should be cautionary to never assume facts not in evidence. Thus, you cannot “guarantee” as there does exist the possibility that I have levels still greater than your own or perhaps evens similar. I however shall not assume anything beyond my knowing I am higher than the statistical average 20-something. I can tell you the 16 percent nominal is only an “on average” and not an absolute. Thing is, even if I had lost 16% (I haven’t), my levels would still higher than the “average” 24 year olds today... a lot higher. Careful with assumptions.
Technically that is true most left wing dudes are beta.
Being able to get partners and be promiscuous is something that shouldn’t even be celebrated. A lot of the time these “alphas” have underlying mental issues like depression or addiction and impulsive behavior. A lot of incels think these are good traits but they’re self destructive in nature.
I think you misunderstand what a alpha is... it’s not the best of the best it’s a highly confident capable man who follows generally masculine patterns. Stronger will/strength leader probably better looking because of his confidence and self respect and perhaps more prone to violent behavior.@navyrobin ide rather self destruct by my 40s than let a woman walk on me. With the disrespect I get from women for asking opinions ide say 90% of women will walk on a man if allowed... and women don’t want a weak man that lets them disrespect him either so don’t give me that bullshit
@VanillaSalt The label, honey. The label of alpha/beta is stupid and cringey at best. I’m glad you don’t self identity as alpha. That’d be laughable.
You are smart the name doesn't suit you snowflake lol
So what's a guy who is both? I have both qualities. I'm a person who is sensitive, caring and supportive. So have those softer sides, I don't have a problem working with someone as long as the leader isn't bossy, then I'm definitely not a pushover. It's either a clash or it's a calm, ok you're on your own "bye felicia" thing. I'm an introvert in many ways where I'm a self thinker often. But can be quite confident depending on the element. I'm not one to naturally want or to take up a leadership position, but can when it's called upon. When I'm in a leadership position, I'm not loud but in a matter of fact way but explaining things so people get it and I have a knack to get people's attention or listen to me I've noticed. When I talk whether at working joking around or in a group or room. I've noticed people not only smile, laugh and listen. I'm able to grab people's attention to me when speaking. I have charm and charisma. I've noticed that in the sense of getting people's attention. Like I've often gotten away whether in the classroom being a slight smartass and teachers still liking me whereas others see the principal or can tease or flirt or a slight cockiness and it comes off lovable charmijng to girls whereas, other guys it' doesn't work or obnoxious. I don't over do it either though. So I seem to be a blend of both. How common is it for people to both?
It isn’t until the 30s that women stop looking at the shine... I hate today’s society. People are more confused than ever about what is expected of them do I just don’t play... I’ll date but I am who I am and I will better myself to hell with women and what they think and if I don’t get kids cause I didn’t conform well oh fucking well at least I know there’s a woman out there missing out on what I have to offer at the same time lol
@brennanhuff There are 5 male archetypes. Perhaps you’re not an alpha or a beta, but something else entirely. Another thing to keep in mind is that archetypes aren’t specific. One archetype isn’t gonna describe all of your personality, because people are a spectrum. You’re not just one thing all the time. It’s the same with being introverted and extroverted, for example. No one is entirely introverted and no one is completely extroverted. Everyone has qualities of both categories, but lean towards one more than the other; and if they don’t lean to one, they are considered ambiverts. Archetypes are a simplistic way of explaining and categorizing certain behaviors and characteristics. They’re not meant to describe every aspect.
@princesssnowflake Your explanation to the alpha and beta question makes a lot of sense. Based on this, I am not an alpha male, but a beta male. Though that may make one think I'm a loser or something, I'm not. I have a good and relatively successful life. I just have no interest in being in the spotlight, and I don't mind following someone else. Other than that, I am confident enough to live my life, but I don't exude a lot of confidence like some charismatic person would. I have always been one to empathize and care, I put the needs of others before my own needs sometimes, and it actually makes me feel good about myself. I think because of that I attract a lot of women who want to be friends with me. Though it is rare for a woman to see me as a sexual interest, that is where the alpha male comes in, I believe. You are right when you say that it's a balance, a necessary balance. I'm content the way I am and I have always been. Thank you for this.If you ever want to be friends, don't be shy.
This makes you a white knight beta. Not being a gentleman but this part "... no matter if he knows them or not...". So if a girl punches a random man in the face, you would defend her and treat her like a lady? Thats beta worship women shit.
@bamesjond0069 Why would you say that? People enjoy putting words into another's mouth in 2020.I 'll answer it... if a woman punched a man and he reacted with violence? Yeah I would try and calm him down and if I couldn't calm him down than I would knock his teeth down his throat.(I have been hit on several occasions by women and never once have I physically retaliated, except for my sister, I was in the 8th grade and she was in the 7th)Point is not one of those hits hurt me. And I am 6' 4"
Lol yeah this makes you a beta white knight. Personally im not going to risk myself over some trashy ho who brought problems on herself. Id protect and help a lady but a lady would never punch a man.
