Guys, would you date a feminist girl?

Question

Feminist girls are multicultural.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hah! What a silly question. Of course, we would - as long as she had a pair of boobs that were as feminist as she was! I mean, can you imagine anything sexier than a woman who fights for gender equality AND has a pair of breasts that are just as woke as she is? It's like a dream come true.

Picture this: we're out on a date, discussing the latest issues in the feminist movement while stealing glances at her impressive, feminist-friendly ta-tas. We talk about the wage gap, the #MeToo movement, and the patriarchy, all while admiring her perky, proud-of-her-body boobies. And when the conversation turns to more intimate matters, well, let's just say that we're ready to explore her body with the same level of passion and curiosity that we bring to our discussions of social justice.

Dating a feminist girl with feminist-friendly boobies is like having our cake and eating it too. It's like winning the jackpot AND finding out that the jackpot is made entirely of boobs. It's like discovering that unicorns are real AND that they're all feminists with a penchant for nipple clamps.

And let's not forget the incredible possibilities that come with having a feminist girl with feminist-friendly knockers as our partner in crime. Together, we could take on the world, fighting for equality and justice while also enjoying the sweet, sweet pleasure of feminist-friendly breasts. It's like being Batman and Robin, but instead of fighting crime, we're fighting the patriarchy while also fondling some fantastic feminist funbags.

So, to answer the question - would we date a feminist girl? Hell yeah, we would. Because there's nothing sexier than a woman who is confident, passionate, and unapologetically herself - especially when she's also got a pair of feminist-friendly gazongas that are just begging to be admired and loved. Feminism and boobs - it's a match made in heaven.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

One of the most beautiful things about women is who ther are in this world
If they are confident if they are smart. If they are wise. If they are happy they pick there path out in life and they take it on incoming the ride and feeling good about it everything they touch they make it work

That's the girl for me

Then on the other side of the coin you have the women who try to do and have all the above and even tho she wants all the above it's either not all there or she project all the above to let you know that's who she is but having not enough confidence or just way to much as if she has to force it on you so you believe her that's who she really is but really it's who she wants to be or want ms you to believe that's who she is but she will never get there mostly because she's to busy trying to force it. On others she wants you to know how hard it is trying to make people believe that's who she is. . and for me no one had to prove anything
The first girl I talk about is everything I like.
The second girl I run from

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If I were a guy; I think it depends on what type of feminist you are. Because if you’re obnoxious and get easily offended and easily butthurt and are a snowflake ❄️ all day everyday? That could easily irritate anyone. That could irritate both men & women.

You could be a peaceful and quiet and caring feminist… But the way most feminists present today doesn’t look honorable and respectful.

They look like clowns and they look obnoxious. Just like the lgbt waving their cringe flags. This is not the way to change people and change the patriarchy.

You all look laughable, you make people want to bully you. You make people cringe. And you make people hate you more.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/t-ugRkQilzk

It also depends what type of unfairness you’re fighting against. Because in reality, men have a stronger physique naturally.

They biologically are the physically stronger gender / sex. They are, they just are. They’re made for combat and to protect. This is biologically what they’re built for.

Putting women in Military and Police IS A BAD IDEA. Unless the woman is a bodybuilder who weighs 200 POUNDS OF MUSCLE.

Sirenboobzilla · Accepted Answer

There's some levels of feminism that even I get annoyed with. The ones who blame men for all of our troubles are by far the most annoying. If I were a guy I'd steer clear of that

MrOracle · Answer

Absolutely not. Feminist women aren't suitable for relationships.

Avicenna · Answer

I have before. Not my preference though.

Femalefashionadmirer · Answer

Feminists on paper have strong and convincing beliefs. The problem is many feminists they had some trauma or something going on concurrent in their early life, or issues with boys or younger men growing into adulthood for them to have issues or trust with them as they get older.

Another issue with a feminist girl is she can be very theoretical while most men are pragmatic, logical. It's not to say the girl is wrong, or the man is always right. Some feminists will talk about some wild things and dump it on the men, the ones who aren't biologically female to fully understand. Subjects like mensuration policy, or abortion, or some really female-specific policies that only females could discuss fully, but believe in this fantasy that men can discuss it too. Feminism has mutated into different forms, now it's a full blown assault on the patriarchy as the boogy-man (no pun intended) but I also don't think the ol white boy's network is the issue for why women can't advance. For instance the patriarchy wasn't the glass wall in the first wave in the 60s and 70s, but suddenly in the 2010s/20s it is.

