Polite rejection? playing games?

[Anonymous]

Friday I asked this girl out that was flirting with me for 2 months. Her response was “ohhh, yeah” kinda like she was caught off guard but then she mumbled she was busy that day but she didn’t offer another day so I ignored it. Friday morning I ask her if she still wanna go and she’s asking me where etc. I say you’ll know if u come and she blanks me. Then I see her 2 days later and she makes an off-hand comment saying “should of made it a better time” as she’s leaving.

So is she playing games? Confused? Using me? Why the comment to bait me into asking her again if she is just using me? She is still in love with her ex even tho he broke things off with her and continues to play her so that could be it.

[Anonymous]

She seems to be playing games with you. If she is still in love with her ex then I would move on until she gets over him. Meanwhile look for someone else

[Asker]

Thanks a lot. Just a really odd experience for me. Like this girl pointed her feet towards me, stare into my eyes for 10seconds sometimes, shout my name, grab my hand with intertwined fingers and squeeze it etc. So she obviously like likes me in this situation correct? Like she even said she was “really comfortable around me” but I thought that was another mind game to keep me at a distance. Multiple mutual friends also thought she had a crush on me also. Honestly this kinda scarred me a lip but lol. Thanks again

[Opinion Owner]

Its crazy. some girls do things like that just to keep the male interested and giving her attention. That is where I draw the line. Doing it for those reasons is purely selfish. They do all of that to encourage someone and then act all confused when the guys professes his undying love for her. Meanwhile she knows what she did but gaslights the guy to make him feel even worse