Just cause you think you're boyfriend is better looking than you doesn't mean he's out of your league. It just means he's better looking than you. Clearly he is with you because he likes you and enjoys being with you. You likely feel the same about him. The only reason you should feel lucky is that you match up well, not because he's prettier than you.
And being worried about some other woman getting him because of his looks sounds absurd.
Work on your self esteem. He's with you for a reason. Why not ask him what he likes about you and revel in that warm glow. And forget about worrying. Never does anyone good.
My ex felt the same way about me when we were dating.
I can tell you first hand that (at least for me) I don't care about that stuff at all.
I told my ex that if I found you out of my league I wouldn't even date you.
The insecurity is understandable, but to me, I just think it's a problem that shouldn't exist.
Your insecurity about being better than you is going to have more of a negative effect on the relationship more than anything else.
Talk to him about how you feel (if you don't communicate to him about it then your problem here ain't never going to be fixed), that's what my ex did and we got past that issue just like that.
Your boyfriend probably doesn't even care about the aspect of leagues. I know I don't.
Sigh... OK. Since you are having a self-esteem crisis, I'll help you.
Your guy has had a year to decide if YOU are unworthy of his continued attention and commitment. He is still with you, so the answer is obviously YES. Treat him right, and hold his feet to the fire and expect him to treat you right. Do this, and things should be fine.
Yes, there is always a chance he will leave you for someone prettier. However, that usually happens early in a relationship. You guys have been together for a year, so you can relax. Not complacent, but relax.
Clearly he’s not out of your league if y’all are dating
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Sometimes worrying is good and also bad. Your boyfriend is out of your league and that's beautiful. It shows you have a high quality man for yourself. I know this makes him attractive even more to you. It gives you a challenge as a woman. He is attractive... Work on yourself. You don't want a loser. Keep him while he is around.
Damn, that seems like a reasonable way to feel.
I tell you something though. Hot girls will be hot , and while we would love to sleep with them, they aren't always the one you one to wake up next to.
I always seem to have a strong forced of attraction towards the number 2 or number 3 girl over number 1
The whole leagues idea is a myth. I could only see your pp on the feed and you look like you're a beautiful girl so why is he too good for you? Maybe he thinks you're too good for him?
But all you can do is enjoy the time you have with him and forget about other girls. He's with you for a reason, focus on that rather than worry about anyone else!
I'm in a relationship with literally, and I do not say this lightly at all, the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. Do I think she's out of my league? Fuck no, she loves me for who I am and I love her for who she is. Yeah, I might not be as handsome as she is pretty, but she still rides my dick like a sex addict. Don't be too hard on yourself, if he would've dumped you because he thinks he's too good looking he wouldn't have dated you in the first place.
You must be doing something right for him to be with you, so relax and enjoy your relationship. Attractiveness is multidimensional and looks aren't everything.
Incidentally, it's the opinion of women in his life that might affect things- my female friends and relatives are often not shy about telling me if they think a woman isn't attractive enough for me.
listen if he was the kind of person to dump you over looks , he wouldn't have dated you in the first place. He has the looks , why would he stick with you for a year if all he wanted was a girlfriend who looks good
The point is , he must have seen something in you beyond your looks and that's why you are his girlfriend for a year now.
Don't let your insecurity ruin something that's going smoothly.
And then you'll be so afraid that you'll break up with him just because of that, yeah, I've encountered your type. Stop being paranoid, and talk to him if you have insecurities. He's not with you for no reason.
Ok..
I’m gonna blow your fucken mind.
You ready?
If your boyfriend is “out of your league”
WHY THE FUCK WOULD HE MAKE YOU HIS GIRLFRIEND?
Obviously there is something about you he finds attractive. Men don't all go around just waiting for a hotter girl to come around to move on to. I would rather be with an average girl who is fun to hang with than a hot mess.
If you find you attractive and wants to be around you and with you don't worry about it
From what I see on your pic, no one is out of your league.
But you're probably out of many people's league.
I am too with every girl I’m with the girls just accept it
jealousy is the think that can make him away. just a bit of jealousy is kind of good.
Why such low selfesteem and faith in the relationship?
If you have a guy that’s out of your league he’s not out of your league. I think you’re being hard on yourself.
You've been together a year that should tell you something
He's with you for a reason. Believe it.
Well you should trust him and he should trust you.
I've never understood the "out of my league" thing
Why would you think that :(
He is with YOU.
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