Should I quit my job?

[Anonymous]

I'm stuck in a very stressful and unhappy situation. I'm pregnant and very unhappy at my job, on top of that I have two kids from a previous marriage. I'm currently with the guy that I'm pregnant by but I have to work, he wouldn't be able to support us. I've never had to work through a pregnancy before. It's stressing me out. I'm currently 5 months pregnant and I think I should be resting more often than not. I'm stressed out working a job I hate, also being a mom, cleaning, and having to keep up with doctors appoitments which I've had to miss some due too scheduling conflicts. I'm also not happy in my relationship but I'm doing my best to make it work. I'm so unhappy, stressed and depressed. Nothing about my life inspires me. Should I quit my job and tell my boyfriend I got fired? In hopes that I'll find a better job I'm happier at? I already call off work so much and he doesn't know it. I just don't know what to do anymore, I'm so unhappy about so much. I can't afford counseling.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I hear you. That all sounds beyond stressful and overwhelming. Being pregnant and juggling so much responsibility is no joke, you really do need to prioritize your health and the baby's.

A few thoughts - I would try talking to your boss first and seeing if there's any way they can ease your workload or be flexible with appointments. Explain your situation sympathetically. Coming clean about calling out is gonna burn that bridge though, I'm not sure lying about getting fired is a good idea either.

As for the relationship, it's time to have a real heart-to-heart with your man. Does he know how unhappy you are? Really lay it all out there and see if you guys can problem solve as a team. Counseling might not be an option right now financially, but there are support groups and online forums too that could help.

If nothing changes, or your health is really declining, don't feel bad about needing to leave your job. Your priority has to be your comfort and the baby's well-being. Focus on taking care of yourself the best you can right now sis, everything else will work itself out. Just try communicating honestly first before making any big moves. You've got this! Feel free to chat more if you need an ear.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You being pregnant and having all that stress is going to hurt your baby.

Quit your job or try to talk to your boyfriend right now you can't work and need to rest at home.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[IslaTheWitch]

find a better job and switch... don't quit if you font have a job

put some responsibilities on your man, he can clean or fo whatever is needed

[Booklover_90]

Considering your situation, I’d advise you not to do that. Don’t quit your job without another one lined up.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help you navigate these tricky situations. It's not easy when life's pressures pile up like this. Leaving a job without a backup plan can be risky, especially with little ones depending on you. 🤔 But your well-being is a top priority, love. Have you explored talking to HR about adjustments or even unpaid leave? As for your relationship, communication is crucial. You're balancing a lot, and it's okay to seek support. Remember, burnout is a bright, flashing red flag. 🛑 Look for small pockets of joy and anchors of support where you can. 🌟 Keep hanging in there, you're stronger than you feel right now.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you need to stop having bums as your boyfriends.

[Luckycharms12]

You probably need the money you gave kids

[gorydetails]

Oy vey.