
- Reading all these answers I find it funny that if the question was "Would you date a human rights activist" most would not bat an eye saying yes, how it was a worthy cause.
Before I go any further, her agenda or activism has no inkling of relevance to me, specially compared with character and personality. That is my answer.
Women wanting to have equal rights around the globe - that's what is dangerous? A woman treats some men badly or the relationship goes sour: "she was a feminist". What a PC way of saying she was a c_nt!
Reality check: even great advocates of Human RIGHTS causes in public can be as much of a bastard as everyone else in private. One bad relationship and you're scarred... And maybe scared as well.
That's human. But sayin a women who does not give you the respect he or she deserves is automatically a "so-called feminist" is getting real old, real fast.
It's not about gender, it's not about ethnicity, or background. It's about who that woman is, what she wants, and if se wants me to be by her side or not.
In the end, like Jean-Paul Sartre once wrote:
It doesn't matter what they did to you. What does matter is what YOU do with what they have done to you.3|00|3Is this still revelant?Excellent answer! Every movement, religion, organizations have bad people. Doesn't mean that everyone is bad. But people and media concentrate on these people. Every time someone hears the word "feminist", they think she is hates men and think that women are superior. A feminist fights for women rights, that's it.
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- It depends on if she's actually about getting equal, or if she's out to punish men because she's not getting what she wants out of life. I think any person deserves a fair shot and shouldn't be treated as less, but I'm not going to be a verbal punching bag for someone strictly because I'm male for that same reason. I think a lot of men are likely to dislike the idea of the word feminist because, as it is with most any group, the dumb ones are also the loud ones. There are a lot of feminists out there that just want the same opportunities and respect as men, and that's exactly what they should get. That's what feminism should be accomplishing.
Then there are feminists that believe that they need to treat men horribly to make up for what's been done to them. They're looking for revenge or something I guess? Either way, they're just constantly giving attitude, posting negative crap all over social media, trying to insult men and bully them into agreeing with something, and if a man should ever disagree with what they think on the issue, then he is "mansplaining" for even having an opinion or trying to be part of the conversation. In any situation between two different groups of people, shutting down communication is not going to help either side. That's part of what oppressed women in the first place. They had no voice and were made to feel they couldn't be a part of the conversation.
It's really a shame that those few but loud people have made a bad name for the entire movement, because the original vision of that movement was long overdue by the time it started. I would date a feminist depending on her values, but most guys I know would hear that word feminist and assume that the whole relationship would be one big argument and blame session. I really hope it doesn't stay that way.1|00|0Is this still revelant?"the dumb ones are also the loud ones."-exactly this. Well said! Everyone treats feminist as a bad word.
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- Feminist as in modern feminism or the reasonable one?
I would not date a man who completely ignores gender roles. They exist for a reason and one day when i marry, i will be practicing most of them.
I also would not date a man who think once we get married , I am like his property. I am still a free woman.1|30|0Is this still revelant?Free woman? What do you mean? That you can do anything that you want and do not respect your husband and act like your single and not married?
By that i mean i want to keep working and earn money. I would still want to take care of myself and look good. I would still want to have fun and have some alone. If that means im posing as single to you, then I am not the issue here.
Good for you, i suggest that you better stay single unless you find a male rat cause no real loyal man would accept a chick like you! đ
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yea an anon who flexs his fake muscles. Why on earth would i want a âmanâ like you anyways? Your ego is so weak that it is triggered when i talk about my preference haha
You wish to have a man like me! đ
In your dreams!
Also i'm not an anon! It seems your blind!
I never mentioned that i want you, if you were the last chick on earth i prefee to stay alone on having a garbage like you!
Now f*ck off cause your boring me! đ
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- Do you mean feminazis or just general feminists?
I'd say I'm a feminist by default for wanting equality (why would a movement need to be named after females is for another question!) but I'm not a bra burner who'd want the male race enslaved as some sick retribution.1|20|0Is this still revelant?
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1090- People use the word "feminist" to mean many different things and a question such as this should include a definition of the term. Otherwise, you can't really get any meaning from the results, especially a poll. "Feminist" can mean a hostile, castrating, bitter lesbian or it can refer to a feminine lady who believes only that both genders should have equal opportunities. BIG difference.4|60|0
A fairer point would be... Can we still allow people to use the word "feminist" to discriminate against - some, if you will - women, like the words gay and coloured...
@MAC1983 You said -"Can we allow"? How would we control people's speech and thoughts?
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@SuccessfulHornDog. Or. . . why should we try control people's thoughts or speech?
