I don't know why he's getting more progressively violent. sometimes he leaves late at night and I can tell he's been fighting, he comes home with bruises and cuts and once a black eye but tells me he fell down, and I know it's not true and that he's really out there picking fights.
I know he would never hit me, but his temper still scares me. When he yells the way he voice gets terrifies me, and afterward I can't sleep I'm so shook up.
when I suggest anger management he insists he doesn't need it. other than that I can truthfully say he's a good guy. I've known him for a couple years before we were together and I always saw that in him, otherwise I wouldn't be with him.
like I said I know he wouldn't ever hurt me, but I'm still scared and worried about him and his problems, he's very open about them and I listen to him when he wants to talk but I'm starting to feel like it's not enough any more, and I don't want him to keep relying on alcohol..
i can't think of what I can do, I feel helpless and it doesn't seem like therapy is an option right now :( I need advice
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