Would you date Virgin or do you judge?

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If this is her choice.22 years old girl

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

Everybody judges. Just be judged for yhe right reasons. I'm one myself and people judge. I had to stop caring because being a virgin is a good thing. As long as your happy which is more important, then the only one you have to be concerned is how you have to talk about what you do with it, to God. Your standards morals and values have to align with what it is that you need to do and let us live your life the way you need to you don't want to make the mistake of just having sex with anybody you want to call a boyfriend or whatever, and then you're not happy in a relationship that you're in. Virginity is a part of you and it is you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't judge virgin people. I judge those who had intercourse before. Sex is a sin before marriage. I'm not religious but I'm speaking in a love's point of view. Having sex with random people is the reason why today's people end up alone forever and have miserable love life.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

If by virgin you mean someone who's unwilling to have sex then no.
I don't belive dating is real without sex, it becomes more like a close friendship.
I have friends who know all about me, and me all about them, and we shpport eachother during trying times and make amazing memories and dating without sex would be exactly that and frankly I'm not intersting in deluding myself.

That being said I was a late bloomer myself and have no problem dating a virgin who never had an opportunity to have sex because of circumstances and is willing to now. Taking her virginity won't freak me out

JKingOff · Accepted Answer

I've honestly never heard of someone who was a Virgin by choice. Maybe just due to a lack of circumstances like they've never had the opportunity to. But I honestly have no idea why someone would choose to stay a virgin for the rest of their life. I guess it just depends on her take on the relationship. If she was going to force me into a perpetual state of abstinence then I'm not going to stick around. Now if she was still willing to help with the physical needs in the relationship then I wouldn't mind whether she's a virgin or not.

Mrobody · Answer

generally I dont care that much , but the fight at the first is preferred than the ending point peace !

but its depended on where u live , the society.
how ever generally its not the firs Priority for dating or na. i dont judg but its clearly observed that virginity about grs tells a lot about ho deep her past rel has been.
not only virginity about g and guys is physically deferent , but alsoit shows up many logical and strong harvests from the details about the quality of the ex rex.
usually gerls are so deeper about feelings and their vision for the future of the rel. why? i th thats becuz they are mor sensitive and instictly manageable.
its more kinda persoaly , i myself , dont judge any way but lies ! it drive me crazy to hear lies.
and rather date not vegan ! 😒
wish to be minded , girls rel started by lie , at the end by a strong persons u will be the fqed one. do respect urselves (at least)

SjE78 · Answer

yeah i see no problem with dating any woman who is a virgin, as i dont see any issue dating non-virgins... I have dated a couple of virgins before, and as long as we both click and get along, then it really doesn't matter...
what i would have a problem with is if them being a virgin is the only reason for dating them... if that was the case then i would step back...

Variety_3-14 · Answer

As a 24 year old virgin turning 25 soon, and has dated a woman whose had 10+ sex partners, I have no room to judge.
Would it be nice to be with someone with relatively the same amount of experience with me, yes. But it kind of doesn’t matter. Love is love and I’ll marry whoever is willing. So clearly I’d date the same way too.

worldscolide · Answer

If it was for religious reasons i quite simply would not go near her. I won't be with someone where religion has that much control over their life.

virgin20 · Answer

No judgement at all from me, If anything I'd respect it since she wants to wait for the right person. I'm 20 and a virgin and I don't get a lot of backlash for it

Sagittarius_1204 · Answer

Yes, cause If I wasn't experience and he was to then I would feel comfortable and we would both take that experience together. Also I wouldn't judge cause you might like that he knows his ways around, and men after doing the deed more than five times their kind of confident and know what they like.

DiegoO · Answer

Oh, jeez. I had a terrible experience with my ex. I rather don't date anymore virgins, I just wanna have a normal sex life with no pressure of being "her first one", which most likely means you'll not be her last one. A sexually immature woman has many things to learn from more than one guy.

WesBrewer · Answer

I would be happy to date a virgin, mainly because that means she has morals but also because I personally want to wait for marriage and a virgin has been waiting there whole life so whats 2 more years.

hi_it_is_me123 · Answer

Do people like you ask such questions on purpose in order toget attention/compliments by men since many men have no problem with virgin girls or even prefere it. So i dont understand why you ask such stupid question. If you were a guy i understand it since guys get virgin shamed. Society virgin shame men and slut shame women which should you already know

Iknowbestgirls · Answer

I'll date a virgin with the confirmation that she lets me take her virginity. Dating a virgin is like having a best friend you only makeout with. Though if she still doesn't wanna have vaginal sex you can of course still have anal sex and be a virgin and oak sex is always a great option too keep your man satisfied. But a sexless relationship is unreality because suppressing your sexual needs is unhealthy.

Anonymous · Answer

Quite the oposite! I would be honored by her trusting me enough to tell me! 🙂

Adam1978 · Answer

It's not something I would expect, I would however start looking for the redflags that is the reason she might still be a virgin. Especially if she reach a quite high age as such. So virgin not a issue, reasons for it might be.