Do not confuse thought control Ă la Orwell, Bradbury and Huxley... with simple ignoring, blocking and reporting trolls who make nothing online except personal insults to people who want to ask and answer questions, like you!
I am sorry if that was unclear - but the idea of me as a Big Brother made me laugh so... No harm, no foul!@MAC1983 Just to play devil's advocate, the person that you are blocking or reporting is no more big brother than you. They are simply expressing themselves.
Really? Is them calling peopke a lady, a cunt and a homosexual expressing themselves? (noone of which I have a problem
It's that why we came to Guy ask Girls? To have people call those who answer your own questions offensive gibberish?
And have you considered the Lucifer twist that I might just be expressing myself by not allowing that shit in my own questions? đđ@MAC1983 Yes, I considered it but it seemed like you were looking to control things that you consider offensive over and above G@G. Maybe I misread that but it is what I was thinking
- Since there is no central authority for feminism, it leaves it to the individual to decide what that means to them. I have seen some really extreme (not radical) "feminist" whose ideas and beliefs would totally gross you out. Some are cool and are really just trying to ensure that they, their sisters, mothers and daughters will have a better life than they have now. I also want the best for my female family members and friends. Even though I have never or ever call myself a feminist, there are some things I do support as an advocate for women's rights. I have no problems with a woman who calls herself a feminist, it's their beliefs and actions that I care about.2|00|0
- Feminist is a pretty big umbrella term that covers a wide variety of opinions on women's issues.
I have dated a vocal self proclaimed feminist before. Feminists are not all loud angry sjws like they are commonly portrayed. For example the feminist i dated was pretty far left on the political spectrum, but she had a few political points where she was actually kind of moderate or even more conservative.
Just goes to show that the portrayal of feminists as the loud mouthed angry sjw is not accurate.
I'd encourage everyone to date a feminist if they get the chance. Chances are they will challenge you to think about the world differently. And that can be really healthy.1|00|0 - It depends on how feminist she was. I consider myself a feminist but I'm also a beilever in equity. I think for the health of society both genders need to be supported and valued equally. I put it this way, if you had a son would you want you son treated less because he was a boy vs a woman. Now I'm coming from a place that women currently are becoming more high lighted every day. Men are the bad and women are the good. That feels like what the trend is, just watch the new harley quinn movie and that is the theme.
To me it's important that every person regardless of gender is supported. That every person is special and has a special part in this world. No one should feel any less for being born a certain gender.
That's my view anyway.
In a nutshell, I want what's best for women1|00|0 - Married to one. What is said about them is greatly exaggerated.
She doesn't nag me.
She doesn't keeps getting triggered over nothing.
She doesn't talks about patriarchy all the time. In fact I never heard her say that word.
Do you know what she does? Cook, clean, dress and act feminine as well as pamper me all the time.
Want the cherry on top of the cake? She has a job and she makes more than me and has never once brag about it or throw it to my face.
And yes she is a feminist. What you think you know comes from the insane ones. Don't let them define the rest.1|10|0 - In order for a woman who had similar views to my own to self-identify as a feminist, she would have to manipulate the definition of feminism until it ceased to accurately reflect the word's etymology.
So the answer is either "no" or "yes, but she's not *really* a feminist, and just *thinks* she is".0|00|0 - Anonymous1 moNo, I would not. I have before and I will never do it again.
Here's the thing. Modern feminism claims to be about equality, but it doesn't take a genius to see it isn't about equality at ball. Modern feminism is a very corrosive and divisive influence in society and any little bits of good it may do here and there are far outweighed by the bad things it does.
Feminism divides men and women, pure and simple. And any woman who is either 1) too dishonest to acknowledge that fact, or 2) aware of the facts about feminism but still OK with identifying as a feminist... any woman like that is not worthy of the time and attention of a good man.
Today virtually everyone supports the ideals of fairness and equal opportunity, and there is no reason to label yourself something in order to support those ideals, especially when there is so much harm done in the name of the same label. Just be a good person and fight for what is right.1|10|0 - The Bible says that the man is the head of the Christian household (1 Corinthians 11:3), and that the wife should respect the husband (Ephesians 5:33) and be modest (1 Peter 3:1-6). Such teachings are incompatible with the tenets of feminism and in fact the feminists I've heard remind me of the kind of woman the Bible warns about (Proverbs 20:9, 19; 22:14).1|00|0
- Anonymous1 moFirst of all, let's just establish right up front that feminism is what it is, not what it used to be or what we wish it was. Feminism is as feminism does, and what feminism has been DOING in the western world for the last decade or more is despicable. Anyone who supports feminism TODAY is supporting what feminism is DOING TODAY.
