She brags that her guy friends want her? Red flag? (Page 2)

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Me n my girlfriend Brandy have been together 4 months. I always found it weird that all her friends are guys. The typical “guys are less drama” excuse. From the beginning she told me she’s not attracted to them, and they’re jealous of me. I didn’t pay much attention at first. But now it’s becoming an issue. She brags that her male friends have the hots for her. I told her that it makes me uncomfortable that she’s always texting them all hours of the night. She tells me I’m jealous, insecure, and that she’s so hot every man in the world wants her.  I’m 31 she's 41 and most her friends are men under 30. Again, think this is weird. Then tells me she can easily replace me with someone younger n hotter.  My sister tells me I’m an idiot for dating her. And that I should be with someone younger n more sensible. Are these grounds for a break up or no?

Unit1 · Answer

Red alert!
Let her have her guys. In the end she chooses who she wants to be with and certainly that treatment is not respectful towards a boyfriend. Pull out and that leaves her with one less power to potentially abuse/disrespect you.

CubsterShura · Answer

It's nothing to brag about especially when you're in a relationship.

hi_it_is_me123 · Answer

I mean if you dont have any female friend, then yeah but if you also have female friends then you are hypocritical and both of you are shit.

Bananaman177 · Answer

Brother, I implore you to flee from this bitch. She will chew you up and spit you out so fast your head will spin.

Lynx122 · Answer

Is this her? :D

Vick2727 · Answer

Tbh tell her to stop and respect how you feel, or you’re going to leave her. She's too old to be doing that crap.

rienna888 · Answer

I think she's the insecure one. Since she's bragging about it.

Walamagicc · Answer

This is definitely a red flag. You don’t need to stand for allowing her treating you like this and you are not insecure at all.

jshm2 · Answer

"Want" and "had" are different words kiddo.  Ask her to clarify, and keep an eye on her friends.

spartan55 · Answer

I think you should definitely listen to your sister in this case.

R3DthatDude · Answer

I’d leave her, she has an ego issue. She feels she has a right to neglect your feelings because she think she is the queen of England.. I’d say bye and find a different more level headed person.

AmeerX · Answer

No break up. You need to give her some space. She is just doing it because she sees that you want more Control. Obviously she won't cheat right. Trust her

msc545 · Answer

Don't worry about it - she will break up with you soon. The clue to this is the ugly threat "Then tells me she can easily replace me with someone younger n hotter." Hypergamy. Leave her first. .

razelove · Answer

Well, it isn't a red flag if you're into watching trains. Choo choo

navyrobin · Answer

And you think these men are just friends? If these guys are hot or really cute then chances are she’s already banged a few of them. 😂😂😂

Phoenix98 · Answer

Yeah that'd be a red flag for me as well on top of that she sounds toxic and arrogant.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Dump that hoe, even if she doesn't cheat, she clearly has no problem disrespecting you. Get rid.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

She sounds like she's a narcissist, an attention whore and an actual slut. And you sound like you could do better. Throw away the garbage.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely a red flag. I would be leaving this relationship in short order.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Listen to your sister. The girlfriend sounds like the type who is either getting banged by those guys or will the first time you make a mistake.

Anonymous · Answer

Red flag for emotional connection with this girl. Use her as long as she is satisfying in bedroom. I assure you, in few months she starts to play 'reward and punishment' games, this is the time where you need to be consequent, turn around and go.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely. Probably she's making fun of you with them and already having sex with at least one of her "friends"

NoblesseObligeKK · Answer

Massive red flag, those kind of girls are the corona of the dating world.

Stan_Control_ · Answer

I'm seeing so many red flags, I'm starting to think I'm back in the Soviet Union.

Dbach · Answer

Major Red Flag 🚩  She sounds toxic AF. Her friends are half her age. If she is saying that you’re replaceable then that’s a major red flag.

jl25sc · Answer

Redder flag that the Soviet Union's. Gtfo my dude, you deserve better. Your mental health deserves better before it is too late

In_Trance · Answer

Huge red flag

scott04sa22 · Answer

That's definitely a red flag. Sorry dude. You deserve something better.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yeah, Id say that's a red flag and she also doesn't care about the guys feelings.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Leave them have her and walk away she loves attention clearly. Could you trust her probably not.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Red flag. Bragging about someone wanting her shows her deep ego. You don't need a person like that.

Sabretooth · Answer

same age as another couple... or, ex couple i know about. i knew another guy who snapped and had an affair over this kinda treatment.

Jack9949 · Answer

I don’t think a woman that truly loves you would compromise her attention.

SilverRain92 · Answer

That's totally a red flag. I would follow your sister's advice and break up with her

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Your sister is right. Just ride this chick for fun but jump when a real woman comes along.

fred_durst · Answer

reading story like this always make me feel so lucky to be single

JoshMacDonald · Answer

In my opinion it’s a red flag. Not that they like her, but that she dismissed your concerns.

theBigLoser · Answer

Ok here is why... it is ok she needs attention and she will get it. Whether or not it is you. Sorry bro

JessieBellll · Answer

They are so hot sorry but she is fucking them all

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Yeah, a huge red flag.

Newhead · Answer

lol, are you serious?

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes, she soumds crass.

Not_Average · Answer

Big red flag. I’d avoid her.

gangbang101 · Answer

Are you dumb or pretending?

Anonymous · Answer

Bragging is always a red flag lmao

dootdoot5 · Answer

Red flag she a ho fosho

Jersey2 · Answer

They probably do and she is honest about it.

genericname85 · Answer

yup! that's a hard pass for me.

Vetis · Answer

41? Brother. What are you thinking.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. If she says that, that's a red flag.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Sounds like yoh should ask her

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes it is trying to make people jealous

PrinceNeo · Answer

Nah you gotta bounce my guy leave asap

nevermind__ · Answer

Your sister is so damn right! Dump that bitch.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes red and white flag

JosyJosy · Answer

Crimson.

moonpie89 · Answer

Big red flag

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely a red flag

Omar5881 · Answer

She’s a ho

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