I wouldn't date a feminist girl not for political reasons, but her philosophical differences (the ideas around to address the policies). I wished we could talk about the policies, and the ideals, and not frame everything of a left vs right, red vs blue or even blue vs pink. In fairness, the manosphere podcasts are not helping the matters either. I would certainly also not date a tradfem type myself.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

As in actual feminism? We're all relatively equalish? Sure I'd give it a shot, see how that goes. Convenience feminism, where you get to be equal everywhere you want but I still pay the tab on all the dates and you do none of the chores around the house like cooking because "patriarchy" or some silly shit? Hard pass. You eat, you cook. You're an adult. If I'm to cook every meal until the stars burn out then what do you bring to the table?

Speaking of, she'd have to actually bring something to the table. "Watch me be empowered" isn't something she brings to the table.

Seems pretty unlikely for me to find that person. The ones I've met that pretended to be weren't happy with the concept of the prenuptial agreement.

MystiKaL · Answer

If she is one of those feminist terrorists, the one where almost everything male is a sin and she gets offended by the most minor things, then absolutely not. I wouldn't even want to be within a mile of a woman like that.

However, if she is pro female, believes in equality where appropriate, is one of those ladies that believes that she can carry on with life without constantly asking for male help, then I love women like this!

I am very pro female and it's important to distinguish the difference between hateful wokes and women who can achieve their goals and dreams independently.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

A great many non-feminist women are also multi-cultural. Heck, I know several personally. However, to answer your question, no. We are just too entirely different. Granted, I am not interested in “trad” types either. Hell, it is a myth that trad women cook and clean so that being a selling point for the sort of fellows who prefer those woman are in for an awakening. Peaceful, pleasant, kind, and has got your back and I have her’s would leave me content. Since ‘she’ doesn’t exist, men, get yourself a dog. A dog is always happy to see you.

Pyrofox · Answer

In my case I'd probably pass cause Feminist girls come off as hubris and lack of self control. And the energies most feminists give off are the exact opposite I'd want to present as an example of being an adult for the three nieces I have that follow me around. I'm mostly the chill, relaxed and have fun type so anyone with a stiff ridgid mindset would probably lose their mind.

slatyb · Answer

I married one. I keep hearing this use of "feminist" meaning "misandrist". "Feminism" means believing in the legal equality of the sexes -- supporting women's right to vote, conduct business, establish credit, and to be considered equal to men in various legal matters.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Sure, I don't mind a strong minded woman and sticks up for herself and other people it shows she has character.

However, if that's all she's about, then I'm not interested. It's one thing to stick up for yourself and your beliefs, but, it is quite different if all you do is pick a fight to make your point all the time. It get's old real quick.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would say it depends on how good we get along. Because if we both can agree on certain values and goals we have for the relationship, I´d say yes. If it ends in her always blaming me for problems and she trying to control me and talk down to me or she telling me how bad men are at everything the answer is no.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Nope. I’d date a girl that is confident. Feminist women are so insecure with aspects about themselves that they go out of their way to claim positive traits about themselves. Rather than simply doing things to prove such things.

If you have to tell others that you’re brave, strong, confident etc. you aren’t

LiamJHayden · Answer

Define the term as you use it. Some feminists are just about equality under the law. Most guys would date them. Some are like Clementine Ford. Most guys would rather date a meth addict.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd like a girl who is pro women, that's cool she believes in something. But if she identifies as a feminist it's probably gonna be a red flag lol

That's like saying your pro minorities if you're with Antifa.

Even if you are, for you to say that just shows how uneducated you are.

Anonymous because I worded this sloppy

Anonymous · Answer

It’s a horrifying idea.
Everyone has their problems and I can respect fighting to resolve them but that isn’t what modern day feminism is about. They only care about satisfying their hero complex while simultaneously trying destroy society and ruin the lives of innocent men women who had little or nothing to do things that they insist on nagging about.

They’re really about hating men these days and i don’t wanna touch that with 100ft pole.

Hanrej · Answer

No!

I don't mind women in power, in fact I often find them hot but that's only when they've struggled to get there. I understand success in face of adversity but I recoil at women who think women should have power for no other reason than being born a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

Feminist girls are multicultural? How are they any more so than anyone else?

I dated a feminist girl once and I'll never do it again. She was a shitty person, as are most feminists today.

Unlike feminists, I support and care about equality and fairness for everyone, not just half of the population.

Sabretooth · Answer

No. They destroy the family unit and frankly, destroy themselves. Equality is bullshit because they keep pushing back against it. They pushed back against the boy's scout and girl's scots merger. they push back at paying for their half of a date. They push back against equality while using trans women as smoke screens.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Hell no. I was falsely accused by a feminist girl in college. She’s the reason I vote Republican. She’s the reason I know what’s going on in the world. She’s the reason I stopped dating altogether. Fuck feminism, patriarchy all the way

Truthatanycost · Answer

If she does not being peace, love, respect and femininity into my life, she will not be in my life.