Having said that, why in the world would any self-respecting man date a self-proclaimed feminist?
And more to the point, why in the world would any good woman support feminism today?1|00|0 - No way! Even if she was thr last woman on earth!
I'm an anti feminist!
Our minds are never compatible and feminists are aggressive and thinks that she can be a man while personally i have no red lines on beating a woman who acts like that which mean i'll seriously hurt her!
I prefer to stay away from them and they do not dare to step in my territory...0|01|0 - Yeah, I think many girls consider themselves feminists, whitch is fine but a subset of the feminist group are radical and often place the blame of every social injustice on men whitch isn't fair. They see modern men with contempt even though we had nothing to do with inequities of the past. Some of us are progressively trying to improve relations. It's also untrue to say women had zero influence in society prior to 1980 it's just plain wrong.1|00|0
- Again? NEVER in a million years! *F*CK NO!* Literally no self-respecting man would. Why would I ever want to date someone who's the worst combination of sexist (against women, but especially men), stupid, bitchy, and hostile? And to add to it, if she can't even respect HERself merely for being a woman, then why should I? Wait; I'm male, so she wouldn't respect me, anyway.1|00|0
- feminist means different things. a blue haired angry bitch that yells "mansplaining" everyday and spends her time on twitter in hate mobs? no no non o no
a girl who just uses the term because her friends do but isn't radical and just wants to close "the pay gap" which doesn't exist anymore? fine0|00|0 - Depends, do you mean an actual femenist, or just a crazy bitch doing crazy shit and pretending nite feminism?3|00|1
Then I could only date a femenist. Still not sure you define the term the same way I do but there is a simple way to find out. Who are some of your favorite strong female protagonists from TV, movies, or books?
I actually don't have many, but I like Black widow and Elizabeth Bennet from Pride and Prejudice.
- No, though there are many women who believe in the "dictionary definition" of feminism the fact that they support a hate movement that hides behind the language of equality and acceptance would be too big of a gap for me. I am an active anti-feminist and it would just cause too many domestic problems.1|00|0
- If she was open minded enough to at least listen to the factual issues with her ideology... maybe.
A closed minded zealot that refuses to accept facts that counter the wage gap, rape culture and patriarchy theory? Not a chance.
Only saying that because I have met one recently, that we do seem to get along in a fire meets ice sort of way. Closet misandrist meets closet misogynist... it's the making of a sitcom.1|00|0 - I'm a girl, married, bi, and no I wouldn't. They tend to be self hating and very hung up on labels and trying to be masculine.2|50|0
- Depends on the type. Cassie Jaye type or Christina Hoff Sommers type, Sure.. But the kind that believes all men are abusers, pedophiles, sex offenders. the kind that actively man hate, the kind that refuse to do any basic hygiene, The kind that believe idiotic things like the wage gap, and the 1 in 4 idiocy. Those are literally cancer and not human.. And more importantly not worth my time, effort, energy, or respect.1|00|0
- No way. Feminism has never been about equality, the name itself is not about equality, it's basically pro-women. Modern feminists are even more extreme in that aspect since modern feminism tends to be more and more into man hating and gaining power. I want a relationship where I feel like my partner and I are on the same level, and I don't think I'll get that with a feminist.2|10|0
- I will like to date a feminist because whit all the girl that i have date and they whas feminist all of them didn't have arguments agains my words.
They all keep dating me for some days, i like theyr ideologis of "independent woman" but when they need to face the reality is a little to much for them.
I love them because they are so naive, but olso dave a desire for power.1|00|1 - I would give her full rights and freedom to take her decision, she can do what we want to. But, I don't expect her to roll on the roads with poster in hand. I respect woman power and She can do what she want to. But I want the extremism thing where she will announce about Feminism everywhere.1|00|1
- Anonymous1 moyea, but depends what you mean by feminist.
like if you mean a normal fem yea ofc but if you mean like the type that's like an ancom that owns a few 'future is female' tier crop tops, doesn't shave bc 'smash the patriarchy', always complains about men and sexism, genuinly owns a pussy hat & stans antifa, fuck no.1|00|0 - Depends upon how you define the term:
A classical equality under the law feminist? Yes.
A "give me taxpayer-funded birth control " and/or a Clementine Ford "kill all men" feminist? Not if she were the last woman on the planet.1|00|0 - Yes I would. For me other questions way more crucial like what´s her goal/aim of being in a relationship with a guy. Because I don´t think it´s a good idea to be in a relationship just because one doesn´t want to be single anymore.2|00|0
- I have.
She was selfish.
Would never do it again.
