How can I get over the fact that all men prefer blondes? (Page 3)

[Skankhunt]

You family is wrong. Not all men like white blonde girls, some like dark hair and dark skin color. Not all men have the same taste when it comes to women. I for one like every hair color, or skin color. The most important thing is that you have a connection with him. Don't worry about your brown hair, men like it.

You are beautiful the way you are. Don't change yourself, don't die your hair, don't wear other clothes etc.

[TheDomimantOne]

Speaking from EXPERIENCE, I don't actually prefer blondes. I prefer someone with a HUGE heart BEFORE hair color even comes into play! Most people are superficial that it's disgusting. If people went by what they had in their hearts, the world would be a much more loving place!

[zagor]

Either this is a troll or you have severe psychological problems. Note how many men like Asian women. Note how many Asian women are naturally blonde: 0. That is just an example to show how absurd your statement is. And if you ever watch old movies I have just two words: Phoebe Cates.

[apimpnamedslickback]

Oh wow you've seen 3 men who preferred blondes so this must be a fact! You're still a kid. In the next few years, if you grow up, you'll realize that looks will become less important to you as personality becomes more important. Same thing happens to men.

[Anonymous]

Blonde girls tend to stand out more that’s true but I’ve been more attracted to brunettes
, and black hair colours more. Now that I think of it I have never had a crush on a blonde women but, they do catch my eye when i see them.

No no need to be insecure, everyone has their own preferences

[Anonymous]

While men are subconsciously meant to be attracted to blondes as they are seen as healthier. It doesn't actually take into account the dumb blonde steriotypes or racial/ or cultural differences.

I have never actually liked a blonde in my life but it doesn't mean I'm not attracted to blondes.

All I can tell you is your natural hair colour will always look healthier than dyed and that's whats looked for.

[Schnyder21]

I’m pretty sure hair colour wasn’t the main problem with their marriages. Those men would dump their blondes for brunettes if they’d married them first.
Men want what they can’t have.
I love women of all hair colours.

[Shiver]

I can't speak for others, but I personally don't care what hair color a girls has. My girlfriend is a natural brunette, but has had blonde and now red hair and nothing about my attraction to her has ever changed.

[MsTaniaUncensored]

I am not sure I believe this. Everyone has their type. I have many blonde friends and the guys don't always go after them. I pull plenty of attention. ;)

[Bee-Hatch]

That's nonsense. People like variety. It's basic game theory. Everyone goes for the same thing everyone loses. But if people go for different things, then everyone wins.

[Iphotgrapher]

Don’t! As a brunette or red head you are different and learn to own it. It’s not about the color of hair, but a host of other issues; charismatic charming personality; physical characteristics and intelligence. And if you don’t employee any of the above use a kind and caring personality.

[Anonymous]

Blondes are a TINY fraction of the world's population and are historically native only to northern Europe before colonization. Most people throughout history and in most of Asia, Africa, Australia and the Americas wouldn't have even SEEN a blonde person. And yet, they were all fucking every chance they got. What does that tell you about this "subconscious" preference for blondes? That it's BULLSHIT.

[Julia1998]

Lol, I don't think that's true. Many guys like brunettes or redheads much more than blondes. Believe me :)

[jshm2]

You can get over it by not being as small minded as your family.

Everyone had different tastes and needs. That you saw a couple of examples does not make it a norm.

[reixun]

Most people in the world aren't blonde or around blonde people at all, so don’t feel bad. You can always dye ur hair blonde

[integrale77]

No preference over blond here.

Actually the combination of blond hair and blue eyes is a genetic mutation

[Madhatter920]

That's not true at all. I know a guy who exclusively dates redheads and has no interest in anyone else.

[normalice]

It's not a fact. Men simply notice that which stands out. In a town full of blondes the brunette will get them most attention.

[Daniela1982]

Just think, 90%of of those blondes do not have matching carpets so technically, they are not blonds but fakes.

[jasco]

I don't mind girls with brown hair nor do i mind girls with blond hair, as long as she has it i don't mind what color her hair is as long as its not pink