I use to compliment my ex wife a lot told her how much I loved and adored her , kissed her head before I left for work and told her I loved her , when I came home I would say hi beautiful etc, She barely ever complimented me and get frustrated with me because I complimented her so I backed off , But at times she would respond and say that she never had a guy love her as much as I did. But she ended up screwing another guy , So bottom line girls always want what they don’t have , when they get it they find a reason to bitch about it , After my ex I met another amazing girl that complimented me like I complimented her , I was falling for this girl big time she was complete opposite of my ex and I felt I met the one we had amazing chemistry together amazing sex until her husband showed up on my door step , So us guys don’t really understand you girls , Girls heads are all over the place where a guys head isn’t , it doesn’t take much to please a man , but to please a girl good luck with that shit
Thank you , but no need to feel sorry for me , Life is a journey and our experiences in life are what makes us who we are today , whether it’s good or bad all we can do is move forward or give up , but whatever our choice is is the way you will go , I choose to move forward and hopefully find true love one day , if not it wasn’t meant to be but I know I have the man upstairs guiding me
@Finchie40 "girls always want what they don’t have , when they get it they find a reason to bitch about it" You sir NAILED it right there. This is why women don't give simps who pedestalize them the time of day but would rather chase the bad boy who treats them as a second option. Women clearly work with reverse psychology. The less you do, the more you achieve. You just have to make sure you're not doing too little. It's stories like yours that not only reinforce my belief about female nature, but help me not to make the same mistakes and have success in dating and in relationships. You've gained a new follower
Thanks for the compliment @TruthBringer and Yes they leave the good guy for the bad guy and then cry for the good guy back when the bad guy goes and screws someone else , and then the good guy doesn’t want her back because he realizes what a whore she is, so to keep a relationship going you got to be a little of both or
She will lose interest , Sadly to say there is no happy medium , Girls go through way more hormonal change then guys do , their hormones are all messed up , We need to run when it’s Shark Week and when it’s menopause time good luck trying to keep her loving you, they say to support her as much as possible when she is going through menopause , explain that one lol I am not saying every girl is this way but a majority of them yes, especially now a days , to find true love today would be like hitting the lottery , bound to happen. Through my experiences in life I like to look at them like a learning experience of what not to accept and what to go for , but my heart has a lot of walls up to fall easily, We can only give what we receive , we can’t force someone to love us all we can do is guide them if they choose
To walk away let them go , I am done with the games and drama , I just wish my Dick would think like my heart does lol
You've nailed it once again. Love is hard to find here in the west. So many men are leaving the dating market. Marriage rates are extremely low compared to previous years. Groups like MGTOW are growing bigger and bigger for a reason (not that I'm one of them).
It's funny how women will call people with our experiences "misogynists" for simply recognizing patterns and making conclusions. They will deny and tell you they want the nice guy and he doesn't need to be good looking while there is so much evidence out there proving the contrary. Not that I like it, but I have learned not to take advice from women when it comes to dating. They never helped me and are often giving ingenuine advice. Women hate to admit they want the bad boy over the nice guy (except GAG users like Wowwgirl which I respect for). And it has taken much research and experience to realize this.
"Ask the fisherman on how to catch fish, not the fish itself)". It's thanks to MEN's advice AND dropping the nice guy mentality that got me successful in dating and hookups.
I agree with you , but a girl will
Settle for a guy that isn’t that good looking because of his status , but you take that same guy and put him in a janitor outfit she will be turned off , Girls constantly compare , most of
Them live off of drama , without drama in their lives they don’t know how to act , they can have a nice home food and
Clothes bills paid and a good looking husband but her husband isn’t taking her to the Bahamas like her friends husband is and now all of a sudden he is a piece of shit , he isn’t as romantic as her husband or boyfriend , he doesn’t care about me all he cares about is drinking beer or going fishing , Girls hate when guys have fun No matter how innocent his fun is it still isn’t ok. But it’s ok for her
To go out for Girls Night and party it up at bars and clubs dressing slutty to get more attention and possibly get another
Dick in her , I hate to say it but I can’t tell you how many girls I hooked up with at bars that I found out after
The fact that were
Married or in a relationship , I’m not saying guys don’t cheat to but the only way a guy will ever
Really cheat is if his wife or girlfriend is constantly nagging at him and making him feel like he isn’t man enough for her and barely gives him any sexy or touches him , a girl will cheat because her husband forgot to take out the trash , or the guy has a better paying job then her husband does. But us men put up with this shoot because we love the hoof , Power
To the Hoof lol
@Finchie40 Very well put! And this is why I listen to those who are older and more experienced than I am. It has helped me tremendously avoid certain traps and making certain mistakes my peers make. Thanks for sharing your knowledge!
Let me guess you think all women are like your ex so you treat them all like crap anymore.
