Boyfriend has warned me about his temper is that a good thing? Should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend who I've only been with about 8 months is very honest and open with me, we are with each other but he’s warned me about a few things and one is his temper sometimes.
He’s never been angry at all with me yet but he’s worried that one day when he shows it that I won’t like it and I’ll get upset.
I’m similar, we both have tempers maybe but is this a good or bad thing that he’s telling/warning me? Should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

I don't know about your pov. But if both people have temper issue than its a problem.
In my previous relationship we both had temper issue so obviously while we are angry we cannot understand thing. No matter what one need to be calm. If both will argue or fight things won't work.
Now whn I am in relationship it's like he's calm and I have temper issue. So things are balanced unlike the last time

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer, yes that worries me too that we are the same there is no balance

[Karenjas]

He just loves you and doesn't want you to think he's crazy if he does get upset because my boyfriend said the same thing to me and it's very much true but I always try my best to not do something that will end up making him mad other than that I don't think there's any red flags about the situation

[Asker]

Thanks so much for that reply, it makes me feel better about it

[Karenjas]

No worries sweetheart

[OddBeMe]

relationship wise- he should be the only one worried. Unfort chicks are the stars of true crime shows, so I'd say tell him to get anger mngt or dump him.