Miristheiss · Answer

I married a virgin.

I judged the other way.
I would have chosen a virgin 100 times out of a 100 over a girl that has slept around and had a bunch of one night stands and casual sex and been with 20 men.

yofuknutz · Answer

Why not, they might be the one now with that said if you are a casual one-night-stand kind of person (I'm not judging that's only for God to decide) how do you feel about somebody that is inexperienced can you handle that or should you move on?

DiscomfortZone · Answer

You mean, would I damn myself to a sexless relationship after age 20, because some moron has cultist delusions she for some reasons deems legitimate? Perhaps if she were the last female on earth. Just perhaps.

Commandy1 · Answer

Whether they're a virgin or not doesn't bother me. And if the relationship developed to the point where she was comfortable with sex, I'd be honored that she trust me to be her first.

DJB72 · Answer

Always respect the lady's choice. If she want to wait for marriage that's cool. I've only had 3 partners and when I got together with each of them I thought it would be a lifetime relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a virgin, but it's funny when I say that to a guy who I like. They want me to start my sexual life with them and I'm not interested in it or tried to push me on it. So, I think exits a type of judgment on that aspect from guys

JMvolatile · Answer

That depends on why she would be a virgin. If she was saving herself for marriage, I would not date her.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a virgin and actually it doesn't matter to me, I can only control my own life if I find someone who matches with me I will accept it, I can't change her past so I can live with her in the future

Don-__-Don · Answer

Yes, I would date a virgin, I'm not so judgmental to the point I would judge someone for not having sex.

Darcia · Answer

I have before not good not experienced lots of work

Levin · Answer

Sure but I am very randy so I dont think she would be virgin for long 🤷

slizzle01 · Answer

I prefer someone with experience who is good in bed.

Anonymous · Answer

Eh I don't know if i would. Since either there young, religious or looking for the right guy and i don't really want to take there virginity only to have them regret it later.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

my future hubby will B a virgin until our honeymoon ! thanks

flamiE · Answer

Yeah I would. Judge them for what? They can judge me for not being a virgin too lol

Citizenkirk · Answer

😶I'm open to renew experiences. I say renew, because it wasn't new when I was 22.😑

slatyb · Answer

Not if her plan was to remain a virgin until marriage.

magiusX26 · Answer

yes i would date a virgin. though i would preffer her having some decent sexual experience, being a virgin would not bar me from dating her.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I prefer to date only a virgin girl cause i do believe that a girl should remain virgin until marriage...

guesswhoseback · Answer

I would really like that. Not likely at my age though.

the_imperfectionist · Answer

Ofc I'd still date her. We can grow sexually together (after o bring her up to speed)

Nick568 · Answer

I wouldn't care at all if she was a virgin. I'd actually kind of like teaching her how to fuck.

Random_Guy_Online · Answer

Yes, but body count doesn't really matter to me. I'd imagine that most guys would want the girl to be a virgin though

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I would have dated a virgin at age 22. I'm 30 now and would rather not.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

As a virgin myself, I would ideally marry a virgin.

Malik00 · Answer

I would honestly be confused. If she's a 22 year old virgin in 2021 she's either religious or asexual.

iFarted · Answer

I'd date a virgin and wouldn't judge. I'd assume that she was busy with other aspects of life and never bothered with sex.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't wanna date a virgin by choice. I wanna date a virgin who's a virgin 'cuz she can't get laid. I wanna be the guy to lay her.

Iron_Man · Answer

I judge them that I’m proud of them and of course I will date one

utterlyconfused11 · Answer

yes as long as she's not one of those who are saving for marriage

Twalli · Answer

No problem dating a virgin. My girlfriend was one until 33.

1amcurious · Answer

If this is her choice, then we should respect her choice 🙂

andy530 · Answer

Sure if she were open and we could connect sexually in other ways

themythos · Answer

Id prefer a virgin or someone less exlerienced over someone who slept around a lot

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Of course I would the question is would a virgin want to date me

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Don't care if she is a virgin or not none of my business plus I'm not haven't being since was 15

JoshMacDonald · Answer

I’ll date anyone as long as we connect and get along.

Anonymous · Answer

People who have already lost their virginity don't really care if you still have yours or not.

Arsanelll · Answer

I'm a virgin and I would only date virgins

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it would be something new for me I never dated a virgin before, I would be curious.

Anonymous · Answer

I want to marry one. As I am virgin too. I am losing my hopes in having aartiage like that.

neverendingloops · Answer

I'm not sure why anyone would care at all!

Wade8888 · Answer

Yes. I'm a 40 years old virgin, so

In_Trance · Answer

Probably not

Dnice1 · Answer

I would date one and I am. I Love him so much ❤

Unit1 · Answer

Who cares about that?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Of course I would date a virgin. I am a virgin.

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