Not at all @sweetheart666 I treat a girl the same way I want to be treated with respect and honesty , I just don’t chase , if I like a girl I will let her know I am interested but pretty much leave it up to her if she wants to continue seeing me , if she starts treating me like a convenience then I lose interest , so I just hold walls up from getting my heart destroyed , I use to keep those walls down when I met a girl that gave me those flip flop feelings to realize I was only hurting myself because that girl would take full advantage of me , so for a girl to fully get my heart she has to treat me like I treat her , for me to get into a committed relationship that’s all I ask for is love trust and respect , and for the both of us to remove selfishness. Most people can’t do that so that’s why a lot of relationships don’t make it these days because people don’t remove selfishness. Love only grows when 2 people make each other their number 1 priority , when you wear each other’s shoes , it’s not always going to be perfect but you compromise with each other and value each other and work it out , but when a partner walks away because they feel they are right and their partner is wrong that’s where selfishness comes in and damages the relationship, most people walk away when they don’t get their way , that person will never experience true love , so no I don’t treat girls like crap cuz of my ex , I treat girls the same way I want to be treated , they just tend to act like my ex lol
Nothing wrong with simping for your partner. Me and my boyfriend simp for eac other lol. You guys act like that giving too many compliments make you a cuck. Guys who dont give attention and love to their partners are the reason why women cheat.
Your problem is, you are generalizing all women. By the way maybe you are just into such girls. You attract what you are. It is difficult to believe you for me. I am a huge SIMP for my boyfriend and so is he for me. We both are very clingy. You should get girls who are like you.
@hi_it_is_me123 I know a lady who was awesome to her boyfriend. He treated her horribly because he said he didn’t want to be a simp. He’s now alone and deserves to be. If people aren’t willing to be kind they don’t deserve kindness. pretty simple concept.
Exactly @sweetheart666 , we can only give what we want in return , if a girl is complimenting me and saying loving caring things to me then I am going to do the same for her , letting her know I want her by my side , but if she starts treating me like shit and criticizing me and putting me down all I can do is either give it back to her or walk away We aren’t always going to agree on everything but compromising and accepting each other’s differences is what makes love grow when you both choose to fix it instead of being selfish , my ex hated that I drank beers on Fridays after work week , she would try to make my life a living hell cuz I enjoyed having a few brews and relaxing and talking to my brother over the phone, having a few hours to bullshit with my brother that I don’t get to see a lot of because of distance , was the end of the world for her , but it was ok for her to talk to her friends for hours on the phone without me saying a word but just because she didn’t get her way she treated me like I was this horrible person , she never saw any of her flaws and I wasn’t the type of person to pick on her flaws like she did with me , she knew I drank beers ever since we started dating so why would I change now? So when someone tries to force you to change for their own satisfactory and their selfishness that makes them a selfless person , you either accept your partners flaws or move on , you should never have
To change who you are for someone’s approval , so the next girl I met I made sure she liked beer lol
Sooo many of the guys are waaaay off on this post lmao 😂
Sweetheart, you’re not wrong for wanting more compliments. Contrary to what these guys are saying, this doesn’t make you “needy” or “greedy” ; it means your love language is “words of affirmation”. You feel love most when given compliments and encouragement, etc.
Don’t tell your man “I need more compliments”. INSTEAD explain WHY. Tell him how good his words make you feel, and he will use them more. Then, also, do send him the pics if they are pics of you. That will mean you’ve explained what you like, and you’ve given him more reason to give you what you like. This is a win win.
Ending on another happy note, if he doesn’t compliment you, send me the pics and I will 😉😂. There’s nothing more beautiful than the female form. I worked in a strip club as security 💪🏽✊🏽 And what I learned is that ALL OF YOU have it. 😍☺️
I take it you’re the type that thinks he understands everything right? Ok I’ll engage you. But I will make a fool out of you.
Where did I simp? From instilling confidence in someone other than myself? You sound like you radiate little dick energy
Secondly, the fact that you felt the need to speak up about this just shows your level of low self esteem.
No one ever complimented you in life. So you get jealous when you see that with others? Am I getting warmer?
What you just witnessed was greatness. You should be humble and learn from it.
Real men don’t get affected by that weak ass term. It does not, cannot, an will not ever apply to me. Find another insult to attempt. Or at least put some thought into it.
But you played yourself here. Everyone is happy but you. No one is mad but you.
Wait a minute 😂😂 you called me a simp because I said that all women look good naked? 😂😂 there is something wrong with you!
You go around on the internet picking fights with people that are on an app that is LITERALLY meant to HELP each other. You are a bully. And a weak one. You’re soooo weak that you called for help from another man because you can’t stand on your own arguments? 😂😂 you have no business speaking to a man like me
The women in my strip club were of MULTIPLE different shapes sizes and colors you jackass! 😂 perhaps you haven’t seen enough women getting undressed to understand this. This is literally a “it’s not you, it’s me” situation for you.
And you are jealous because I sent an emoji in a conversation that you were not included in? 😂 man this is grand! You want me to send you one too? 😊
Fool let me teach you... you speak to people in a language they understand. So if I gotta send an emoji or a picture or a gif to get my point across then I will.
You just need to grow up. You won’t even show yourself in a profile so you literally are a nobody to me. You have no confidence and low self esteem just like I said. Don’t post on sites like this. You are a part of the problem not the solution. And no one cares about your weak attempts at hypocritical arguments and points you make.
I’m gonna save you some time. I see you just pretty much copied my post and reposted it as though it was original. I inspire you. And that’s ok.
You can keep your childish remarks to yourself or continue to post them. I’m not gonna waste time going back and forth with a fool, or everyone watching may get confused.
But the fact that you just hypocritically called me a simp, then stole my ideas and represented them as your own, attests for the type of man you are.