People in third/second world are influenced by their backward culture which expect men to behave "dominant" or "macho". I am not hating on any men who live in Asia/middle eastern. It is just the backward culture which is the problem.
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Yes me too. One day one day LOL.
Well, the rate it's going I'll be dead and gone by then lol... But if my daughters and grandson get to live in that kind of world, that's good enough for me
Ha Ha Ha YESSSSS
You could be right!
Is the alpha/beta male terminology helpful, or hurtful? ↗
Just a fun post for people to think about. Can't be responsible for people who feel HARMED LOL.
I wouldn't hold you accountable either
Thats a tongue twister!
It's only my thoughts.
Archaic thinking you got there... gone are the times when women knew their place and men knew theirs... now we got more personalities than genders and everyone is trying to puzzle pieces them together. Used to be a man acted like this a woman acted like this and society just kept moving...
"I believe in women's right however, if it involves demeaning men n taking away traditional family structure then no."Unfortunately in general society this is exactly what it means. Its the give an inch take a mile saying come true. If women aren't allowed to say no, all men can essentially be alpha. The more freedom women have the more difficult many of them will become. The more difficult the less men capable of taming them till there's essentially none left.
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Sorry I meant to say only incels not men.
The other type of man who believes in the alpha concept is the one with deep underlying mental health issues that make him overindulge in casual sex and risky behaviors.
Anyone that can’t recognize subtle personality differences that make up “alpha” and “beta” males shouldn’t be allowed to date or reproduce ;)
@VanillaSalt Lmao. I recognize the personality differences. But the label of alpha or beta is ridiculous. I also would argue that you’re absolutely not a “alpha male”. Cringe.
Ide argue your right I’m not a charismatic person. Ima hard headed leader but I’m not the center of attention generally. Don’t want to be...
@VanillaSalt Ok, and? That doesn’t make you alpha or beta, it just makes you a regular person. I find it so funny when people label themselves as alpha or beta. It's hilarious
Alpha and beta are just parts of their personality’s. Do they take charge? Are they charismatic? Are they strong and independent. These are alpha traits... betas are more compassionate and supportive. They pick up the slack for leaders. They just get a bad rap because these are more accepted as feminine traits... women tend to prefer alphas
@VanillaSalt I understand the difference perfectly. The only issue is the label they assign to these traits, because it implies that alphas are somehow superior than betas (literally the definition of alpha is first, beta means second). I know there are differences between people, but calling them alpha or beta is pathetic. They're regular people, not some sort of special specimen just because they happen to be more confident and sure of themselves than you.
The labels only words... and implied is alphas come first thus leaders... leaders lead...
@VanillaSalt calling somebody a leader is better than calling them alpha. Because a lot of guys think that being alpha means having sex with tons of women which is truly laughable
Just because you disagree with the words used and other have slanged the word to hell don’t change the fact their alphas.A whores still a prostitute who’s still a harlot a hooker a jade a floozy a hussy a broad... many words same meaning... only in this case instead of choosing words that are synonymous we’re changing the definition... aka slang...
@VanillaSalt I don’t “disagree” with it, I just find it dumb how you come up with such a label. You can call that type of person a leader and that’s a good description. But alpha? Please. It makes them look like some sort of god that can’t be touched. Young men are influenced by that and they think they have to do risky stuff to become alphas. The label doesn’t do any good to anyone.
It’s a label... only sheep allow a label define them. We apply labels to everything and people don’t seem to understand they have to show they are above the label.I honestly feel that women and their actions effect men to a higher degree than any label. Example. I, for various reasons, don’t have time to date in person so I date online. I believe im average looking with interesting hobbies a good job and have various qualities women look for in men. I get no matches. Looking up why and tried many things... better bio, better pictures, lower standards, sending messages, paid services, multiple sites and apps... if a years worth of self-reflection molding myself gets me nowhere; I have to assume the problem is women. At least the women on dating apps.Meanwhile I’ve been labeled many times... I consider why they say so and decide yay or nay... I decide who and what I am and if you disagree oh well.Which do you suppose effects young men more, how people treat you or how they label you?
@VanillaSalt Eh, women don't affect men as much as their own male buddies. Men ignore what women want and only care what they think women want. Not the same things.Women want something, men think women want something completely different, and this is based on what their male friends tell them. Their little group. That affects them 100x more than what women say lol
Then maybe women shouldn’t say nothing wrong when SOMETHINGS WRONG! You women are to blame for that sending your mixed signals. Furthermore Women don’t know what they want proof is when they take home the bad boy who one night stands them... bitch course he left he’s bad!And don’t blame male buddies on this one I haven’t had a social life thanks to my job. Outside family I haven’t had time or interest.
