Am I shallow for thinking that I am out of his league? (Page 2)

Question

Met this super nice guy on a dating app. I really like his personality, but I’m not really attracted to him. I am just going to say it: I feel like I am out of his league. I don’t want to hurt him. We’ve been texting and talking for a few weeks now, haven’t met in person. I told him that I want to take it slow. Guys, I know that I sound shallow af. I’m stuck I don’t know what to do.

Acidgamer · Answer

If he really is a nice guy I think that you should at least give it a try. For all you know he may be better than you already thought 😊

PotatoeKing · Answer

Have some confidence, you can throw this put the window or make a real relationship. Just make sure you are happy with your choice.

Pejtu · Answer

Yes u are stuck up bitch honestly  Dont waste his time if u dont wanna be with him

Anonymous · Answer

The idea of leagues is dumb. You either are interested in someone or you are not. Taking things slow is always a good idea in dating.

Sparda20xx · Answer

If I guy said he was out of your league how would you feel about it. There's your answer.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Frankly yes My exes were far out of my league... why they chose me shall remain a mystery that I could ask about but won't

Anonymous · Answer

If you don't find him attractive in that way, then don't take this any further. Without attraction, romance can't happen.

Redblue7889 · Answer

If a woman is attracted to a man he is above you so yes he is out of your league. Also if he dated you your hypergamy will tell you he's below you and you can get better options. Women want the shiny toy then get bored.

Guardian45 · Answer

"If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself." - Desiderata

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's best to quit texting him and talking. I would say why and then move on. You're wasting his time.

Maria0079 · Answer

Tell him you like him but your not attracted him he’s not your type.

dragoblack · Answer

Lol no, that's not shallow, just insecure and lack of confidence

Anonymous · Answer

If you're not attracted to him why did you swipe right?

Protein_mate · Answer

So why talk to him then lmao. Just tell him the truth and leave

Dazzler1983 · Answer

If you are not attracted to him then that's fine. Just put him out of his misery

TallAnon · Answer

Yeah, but that's fine. You just don't like him enough, next.

AlwaysOutdoors · Answer

Perfect chance and ideals to miss out on amazing and endless possibilities... loose perimeters show us what we don't know we like

Slim57 · Answer

What's the point in talking to him if you're not attracted to him

MrTwix · Answer

Depends on weather or not you're out of his league.

Anonymous · Answer

Be cruel and direct... be repellent if you want. This works with girls every time.

CubanLove · Answer

If you aren’t attracted to him then it won't work.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

You’re not into him so don’t lead him on

Dave31989 · Answer

def. you've got gossip girl written all over your face

fonduegirl · Answer

Way to subconsciously reject a guy😖

magiusX26 · Answer

very shallow. but also honest

Gedaria · Answer

You look great , be in anyone's league...

Snickermarstwix · Answer

Why matching with him?

Iamcoming · Answer

You can talk manly. İt can understand your heart

schattenherz · Answer

Well why did you waste His time than?

Anonymous · Answer

It's nothing shallow, it's practical.

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

It’s a bit ugly

Mia-Wallace · Answer

Leave him be.

Brrrrrrrr · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

Typical of females under 30

mrgspoter · Answer

Awe bless come here let me help you little lady

Onionboi227 · Answer

Poor man! Nice guys always get hurt

JKingOff · Answer

Yes.

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Naw your not shallow

ronaldo75 · Answer

How old are you?

alwaysdreaming16 · Answer

ya kinda

In_Trance · Answer

yeah

Yuuibtony · Answer

No nit at all

jimmy2 · Answer

Br careful

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

If thats your pic😘

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