You made assumptions about me. Baseless ones. I spoke facts about you, and you proved me more and more right with your every action 😂 low self esteem and little dick energy. I can’t relate
In conclusion... you are a simp because you used emojis in a chat with me. Just like I was right?
Now you are also a hypocrite as I’ve been saying because the “simp rules” don’t apply to you.
Who cares that you are in the Air Force? You aren’t special for that. Was that your best line of defense?
Your actions and words only hurt your own image. But in the end, you are on the same app as everyone else. I’m here to help. You’re here to hate.
Just because someone doesn’t look good to you ( someone who believes beauty is limited by size and weight and color ) does not mean that they don’t look good to someone else. In all your experience in failing with women, you should have learned that by now.
Begone! You have failed again. Unless you meant to prove me right. Then you have success
By the way, you forgot to log into your burner account to give your statement you stole from me a like 😂😂
A perfect example of what not to do
You can’t call me a “snowflake” when you were the first and only person to take offense to anything said. Just mind your business. Stop worrying about my balls. Are you that concerned with men usually?
Any person this concerned with a strangers point of view has low self esteem. Facts. Stop trying to prove it’s not true. You are further proving my point. You’ve lost this one.
Never take advice from a man that’s afraid to be seen giving that advice. That’s you. The man with an airplane for an avatar. 😂😂 LOW SELF ESTEEM
I’m just pointing out it’s hard to feel insulted by a person who isn’t proud of how they look lmao. We don’t care about what “job” you had the “privilege” of being assigned. You get no respect because you try to hold others to standards that you fail to reach yourself. Once again... HYPOCRITE 😂 I could really laugh at you all damn day. This ain’t even an argument any more. It hasn’t been for a while. I told you I’d make a fool out of you.
And stop trying to use “friend” when you speak to me. You don’t like me. You’re jealous of me. What minded backwards weird shit are you trying to pull? Passive aggressive.
I don’t know you and I don’t respect you.
Naaa... you’re miserable dude. You couldn’t compliment anyone with all that hate in your heart. And it’s sad to see. But you probably deserve it
If I’m a simp for generalizing a compliment that I believe... you are a super simp for giving a specialized compliment. No one respects your words dude. You are a HYPOCRITE. You literally tryna judge me for being supportive to a person in need. And I can’t respect that. You’re lonely. Miserable. Keep that energy.
I’m not asking you of a lot although it may be too much for a mind like yours to understand. But PLEASE! Please make it make sense. Cus everything I said you have proven.
Looks like you wrote me another 5 paragraph essay. Why so much effort to gain the respect of a “simp” 😂😂
I’m not investing that much time into reading the thoughts of someone who thinks like you. So keep having your low self esteem fit.
Your question literally applies to you. You keep coming with “arguments” that act as a double edged sword. If you haven’t noticed, look at how much you wrote compared to me 😂. And I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but I haven’t even written half of my last reply. I copied and paste the comments of the women on your thread that clearly contradict your words and proved mine. But keep beating around the bush, nowflake. If that helps you sleep at night 😂
So once again, you have resulted to stealing other peoples ideas, and somehow twisting their meanings to try and prove your points? 😂😂 this is why I stopped reading your responses. You’re flustered and all over the place. CRAZY 😜 😂😂
Um... I literally agreed with you the second I read your comment. I could have commented the same as the majority, but I didn't. But if that makes you feel special like a little princess, then I'm glad to role with it and pretend I stole your idea. Your replies are nothing but a temper tantrum 😂. Probably got called a simp more often and mine happened to be the last straw that broke the camel's back HAHAHA
Your insults are getting less accurate. Not that they ever hit.
No one agrees with you. You’re just a bunch of bad theories. And now you’re just becoming boooring 😂😂
Whole time EVERY response makes you look more like I was dead right about you. Keep wasting your time lying and talking in assumptions that you can’t prove. The argument was done about 10 responses ago.
Fragile ego. And don’t know when to quit. You think like a rapist
Crazy that you calling people a simp when you’re the one jumping to conclusions about people you don’t know, and forcing your way into a conversation that has nothing to do with you... THEN you get upset when you don’t get the response you’re looking for. 😂 then you went back and stole a concept from the same person you claim to not respect 😂😂 to prove a point that you failed to do? You’re a laaaaame 😂😂
Next time you need help ask kindly
I remember when I was young and dumb too. But damn, even I knew when I was beat or wrong 😂. Are you intoxicated?
Seriously it was fun while it lasted. But I’m done now. Go home and reflect. I’ll be laughing the rest of my night. This will definitely make good entertainment. And your man’s left you haaaangin lol. Nobody’s rocking with you. Bye simp
@TruthBringer actually I didn't reply because I been busy all day but after reading this from beginning to end I actually did had a good laugh and a great destress from reading this!
lmao @Melvinb6521 do you even know what a simp is? cause you made a prime example of yourself in your closing paragraph of your opinion all the way. but for some odd reason you think that people who called you out for this are the actual problem
@TruthBringer yeah and the fact that he sees/treats naked women as goddesses despite working at a strip club where he sees naked women daily pretty much adds fuel to the fire.
@TruthBringer wow... you are a retard who has daddy issues
@Gabboo I wouldn’t even be concerned with these two scrubs lol. All they are doing is paying WAAAAY more attention to me than I am for them.