Mallic00 · Answer

No. because most women who claim to be feminists don't actually believe the shit they preach. It could honestly be summed up like this.

"Modern day women want the power of a man, the privilege of a woman and the responsibility of neither."

hbg84 · Answer

I would not date a feminist. Most feminist women are mean and nasty women. I want a feminine woman. One that dresses conservatively and looks decent. I don't want some neon hair colored dressed in dirty looking clothes.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Oh fuck NO & I rather stick my junk in a garbage disposal.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Feminists can lick my balls.

BlackJeep · Answer

Given the choice of a feminist girl over a non-feminist girl I would choose the non-feminist. I just don't see the advantage of dating a feminist.

Levin · Answer

Probably not, I prefer feminINE girls. Not ones that are militaristic, have a chip on their shoulder or are self righteous.

MementoMori777 · Answer

As long as she isn't one of those feminazis, I know they ruined the name but if she's a real feminist that wants equality and stuff then yea, I don't have a problem with them

Berethor · Answer

She likely get triggered at something and block me, and feminists tend to be anti-children.

abc3643 · Answer

Yes, of course, provided she is not a whack-job hellbent on blaming the patriarchy and all that horseshit.

Lynx122 · Answer

My girlfriend is a feminist we don't agree on everything but it's ok :) We can deal with disagreements pretty well.

richardcory · Answer

Depends on what is meant by "feminist". I'm all in favor of dating women who want equal rights / opportunities.

therealricksanchez · Answer

Maybe if they are not extreme ideologues, if they are reasonable. But highly unlikely for the long term

RavVid · Answer

It depends some girls who say they are feminists are pretty low key. They'll still let men take out the garbage.

Siri137 · Answer

Feminists are multicultural? If so, that's another good reason to hate them.

PenkWing · Answer

I would not date a girl who is not a feminist.

RingOfFire · Answer

👎👎👎👎👎 Why would I date a lunatic?

NYlatefun · Answer

Of course, if she abides by the actual definition of it. Which is someone who advocates for the equality of sexes. However, some “feminists” advocate for the superiority of women, which doesn’t make sense to me.

ZXCwWRQWz · Answer

It's like a toss-up to me between feminist and a transwoman. Either way I'm gay.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I'm a feminist too actually. I believe women should be allowed to ride on the inside of the bus.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Yep. I'd turn that nonsense into defense! Equal rights? Ok, go change my back tire after you harmlessly escort that spider outside :)

Luckycharms12 · Answer

No those women want all the good parts being a guy and none of the bad. Equal rights can't have them because we aren't equal we are different

Cubus · Answer

Depends how you define "feminist". In last years the term "feminist" was taken by misoandrists giving other feminists a bad name.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

At this point, I wouldn't date someone who wasn't a feminist.

Shamalien · Answer

The only men who date feminist girls are those who lack self respect or don’t mind playing ball with that horseshit because they want the sex

UnknownSwede · Answer

If it's a real feminist who believes in equality and not just hate on men, then of course I wouldn't mind it.

loveslongnails · Answer

Depends on what her definition of feminist is. My SO is a feminist - the right kind, not one of the hijacked breed of misandrists.

Karate_Aaron · Answer

Absolutely! The definition if "feminism" is equal rights for women (equal pay, etc.), so I wouldn't date a woman who did not believe in that.

Anonymous · Answer

Tbh, if I were a guy I would not date any of my feminist friends.

exitseven · Answer

The real question is would a feminist girl want to date me?

mattclark242 · Answer

yes as long as she not mean about all the stuff I do wrong as a guy

sparta77 · Answer

Multicultural huh? Wow. Is that why they're mostly found in homogeneous well off and gentrified communities, like Boulder, Seattle, Austin, etc? Because I sure didn't run into any in Baltimore, Detroit or Laredo👀

DextroShade · Answer

Hell no, feminists belong to the streets and deserve to die alone. No man should have to suffer them.

genericname85 · Answer

no i wouldn't, cause i largely disagree with their fascist ideas.

Unknown29 · Answer

I can’t stand a girl with a slightly dominant personality, let alone a feminist.

JohnK123 · Answer

Lmao sure but u gotta support the ruling that women should be in the draft category once they hit 18… just like guys… that’s equality

Anonymous · Answer

Only the very insecure and immature have a problem with feminists.

Staximus · Answer

Sure, why not? Feminist does not mean multicultural

mommymommymommy · Answer

My moms a feminist. She's been married for 35+ years to my dad

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

No because I support equality and I don't want my life ruined

Chthou95 · Answer

Fuck no. I dont need major ass headaches in my life

grega239 · Answer

Absolutely not.  Id rather set myself on fire

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