Is low self esteem and self conscious a turn off?

[Anonymous]

Would u date that person?

It is, I wouldn’t date him/her

It not, I would give it a chance

[thegirlfromthething]

It depends on how low his self-esteem is. A mild lack of self confidence can be endearing or at least tolerable but if it’s severe that can be annoying. I don’t want to be with a guy who’s so insecure that he constantly seeks validation, doubts my feelings for him, can’t take any constructive criticism, or never makes a move.

[jabberwocky00]

I LOVE low self esteem and self consciousness in a man and frankly, it’s getting old hearing women only like confidence, fuck that. I love to make the unconfident men feel happy. They are amazing too.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

I can't deal with too shy personally. But the other stuff you said doesn't sound too bad

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Thank you for mho 🤪

[idkwattoputhere]

Depends if your not over doing it

[itzmera]

no, because if you really like that person, you'd try to help them with that

[I-have-a-biscuit]

I need a "it is, but I'll give it a chance"

[Reaperbot666]

need self love before you can find love elsewhere