They literally are trying to insult me because they can’t do what I do. Lol. I have the gift of gab. I can speak to many people in many ways and develop an understanding. So I use that to help people.
You may be right about the daddy issues thing though lol. I just can’t otherwise think of any other reason as to why a grown man is worried about another grown man’s conversation with another woman. Lmao 😂
They can assume all they want. But what I said to them about their behavior was ALL FACTS lmao. We are a different breed of man.
Imagine learning the word “simp” and thinking using it will make you a better man than those you call it. 😂😂
Little Dick Energy. Both of them. That’s why they gotta stick together 😂
And now they are upset because I follow females? Lmao. Y’all so damn controlling. If you wanted a follow you could have asked nicely lmao.
I can’t help that certain people gravitate towards me. Just like I can’t help that the two of these guys hate that certain people gravitate towards me. Y’all make your family’s look like failures.
@hi_it_is_me123 Swetheart, you've but with so many dudes on this GAG, you're actually becoming a meme on this GAG at this point. Especially since you keep bitching both men and women disliking your comments 😂
Lol. You are the one who become a joke on gag, you fucktard. Look how many people see you as pathetic human being. Now leave me alone. I can't stand your embarrassment anymore.
By the way gag and Reddit are popular for its incels like you. So the dudes here you talking are just incels like you since gag is their another home. I have excepted you difffer yourself a little from these antiwoman incels but no you are no different than these mgtow incels on gag. Pathetic how you think the dudes on gag are normal sane people. By the way who tf talked to you? Dont mention me again.
Just Stfu. It says nothing when some pick me girls or some girls who have no self respects talk to you. I also talk to men who dont hate women. So what? Just leave me alone. By the way i wish luck to your imaginary girlfriend. Even if she does not exist, I amsorry for her being with a retard like you.
You are ridiculous. So you stalk me and read with some retards like you? People rip you a lot here. Wowgirl is a also a bully, who bullied a lot people on gag in the past. I dont know what she is doing right now. I am not suprised that you talk to people like you.
What kind of cuck are you to talk about your girlfriend' sex life here in front of everyone? Even if she does not exist, it is still fucked up. Disgusting
.. and read some of my conversations with some...*
Again stfu now retarded incel or meninazi. You just use many tactics of so called feminazis but also get triggered when feminazis do what you do.
@TruthBringer
@gabboo and @hi_it_is_me123 must be two of the strippers he guards at the strip clubs he works at. or maybe not, based on their avatars they dont seem to be gifted enough to be strippers. so they must be the goddess he worships here to defend him for browny points in return
@hi_it_is_me123 really don’t worry about these guys. Literally all they do is try to play make believe and no facts are on their side nor in their favor.
To put it simple, they are just plain stupid 😂 lol. They use words they think they know improperly, they don’t make sense, and they have no facts so all they do is “what if” all damn day.
Ones only claim to fame is “I’m in the air force” 😂😂 but they’d replace your ass before they buried you. If he was so important, they would literally be doing something other than hating. That’s literally how all this started.
I can’t imagine being so bored with my own life that I focus on attacking others. That’s just plain miserable. I enjoy debate. But this was just one sided and they can’t count or refuse to, so they think they’ve won something.
Literally the joke is on them. Like I said... LOW SELF ESTEEM. and LITTLE DICK ENERGY. But there’s two of them now so we’ll call it LITTLE DICK SYNERGY. 😂😂 we’ve been done for a while now. They just are the last ones to realize
@CasaNorba so you and truthbringer both are eachother' bfs. You guys are ridiculous. What kind of retards are you. Go defend your boyfriend somewher else cunt. Funny how you think being a stripper is an insult. Go cry somewhere else. I dont have to endure you pity life, you retarded incels. Dont mention me agsin. I even dont talk to you, fag. So dont mention me again, incel
@Truthbringer tell your boyfriend CadaNorna to stfu, you stupid piece of shit. I have enough of your bullshit. You are just pathetic and i dont give a f about imaginary girlfriend. No sane women wouod date you. Go suck the middle eastern men dick if you love them so much fag
@Melvin6521 lol yeah. I am sorry for spamming you because of these pathetic incels TruthBriger and CasaNorba.
@hi_it_is_me123 who said being a stripper is an insult? I use to go to strip clubs almost every weekend before the pandemic. what a nice way to pull things out your ass and no just because I came to someone's rescue does not mean me and that person are in a relationship; pretty sure that you're not @gabboo girlfriend either; talk about hypocrisy and things backfiring on you're unstable ass.
talk about crying you're the one who needs to take her own advice here since you're the one throwing a bitchy temper tantrum here over shit that dont even pertain to you. what's a matter you like to give shit but can't take any in return?
". I dont have to endure you pity life, you retarded incels."
sounds like you already are buddy, you sound like an incel that can't stand hearing others are having good sex lives
" Dont mention me agsin. I even dont talk to you, fag. So dont mention me again, incel"
well you just did buddy; when you mess with the bulls you get the horns. if you dont like others talking to you then keep your mouth shut and your hateful inceldom opinions to yourself buddy.