It felt like she was getting revenge for other men being bad to other women and she was gonna show them... by being mean to me and trying to dominate and humiliate me.1|10|0 - you mean like an advocate for women equality, empowerment, and opportunity? you'd be an asshole of a dude to go against that. That is like sayin fuck LGBTQ and thinking yo're gonna get some likes and shares
and retweets1|00|0 - Of course. Dated one, married one. Not sure of your definition of a feminist. The major court cases for women's equality aren't all that old.0|00|0
- Depends, if she gets extremely offended then nopeeee but if she just feels there's a difference and has the opinion instead of ripping someones head off then yeh ofc its her traits but still it depends on how much of a fanatic they are1|00|0
- Anonymous1 moThat would depend on your definition feminist.
A first/second wave Feminist most likely as I'd be able to work with them.
A fourth/current wave Feminist probably not as they tend to have the 'I'm the boss' attitude and compromise is not in their vocabulary/dictionary, unless its the man doing all the compromising.1|00|0 - Not unless I want my penis to be cut off in my sleep then accused of rape and sent to prison while being milked for alimony and child support for a paternity fraud kid.1|20|0
- No.. Most of them want to be the man in the relationship. They want to do everything the man do, and it's hard to love each other cause she put herself in a position in which a woman can't love you deeply1|00|0
- Depends mam, If by feminist you mean a woman who wants equal rights for them then yes.
But if you mean those who are anti men then no mam, I won't date her.
Sorry if it sounded rude mam.1|00|0 - It's more like this these days.1|00|1
No way! Only a mother can nurse a baby and the father will take good care of both!
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- Nope. I got an image that they think that men don't matter. I would be treated as a 4th class citizen. I want to have mutual respect with my girlfriend. I would like her to be independent yet feminine.1|00|0
- If by feminist a woman who worked her ass off and want equal rights and responsibilities and duties then yes. But if it is a misogynistic feminazi brigade then a big no1|10|0
- When I was younger, yes. Now that I'm older, I'll pass.1|00|0
I'm a masculine man and feminist tend to try to effeminate men in the relationship or they be with emasculated men
- A riveter named Rosie? Yes.
A "feminist" by today's typical definition? No.0|00|0 - Maybe for some short adventure, not more.
They are weirdos or extremists.0|00|0 - Yes, because at least I know she has some common sense then.0|00|0
- Not in this world nor any orher world through out the entire galaxy.0|00|0
- Hell no there is a difference between equality and modern day man-hating she-beasts that masquerade as âfeministsâ0|00|0
- Hell no. Feminists are the worst of the worst. They have terrible personalities. And basically they do everything that makes themselves as unattractive as possible for a relationship.1|00|0
- It would depend on a few factors but it would not be a deal breaker.1|00|0
- A woman that is into social fairness for women, yes. A modern day loud mouth idiot feminist then no.1|20|0
- This is a loaded question. There are some self described feminists who would never date a guy like me. My wife considers herself a feminist in that she believes in equal opportunity for all. So I guess, yes I would.1|00|0
- Feminist or not. If i like a woman, then i like a woman.1|10|1
- No I prefer a girl who is easygoing and know her limits and responsibilities towards me and kids1|30|0
- Maybe just to see what it was like. I wouldn't have to be Nostradamus to predict it wouldn't last though.1|00|0
- No thanks , that's seems stressful. Feminist are generally unhappy and I don't like that negative energy.1|10|0
- No, they are the worst in bed.
I like traditional, more subservient girls who I can pamper.0|00|0 - Well feminist means two very different things at the same time today.0|00|0
- Feminist are often annoying and hard to deal with so I wouldn't date a stereotypical feminist.1|00|0
- Feminists are usually opportunists in disguise. It's a risk to take.1|20|0
- No, because no offense but most of then feel like all men owe them something because of some things that some men years ago have done or keep doing. Were not all necessarily bad1|00|0
- Absolutely, true feminists just want to be treated equally, I am all for that... ;)1|00|1
- No because i have a feeling that she will complain about everything1|10|0
- Anonymous1 moDepends on the type. A feminist who believes in actual equality yes. But a feminist who hides behind the banner of feminism so she can call her hatred of men a worthy cause I'd never date.1|20|0
That's very disgusting, iv called out many for such behaviour... what happened to being honest about things... am I right?
- Depends on the feminist, if she was a 16th wave feminist that believes all men should be below her then no. If she believed in equality then yes.1|00|0
- The label isnât a dealbreaker, but when theyâre too extreme to understand my politically incorrect sense of humour, then no1|00|0
- Yes I would given that she is really interested in me and I'm interested in her1|00|0
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