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It’s definitely a red flag. Having mostly made friends isn’t a red flag. It’s the fact that she’s constantly throwing it up in your face and reminding you of how replaceable you are. It’s also weird that all her friends are a decade or more younger than her. She sounds immature and a bit narcissistic. Run for the hills.
I think it is a red flag. This almost reminds me of what we once discussed in one of my classes in high school. "Well, so and so did this. If you don't I'll go back to so and so." This is more of pressuring a partner to do something they don't want to do. But it's quite similar to your situation since both are wanting to replace you. A partner who loves you would never threaten to replace.
Why are you with someone who thinks this much about themselves? Are you with her for the looks or for her personality? Honestly, if the personality or heart doesn't match up with the looks. Fuck that. I'm outta here. Go find someone else to be your boy toy. You should find someone who doesn't think of themself as a person you bow down too. Rather find someone who will share their love with you and make sure you feel good about the relationship.
Yeah she's got more red flags than a Chinese parade. Get the fuck out. Any woman who wants attention from other men is not completely into you, and if she's being disrespectful like this it's only a matter of time before she cheats. All she's doing by calling you insecure and jealous is trying to get you to just accept it. Don't threaten to leave in this case, just leave. She's no good.
You'd think in your 40s they would be more grown and mature. If you had loads of female friends for an equivocal reason, how would she feel?
Part of me says to get more friends and put her on a similar backbones and see what happens. A better idea would probably be to just leave her and tell her to go sack up with one of her other friends if she has so many.
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1. Walk the fuck away from this women. Do it for your own dignity and to save your self more pain.
2. She is playing a game with you. She may not be having sex with them but she is trying to make you jealous. This is silly from a 41 year old.
3. These other men are orbiters. She enjoys their attention and she is keeping them in the background. When she gets tired of you she will have a steady stream of orbiters to pick from.
Walk away ASAP and save yourself the trouble.
Red flag, sure guys are less drama for her but she is the drama queen and she will not be faithful to you. And she will use you for all its worth while keeping your self image as low as possible. And she is most likely using all the other guys as well. Get out of there.
Red flag. She is insecure and looking for control. It is not the fact that she is a woman doing this that makes it a red flag. Some guys do the same thing. People with this kind of character are bad news. She is not interested in any kind of relationship you would want to be in.
Sounds like she loves to mess around. Why not just arrange a gang bang for her and get it over with
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Look Steve, Brandy is hot. So hot that she can get any man in the world to whip her up a quick pina colada and a side of oral. Just accept that all Brandy’s 25 year old ex-marine friends want to gang bang her until her vagina resembles mashed potato. You are lucky so just shut up.
You don't need to be in a relationship with anybody right now. You definitely should break up but if you get someone new you'll likely run into other problems if this is the type of girl you're attracted to and choose to be with.
Like in my mind it's obvious that's a red flag. You having to ask tells me you're not ready for a healthy relationship. You need to be single
She's a narcissist, dude, a pure attention hound, and you're simply the "boy toy du jour", the flavor of the month. If she's hot and the sex is good, keep her around but don't invest your emotions. Find someone you can have something real with, because you're as replaceable as yesterday's underwear.
She sounds toxic and dumb af.
Sounds like the type to put others down to boost her confidence.
I'd break up with her and find someone better.
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If she is in such demand why hasn't she married already now? Either she is giving it away for free (hence the youth of her stable of studs) or her "friends" realize how insecure she is and they are humouring her as a harmless eccentric, a human version of a tolerated ankle-biting puppy.
That lady is probably having a gangbang with all those guys
What your girl is experiencing is virtually true for most women, but it’s not cool for her to rub it in your face.
Slut alert. You begin to discover her true self now. Psychologists agree that people can hide their true self for maybe 4 months. After that you see who that person really is. You're dealing with a slut here, obviously. Never underestimate the thousands of options women have today.
Yes its a redflag... sure having male friends is not that big of a problem... but if you have relationship your contact with them needs to go down... and why bragging about them? It seems like she wants to show off.. which is so childish especially at her age. I say break it off... you can get someone better who values you more.
I wouldn't date her, she's the type where once you guys break up. Her "friend" that she's "not" attracted to will take the chance to support her and then they'll end up doing things... it happens time and time again.
There's always going to be that one or two or a few guy friends who are jealous and talk bad about you behind your back because he or they want her.
DEFINITELY a red flag!! 🚩 She’s just wanting power over you because you want to protect the ones you love and communicate in healthy ways with them, even if you don’t know how to you work to figure it out because you don’t want to lose them. This is just all about validation for her. Although I don’t necessarily think having guy friends is necessarily bad, the way she talks about them to you is definitely off!