@TruthBringer same guys who would complain about middleeastern or black men for "stealing" their women. I have nothing against middleeastern men but is fact that they are backward and antiwoman due to the way they are raised in a backward culture. Yeah liberal middleeastern men exist but they are in the minority. This is a fact. They see white women as wh*res and marry an innocent virgin middleeastern girls in the end. Look at the rape rates during refugee crisis. No wonder why you like them so much.
@CasaNorba All this for getting called out for simp behavior And yet we're the ones with "little dick energy" (how original). The irony, hypocrisy double standards, wishful thinking and projection are palpable. I can't anymore. 😂😂. As I said, keep simping and keep being a feminazi, snowflakes.
@hi_it_is_me123 and yet here you are showing interest and concern in my "imaginary" girlfriend. Seiously, make up your mind already. Clearly butthurt that other people have a better sex life than you do
@CasaNorba you retarded cuck just trash talk to me. You really thought i would be nice to you, you piece if shit. you dont directly say it that being a stripper is an insult but you imply it, stupid fucktard. Do me a favor, now stfu fag
@hi_it_is_me123 if you want me people to stfu you gotta do that first buddy, and who said I was expecting you to be nice to me? better yet what makes you think I CARE?
oh wow now I'm a "retarded cuck, fucktard, fag, etc" I'm really offended at your third grade insults (sarcasm), talk about trash talking. and no facts dont care about your feelings and what you say is not reality buddy, so you can think I imply being a stripper is an insult and whatever else you think I'm implying all you want cause in the end it will never mean you're right
Look bastard if you mention my user name wtf you except you cunt? Dont mention me again cunt, then I will shut up. Now go suck your bfs dick somewhere else retarted incels. You and truthbringer fuck each other since no sane woman would touch you incels. Lol what kind of ultimate incels are you. I really would know your sex life with truthbringer. So which one of you are the top and bottom? I love fags so much lol. You are the one who appears out of nowhere to defend truthbringer. If you want to talk so desperately with me, then tell me about your fag relationship with truthbringer, honey
Interesting to know that truthbringer has daddy issues since you are like 30 and he is just a boy in his early 20s.
@hi_it_is_me123 lmao you're obviously not a sane women yourself so that is not up to you to decide and once again your thoughts aren't reality. who said that I was mad that you keep responding by the way? I'm actually purposely responding just to hear your entertaining comments.
wow you really can't stop having gay thoughts now huh? also you haven't happen to be related to another user on this site who goes by the name of "TallJess" by any chance?
@Truthbringer Can you useless retarted piece of shits just stfu and go suck each other dick somewhere else. Dont call me racist, if you are a stupid sexist rerarted cunt. You dont know a shit., incel. You are the one who get triggered by everyshit that ain't sexist. Fuck off now, stupid incel.
@CasaNorba who is Talljess? You mean the gag user i recently talk? Wtf why are you stalking me cunts. Let me alone, fools
@Truthbringer dont call sweatheart piece of shit. do you imaginary girlfriend know that you call random women like that? What kind if cuck relationship is that. You are the only simp her who defend pathetic stupid incels like you, fool.
I am sorry again spamming you because these retarted incels
@hi_it_is_me123 nobody is stalking you buddy is just hard not to notice. but I'm actually not surprise you talk to her though I was actually assuming you were her because you two sound extremely identical.
unstable, dramatic, hateful, tendency of projecting (specially when it comes to inceldom) but most of all obsess with other people being gay and swearing she's right (in her head)
@hi_it_is_me123 Oooff unoriginal "insults" are so offensive! I'm so offended!
Who is Talljess? People can have the same opinions. So what? you are also related to the this mgtow incel "Fake" and "Truthbringer
"Flake"*
@hi_it_is_me123 didn't you just said you speak to her? why are you still trying to deny that you're her?
yeah everyone can have the same opinion but I highly doubt to people can have the same opinion along with the same ignorance, emotional instability and style of speech.
till then yeah the term incel is already used up. a good tip by the way; if you want to sound offensive at least try to back up your insults
Her? I talked to "tallanon" who is a he not she I thought you misspelled his usernane. So my bad.
@CasaNorba You are the one with ignorance, emotional instability, pathetic fool by the way. You can't get away with trash talking me and except me to stay quiet, incel Sorrynotsorry now bye idiot. 💕
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@hi_it_is_me123 oh yeah now you actually read it correctly 2-3 hours later. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
seriously dude your attempts to act a fool and trying so hard to hide your own self defeat just keeps amusing me.
"You can't get away with trash talking me and except me to stay quiet"
again you must suffer from schizophrenia or something cause never once did I expected you to be quiet. on the contrary I encouraged you to keep talking because again your hateful speeches and projections just keeps amusing me
@CasaNorba wtf are you even talking about. You think i remember all the usernames? Just fuck off incel. Also dont use mental illness as in insult piece of shit. You and your fag boyfriend truthbringer are the the ultime insane incels here. Wtf is this? Fuck off with your inceldom. Go ask tallanon or talljess if you are that desperate to know with whom i today talk/chatt
@Truthbringer what do you want to prove by this? Lol are you that triggered that you try so hard to expose me. Gag becomes like reditt. So you really think becoming a meme for incels like matters to me? You are ridiculous. thanks to you i learn my lesson and dont apologize myself again for fucktards like you. Go suck eachother dicks. You piece of shits think apologizing myself makes me weak? You retarted worthless idiots.
