How can I get over the fact that all men prefer blondes? (Page 3)

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I’m 18 and as a little girl all my family members told me that the male brain is subconsciously attracted to lighter color which is why every men turn heads immediately when they see a blonde, that no matter how stunning a brunette/redhead is she can never compete against a blonde with blue eyes even if she’s average, that men that married brunettes actually just settled, and that men that says they prefer brunettes are lying out of the fear of sound racists or Nazi, or they just don’t know that they’re biologically programmed to prefer blondes.  I know it sound dumb, but it makes me feel bad as a brown haired woman to feel that I have to bleach my hair to be a man’s first choice, while I’m attracted to guys with black hair and blonde hair, blue eyes and brown hair, and tall or short, but the man that I will marry will always secretly crave a blonde.  The fact that I personally know 3 men that dumped their brunette wives for a blonde just confirm what I think...

Gedaria · Answer

I don't I would prefer if girls kept their natural colour. I prefer brunette.

Wise4myage · Answer

Because its not true for all men. I have always been attracted to brunettes myself.

Tiger288 · Answer

I care less about color and attractive is attractive that all matter to me

Liam_Hayden · Answer

You deal with it by stopping that self-defeating thought, especially since it is dead wrong.

coolhandroo · Answer

By dealing with the fact that you're wrong and plenty of men prefer dark hair

aboutme · Answer

I don't think all guys are the same , some guys just choose beauty only while others prefer other qualities in women

Anonymous · Answer

I tend to prefer the girl with the hotter body. So don't worry about hair color and focus on being fit as fuk!

Shy_Steve · Answer

Just like us Guys getting over the fact that all Girls like "Confidence".

prakhindev92 · Answer

Is that even a fact? , In my country there are no blondes , from india with ❤️

Maspolomas · Answer

Sorry not all men prefer blondes I’m attracted to brazilian and Asian women

dvp724 · Answer

That is way off. I like both, but definitely prefer brunettes

Fuentes · Answer

I don't like blondes like that lol Latinas are my fav

Anonymous · Answer

Um, not all of us prefer blondes. Generalizations like this are dumb. Everyone has there own tastes. I'll take a dark haired beauty over a blonde anyday of the week and twice on Sunday.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

If you mean literally every male then you’re wrong. Lookin for a rhythm, I gotchu beat

prince360 · Answer

That is untrue - we are all attracted to the most similar colour scheme/height and life experiences. What colour are your eyes?

Pulseofsulfur · Answer

I prefer darker hair color actually and a bunch of other men do as well. I love brunettes actually because it seems more natural in my eyes

askmeanything2020 · Answer

Not all men like blondes. For example I don't care about the color of your hair as that doesn't define you.

kingykringy · Answer

It’s only a thing in America and I doubt it’s that extreme

AkshiJanjua · Answer

Depends on the country where you are. In my country no one is blonde

rustymopp · Answer

They don't all prefer blondes Don't worry about it

Anonymous · Answer

People honestly see a Marlin Monroe movie title and are like "yep, it's science now."

Anonymous · Answer

I want to sleep with you , give me a baby. Is this enough for you to get over that all prefer blondes.

Gripper1970 · Answer

I love brunettes so not all men like blondes, plus half of the blondes are not blondes anyway, LOL

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

That’s not true. I find dark hair and brown eyes to be the most attractive

Anonymous · Answer

Blondes are fuck and chuck girls  brunettes are long term girls

Agape93 · Answer

Not all men prefer blondes lol

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t. I prefer brunettes some blondes are hot. It’s not about the hair colour although I do prefer brown and black

ThatQuietLass · Answer

😂😂 your family are fucking nuts.

Lizzzzz288283 · Answer

Na dark haired girls run the world

Alyssa11 · Answer

Not all men are attracted to blonde girls...

Lynx122 · Answer

This is so not true lol

Prettygurl12 · Answer

If it bothers you so much then dye your hair.

BeMuse · Answer

You're right about one thing. You sound dumb.

psychoticanimallover · Answer

Get over it by realising it’s not true?

Inquisitive3 · Answer

I know a lot of guys that don't prefer blondes.

CYNICAL_CRYPTIC · Answer

It’s utter bs, one the biggest lies ever sold.

Anonymous · Answer

Girl brown hair was proven more attractive

emmily2396 · Answer

That sounds so stupid.

worldscolide · Answer

Stop spamming this. Reported..

Sweetheart666 · Answer

Stop trying to gain pity here.

hellacray · Answer

Well that's a really dumb generalization...

Joker_ · Answer

Exactly what @Ruenella_ said

Ruenella_ · Answer

At least you're not black.

BustyNeedles · Answer

That’s ridiculous. You’re good.

okeydoke · Answer

They don’t. Your family is just bizarre and mean.

DarkFashionBeauty · Answer

Me, hair being dyed black: 👁👄👁

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Not me, my preferences have black or brunette hair

EyesOfGod · Answer

Redhead > brunette > blonde

mrArcher · Answer

Who told you that? I prefer redheads.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Thats not true I'm not attracted to blondes

thrombis · Answer

I prefer redhead and brunettes.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Whoever told you that was an idiot.

Anonymous · Answer

By stopping the process of deluding yourself?

Thatdude091699 · Answer

I prefer black straight hair... lol

Fuego_exe · Answer

Funny thing is i prefer black haired.

msc545 · Answer

Maybe become a blond yourself?

Twenty2 · Answer

That is not true! Brunette is sexy as fuck 😍

Twalli · Answer

Red hair qualifies as light colored.

Anonymous · Answer

Have you tried psychotherapy or medication?

MDollarBill · Answer

ALL? Not the ones who have had a redhead!

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