Should you quit your job, if your boyfriend /girlfriend does not want you to work at the sane place as your ex?

[Anonymous]

What would you do?

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+1 y

same place as your ex*******

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Depand how much time and dedication i invest in that job?
How much i get paid?
How much i like the job?
If the answer to thous question are "a lot" then i will not live.
But if i don't really like the job and i'm not for a long time ther and i don't even get good money, then yes.

[Anonymous]

Same or sane?

Same:

Why you have to leave, why not him?

Yes, it is not best practice to work at same place together.

Sane:

Why you work with mental people are you employee of some mental institution or all toxic people surrounding you at work?

[Konabeana]

Yeah that is a selfish request, I agree with some of these comments. Red-flag for me.

[JosyJosy]

No, if the job pays well and I love the job, I'm not quitting. He needs to trust me.

[Don-_-Don]

Depends if you can easily get a different job.
With my current situation, I wouldn't quit my job for a reason like that. It's hard as hell to get a job rn.

[GingerGuy]

That tells me she doesn't trust me.

Jobs aren't easy to get these days, and good jobs especially. So this is a pretty selfish request.

[sadMeester]

It depends on how good the job is and how deep it went with my ex

[Anonymous]

My fiance would never ask that of me and I would never be able to get him to if he loved his job. We have to be mature he would say.

[temp292]

Well I quit just because I confessed to this girl in office and some people found it out. And yep, she rejected me after playing with me for a short a while. I just had to quit the job I loved

[temp292]

Do you think I was being immature or plain stupid there?

[Opinion Owner]

@temp292 In this Case you saved Face. Not immature.

[temp292]

Thank you for giving me confidence. Actually I was trying to get the job again. Then they seemed like they were angry about my action of leaving suddenly. I stopped trying. Did I make myself embarrassed by doing it?

[Opinion Owner]

@temp292 Not at al. I bet You have aJob now that is Better for you

[Juxtapose]

I would just pat them on the head and tell them they have nothing to worry about. That suggestion is so crazy I wouldn't take it seriously.

[Red_Arrow]

If you have worked your way up and have a great job/career going it would take years to build that again. Her petty distrust of me is the problem.

[idkwattoputhere]

Once he gets me another job that pays the same or more first

[Snowman666]

yes leave. If you love them. why torrment there head? Anyone would think about it often, regardless of trust. If you love them, a job is nothing.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like it will be a problem until someone leaves that job

[cjgsu]

No...

[Kelly6]

Finding a new job is not easy