You both only deserve to get insulted. I am not going to talk to any of you in a respectful manner.
@CasaNorba so please you fugly bastards should stfu. I have sekf respect. This is why I dont try to use any nice words to worthless fools like you, incel. You also really i read every shit of your bullshit and so dont except me to give any answers every second.
@CasaNorba yes you are insane to think i would read all bullshit answere immediately to every you make. So this is why i wonder, why you are suprised of me to not "correct" me immediately. I actually dont understand the deal here. Why does it matter to you if i talk to talljess or tallAnon or whatever. Wait the talljess i know is traditional and religious, so i dont even understand why you think she is like me? I am not even religious.
I am ex-muslim by the way. I am traditional when it comes to relationship/marriage by the way. But i ain't religious anymore. I am really confused by you right now.
You just say we are related and i just say religion as an example you stupid fool. I am also confused by your stupidity and retardness. How can someone misunderstand everyshit. You try so hard to say things about me i did not say. Fuck off now, incel
Nothing wrong with apologizing many times, you piece of shit. You are just a pathetic bastard who think that is an ultinate alpha man. Leave me alone you fucktard. You are the only one who is butthurt about not people agreeing with your meninazi and antiwoman thoughts. Go suck middleeastern men dicks if you love them so much. You littke fucker dont know a shit about the middleeastern culture. Because of people like you the suicide rate is high among muslim women and women's rights get districted in many muslim countries or virginity regain surgeries are a thing. I know a lot muslim/middleeastern women who get treated like shit by their men. The middleeastern people you know are just the exception.
am not racist for saying that this culture is mainly toxic to women or even men. Are you racist to white people for not agreeing with many liberal/midern feminist thoughts since it mostly a white thing? You love to defend this antiwoman culture because it benefuts you more. You only love being traditional and old school thoughts when it benefits, you fake traditional fucker. Fuck off now bastard. If you love middleeastern culture so much why dont you fuck off there? Fuck off now worthless cunt.
Recently a woman get killed for divorcing her husband in hometown and yet still think that there is nothing wrong with middleeastern culture. Go look up the virginity test bullshit/ virginity regain surgery/ suicide rate among muslim/middle eastern women/ or how ex muslims get threated with death and so on, you idiot The middleeastern men I know are just hypocritical cunts who sleep around but except that their wife is innocent virgin. Dont complain about antiman feminazis, if you are yourself an antiwoman fucker amd support antwoman idealogies
OMG she is so mad 😂😂😂
I am crying laughing , I did not know this question carried on like it did until now lol I in no means thought this would turn into a bitch fest , not my intentions what so ever , I’m sorry a can of drama opened up from this lol I just give advice based off my own experiences in life that’s all, So I had to laugh seeing this blow up like it did lol
@Finchie40 lmfao I completely forgot about this post. I do remember laughing my ass off at te bozos
@Finchi4 you replied in the wrong comment-section. You never did a comment in this comment-section lol-maybe i am wrong but i dont see any of your old comments. Anyway i am also crying laughing at retarded id**ts after reading some old comments from many years ago. This is weird as f. It feels like a time machine
just ask him for exactly what you want. Be specific. If after a few tries if you get nowhere ask him why. If he says this is just the way he is then ask him if he is willing to get help to change. If not you have to decide if that is what you are willing to live with and also you can seek therapy to see if you are really attention seaker or you just want normal attention
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting attention from your partner. The only issue I see is if it gets to the point where your only sense of validation or self-worth comes from other people. In a relationship though we should always communicate what we want or need from it and be open to hear what they want as well.
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Often, acts of love and affection are shown through action. But some people's love language is indeed words of affirmation (just like one simp here pointed out). So it's best if you make your partner aware that you want him to give you vocal compliments. I wouldn't immediately label you as an attention seeker, unless he is already giving you words of affirmation and the second he stops, you start to question yourself. Then yes, you are an attention seeker. But wanting some more lovely words doesn't necessarly make you one.
Also, if your man is doing so much for you already and it's pushed aside because you want more words (even though actions speak louder than words), then it's time for you to selfreflect.
@Gabboo yes, I'm stuck in my mother's basement and yet soon going to the US with my girlfriend because I'm about to start my F-35 training program for the Dutch Air Force. And I know damn well what simp means sweetheart, make sure you take your unintelligent and highly inaccurate shaming tactics elsewhere since you couldn't even manage produce a single valid counter argument.
damn @TruthBringer you must of kicked someone's belly really hard buddy!
@gabboo why you taking this so damn personal? is the simp you're defending your husband or something? does he pay your bills and put food on your table?
@CasaNorba All I did was calling out a dude for his simp behavior. Welcome to 2020 where people get offended about the most trivial shit. I swear these fools use the most unorginal insults and strategies trying to make me feel bad. Not realizing I went through Officer training and have dealt with much harsher words 😂
@CasaNorba We've reached a new low point. A simp who simps for a simp. Someone should break the news to her that a male simp will pull out the ring to her for simply breathing
@TruthBringer the only difference is that women simp for affection and validation while men simp for also validation but for the hope of getting/appearing like he's getting pussy
The problem with woman is "love them too much" and they think they can get away with anything, which often leads to cheating and in days women were raised rights with code of mortality, respect and honor but 3rd-fermi gen is crazy.