@VanillaSalt Why did you escalate this from the "alpha male" label to blaming women? A lot of guys on this site blame women for every little tiny problem you have. Work on your issues instead of placing EVERYTHING on us. Look at the role you play here. This is pathetic.
Yes exactly... not seeing much of that anymore.
I’m one of them. I sunk myself into 62k of student loan debt in order to ensure that I’ll have 2 degrees and that I’ll be able to get a job that pays 6 figures.
Did you get that job?
Still working on it. I’m in school right now for Cybersecurity. Pays anywhere from 80 starting out- 400k
Alright man... sounds good! I am rooting for ya!
🙄Women are scared of real alphas..
@FýrdracaDócincel I love Alphas 😁❤️
No.. you don't.You think you do.
@FýrdracaDócincel Who are you to tell me what I like and don’t like? Alphas are my straight shot 😏
But if it goes against your opinion of what you think I like, then sure I’ll just “think” I do 😂 suits me fine lolSorry if you’re more concerned about it than I am
Someone with a brain.If you met a real alpha, you would round up all your ghetto bitch friends and male orbiters and send them all after him for whatever reason you pull out of your ass.The guys you think are alphas are just betas with more confidence than they ought to have.Being good at playing the social game (and, more pathetically, being proud of it) is a submissive trait.
@FýrdracaDócincel Being good at the social. game is a submissive trait? So you're imaging that by being a socially awkward weirdo you're an alpha male?
@Barbaric Obviously you can be tactless without being awkward.
You make any money yet? I need a loan dog!
I make average wages. Still looking for a high paying job. These snobs don't want a professional, they practice nepotism.
I thought you be rolling in cash and bitches by now!
I hear ya man! The world is cray cray right now!
Too bad. Money is absolutely everything and people don't have enough of it. Only the top 0.1% have it all.
And I mean, respect and consideration is expected these days
Rather than a ladies man
Women like you that talk down to men are the reason they don’t approach you.
@VanillaSalt lmao truth hurts right? Go bathe then maybe a woman will date you. I get men because I groom myself and put effort.
Lmao that’s why you’re single. You got a few things working for you like a baby face and men will settle for sex... and she thinks she’s good lol
@VanillaSalt LMAO I've had guys ask me out. I love how men get so fucking salty when I tell the truth, groom and take care of yourself then you'll score a date. holy fuck go cry to your mom mico dick man.
Trying to have some fun here not get all technical and stuff. lol
Truth is just plain truth. Fun or not.
Well the truth will not be told today.
Is this pic real? I never understand why some white women let this happen to them and accept it. Iwould beat the shit if him of hire someone to beat the fuck of him
I've been jumped by armed & unarmed men over a dozen times & brown women love them some blue eyed white devil. Additionally, men are roughly twice as strong as women. She likes to feel dominated, like all women. Get right or get left.
Only cowards love such men. I still would hire someone to beat the fuck of him or maybe let his dick cut off
Omg this makes me so angry. Nobod should treat someone like this and it does not matter which gender you have.
But i am sorry how you get treated by some assholes
Hahahaha! My dad tried to beat me in my sleep, I've been jumped with my jacket pulled over my head, on ice and been in several knife fights, starting at the age of three. You couldn't hurt me with all your male acquaintances at the same time. All you could do is try to get close enough to bite me and I'd sense you malice from a mile away. Pretty is skin deep, but ugly is to the bone. Refer back to my above comment on marriage, cohabitation and childbirth being at all time lows. We see you girls.After I wreck their whole crew, in pure self defense, their women call me the a-hole. However, those same women are aroused by me. Know your place, sugarplum.
You need to go to a doctor. You sound like a sociopath. I am serious. You need help. I dont understand why the government dont do a thing when your dad hit you. Here they would take your kids away if you scold them hahah. Anyway i am really for you
I am really sorry for you**
Again it is not ok to hit anyone except when it comes to self defense. You should go to Police when some tries to hit you again
> Girl likes being ruffled up a little > boy shares picture with relationship statistics > other girl wants him beaten and castrated > boy laughs MANically > girl send him to female psychiatrist for girl training> girl advises boy become a snitch, like a girl > boy laughs MANically [Freakishly big diq intensifies]
Only insane girls like such boys
Porn featuring violence against women is more popular among women, than among men and we all know that women love a bad boy; because he *knows* that men are smarter, stronger and more virtuous than women. Hahahaha! You're so mad right now! 🥰
I am not mad, just shocked at your insanity. You know bdsm in porm does not necassarily means violonce
Whatever you say sweetheart. Daddy loves you. 😍