I don't think he will give you everything without clearly setting boundaries (like cheating) but modern-breaker of chains want to be absolutely free without accessing the cost/consequences... the terms like "you can do anything from sore losers is absolute shit"
Yes you have every RIGHT to demand love from your men but he won't allow you to rule you or become your perpetual slave !
I don't think that's so uncommon... But if he's giving you love and attention and he's providing for you... And it sounds like from that he cares so sometime not after he misses a chance but sometime like you know when you're cuddling after making love and just likely chatting you might mention it in passing that you would kind of like it better if he compliment you a little bit more kind of kissing and play it off like it's nothing and I'm sure he'll step up a little bit but you also need to back off a little bit on your expectations of it that's called compromise. Of course I know you know all of that
Don't try to manipulate him into complimenting you.
As with everything in a relationship, communication is key. If you're not getting something you need, talk to him. Tell him "I've got some confidence issues and I need you to reassure me by telling me you like how I look more often".
I think it is good when people appreciate each other. Nothing manipulative about it. Everybody has their own way of feeling loved too.
Be clear to him about what you are expecting from him. Seeking attention from your man is definitely not a bad thing but not explaining it would be. If you don’t tell him to what you exactly want, he would never know and that is not healthy for a relationship.
Well I suppose that depends on how much. After some point you're just smothering him. You might just be too clingy. You aren't very specific about what he does and how he does it or how often he does x y and z, so nobody can give you a reference to their own life to give you a better measure.
Yes it's wrong, you chose a selfish prick it's part of the reason you hopped in bed with him, just do what all girls do, move on to the next bad boy to treat you like shit, again and again, till you have three kids a blown vag, saggy breasts and a subscription to a dating app for five more years, with all profile pics filtered more than a turd at a shit farm.
Go get a lad with thick glasses, looks like pubity will never happen, but he will worship you, live to give you the world and give you so much attension he knows when your box is going to bleed out before you do.😘🖕
If you expect him to compliment you more it’s gonna get to the point where the compliments are gonna become him just telling you what you want to hear wouldn’t you rather him compliment you when he wants too this way his compliments are genuine and honest and not him feeling pressured too
Well, you are seeking attention lol (not a bad thing). But the other ladies are right, you have to let him know how you feel. Let him know how much you love him, and you love when he compliments you, but could he do it a little more often for you? Sometimes we think "you know" and we don't have to tell you, so it's important to let him know how you feel. And directly. Sending pictures may not get that point across or have the impact you want it to. It's important to say how you feel.
An attention seeker, as per popular term, is someone who publicly seeks attention on social media from horny bastards, regardless of the quality of attention.
If you don't do that, you're not an attention seeker. Also, wanting too much can drive him away, you should talk with him about it.
I don’t think anything is wrong with wanting some attention from a partner. In fact, they should be delighted to give you attention. And of course, if I was in your position I wouldn’t expect it all the time. But if he shows it in other things I think that’s okay. Maybe you should communicate with him.
Sounds like that's you need to work on yourself. Why do you need compliments? Isn't he being with you the biggest compliment he can give you? You are a bit of an attention seeker. Ask yourself why. I'm not looking down on you or something just pointing out the obvious.
Because women like to feel as important in their partner’s life as their partner is in theirs.
@Sweetheart666 if you're their "partner", that means you're are important xD also peole tend to show their appreciation in different ways. Do you know the 5 languages of love?
Your man is not a man, he is a cunt who deserve to be cheated for not giving love to you. Sorrynotsorry. Dont listen to stupid guys in comment-section who think wanting love and attention from your partner makes you an attention seeker. Me and my boyfriend simp for eachother and complimemt each other non stop. Lol the same guys would cry and trash talk women if women would not give them sex/love for a day.
Maybe i exagerate too much but some heartless guys in the commentsection makes me angry. Like wtf is wrong for giving love and attention to your partner and get it back. Me and my partner give eachother a lot compliments and love. These does not make you an attention seeker or a simp. You know what, go call me a simp then for complimenting my man every time and giving him so much love as possible.
Well are you a basic bitch? What have you done to earn his Intrigue? Is a few photos really the top of your sex life. Fucking coller him. Put it around his neck. Tell. him to do as you please. Fuck I don't know slap him for no reason!!!
You sound pushy and entitled but okay. We all deserve to be complimented and given attention by our S. O but you do sound like a pain, maybe give it a rest?
Telm him you want more compliments. My girlfriend had to tell me that she wanted me to say "I love you" more often. She never doubted it, because I showed her every chance I got, but I didn't really say it that much. Maybe challenge him to compliment you at least once a day. Give him a prize of sine sort if he does. I don't know what, but something that he doesn't normally get from you. My girlfriend and I made it into a game.
No but... Every woman on earth can show pictures and get attention from random strangers so be careful. Better to have the personality that drives him closer plus take care of your looks than to focus just on looks.
When I felt like I need more attention from my boyfriend, I told him that I felt distant and he doesn't care about me enough. He realized that he should pay more attention to me as we don't live together and only see each other on weekends. Just be direct with him.
Maybe when he compliments you, tell him you really love when he does that. Keep telling him whenever he compliments you. Maybe he will do it more often when he realizes how much you love it.
Not at all! You’re in a relationship with him, so you want love and attention. That’s perfectly normal. Try to get closer to him and talk more
You have every right to want love and attention from your guy. It’s one of the guy’s many responsibilities when in a relationship to make his woman happy and satisfied.
Of course not. That's the whole point of being in a relationship. The love, the sex, the support. Neglect leads to the end of it.
I want all that as well and I have higher than average needs.
Many people are not used to giving compliments. It's something we all gotta work on.
But maybe you can just talk to him about ur feelings.
That helps more.
Yeah, you're probably being too needy. Some girls get lucky if their man even remembers to compliment once..
Sorry but these some girls are stupid enough to date so called bad boys. I know these kind of girls who like wanna be dominant bad guys but also complain when they dont get treated good enough by their bfs. Believe me there are enough good men who would "simp" for you
Sorry nothing
Your necessity for increased attention may have a negative impact on your relationship. It could end in the result if him ending things. You have to think about him in this equation too or risk losing your good thing.
The obvious answer is because he knows he is pretty and has 6-12 women waiting to snatch him up no matter how big a jerk he may be.
Add in that he knows how shallow you are and how rare pretty guys are... so you need him way more than he needs you.
You’re weird and kind of stupid.
Absolutely right You should be the most important and high priority in his life Whats actually occuring
Look tell him that's what you want, men love to hear what makes us happy if they are serious about us.
Hmm, is there reason behind why you want him to compliment you more? For example, are you looking for validation?
No it's not wrong.
Maybe his compliments feel superficial, short, kinda formality types and general that's why you're wanting to hear it more.
Yes it’s called self love
and compliments are a bonus, just stop being needy.
NoIf he's not giving you that, what the point of having him?
First of all you definitely come off as an attention seeker, regardless of how you think you look. Secondly, when was the last time you gave him compliments?
Tell him what you want. If he loves you he will understand and make it happen.
Those who can’t give praise should not receive it. That’s you pal.
I only give praise where praise is due. No praise for you.
I don’t think you understand. All you do is put women down.
So someone asks a question about what I think of some woman's looks. I answer honestly giving my opinion. You complain and say that that is "putting women down?"
People are no longer able to give an honest opinion when someone asks a question. Everything other people say has to meet with your approval or they are sexists?
No it’s other things.
I have an easy solution.
If you don't like my opinions, don't read them.
Maybe you should stop stalking me and you won't even have to get your panties in a bunch seeing them.
She's not the only one here. Another woke little wannabe dictator chick gave me the same communist party lecture here for the last two days. These little snowflakes think that everything they find offensive must be censored and their views are the only ones allowed. Who the hell appointed them the speech czars? It would be laughable if it wasn't for the fact we now have their communist Democrat leaders running the country. God help us!
Oh EVERYONE needs some of that!
I think it's very important for a Lady to receive that from Her Man ❤️
He would be wise to give it to you. It works better that way.
If he asks where you got that, tell him a 40 year old 14 years married woman with a truckload of kids said so, just for his own good.
just straight up tell him "honey can I have another compliment" he'll probably give you another one.
As a guy, I can promise you, he will NOT be complaining about some little photos, TRUST me.
Not at all. Send them. Also tell him how much you like to be noticed.
Yes.
You're appearing too needy and clingy.
Aww your so sweet there is nothing wrong with you wanting loads of attention <3 <3
Is he actually your man? Then why are you worried about seeming like an attention seeker? His attention is your RIGHT!
Of course not. Many men will take advantage of that though. A lot of guys anymore expect attention but don’t give it.
Actually you seem like an attention seeker now with your demands for more compliments. Be glad you have somebody that's interested in you and likes you and leave it at that.
You have needs that want to be met. I would simply talk to him, sometimes people aren't aware of it. Especially guys... I don't mean to offend but men can be clueless sometimes.
I don't think there would be anything wrong with that. If anything if I was romantically involved with a woman,... I would want love & attention from her too.
you can do it. but when you do it too much, it makes you look insecure and annoying
It's not wrong to want more attention and to communicate that you want more attention.
It is genuine and natural wish, nothing wrong in it.
No he should be giving it to you if your in a relationship
If you feel dissatisfied with his level of interest, its time for a new man. Totally normal thing to want though.
The problem with today. Thinking that just because one thing isn't up to par with her that she should just get a new man lmfao.
@4eyes2mouths i don’t have the patience to tolerate bullshit from other people. If the man is ignoring her she should just fuck him over
No, she should just communicate with her partner and let him realize she wants more compliments and ask him if he will try in the future.
You might as well date an AI bud.
Nope, isn't that a big reason to get a relationship?
If that's something you want, get yourself a guy who does it.
Men tend to compliment more at beginning so if u want him to get compliments from him ask him directly
no its not. Maybe it means you lack it in your life and you're searching for it, I know how that feels I guess
It's okay to want reassurance. Tell him how you feel and how he could help you, in general. Don't expect him to read your mind. If he loves you he won't mind a bit of attention seeking either dear
What sort of pics? Maybe consider sending him one and see how he reacts.
Absolutely, who do you think you... No absolutely not.
He already compliments you, you shouldn't need more
Don't worry i am sure he be fine with seeing you, sense he's dating you
Yes because love and attention is gay
The only thing boyfriends and girlfriends are for is sex
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