Would you date Virgin or do you judge?

[Anonymous]

If this is her choice.22 years old girl

[btbc92]

Everybody judges. Just be judged for yhe right reasons. I'm one myself and people judge. I had to stop caring because being a virgin is a good thing. As long as your happy which is more important, then the only one you have to be concerned is how you have to talk about what you do with it, to God. Your standards morals and values have to align with what it is that you need to do and let us live your life the way you need to you don't want to make the mistake of just having sex with anybody you want to call a boyfriend or whatever, and then you're not happy in a relationship that you're in. Virginity is a part of you and it is you.

[Arivor]

Very good answer!

[Anonymous]

I don't judge virgin people. I judge those who had intercourse before. Sex is a sin before marriage. I'm not religious but I'm speaking in a love's point of view. Having sex with random people is the reason why today's people end up alone forever and have miserable love life.

[ZackBan]

If by virgin you mean someone who's unwilling to have sex then no.
I don't belive dating is real without sex, it becomes more like a close friendship.
I have friends who know all about me, and me all about them, and we shpport eachother during trying times and make amazing memories and dating without sex would be exactly that and frankly I'm not intersting in deluding myself.

That being said I was a late bloomer myself and have no problem dating a virgin who never had an opportunity to have sex because of circumstances and is willing to now. Taking her virginity won't freak me out

[JKingOff]

I've honestly never heard of someone who was a Virgin by choice. Maybe just due to a lack of circumstances like they've never had the opportunity to. But I honestly have no idea why someone would choose to stay a virgin for the rest of their life. I guess it just depends on her take on the relationship. If she was going to force me into a perpetual state of abstinence then I'm not going to stick around. Now if she was still willing to help with the physical needs in the relationship then I wouldn't mind whether she's a virgin or not.

[Mrobody]

generally I dont care that much , but the fight at the first is preferred than the ending point peace !

but its depended on where u live , the society.
how ever generally its not the firs Priority for dating or na. i dont judg but its clearly observed that virginity about grs tells a lot about ho deep her past rel has been.
not only virginity about g and guys is physically deferent , but alsoit shows up many logical and strong harvests from the details about the quality of the ex rex.
usually gerls are so deeper about feelings and their vision for the future of the rel. why? i th thats becuz they are mor sensitive and instictly manageable.
its more kinda persoaly , i myself , dont judge any way but lies ! it drive me crazy to hear lies.
and rather date not vegan ! 😒
wish to be minded , girls rel started by lie , at the end by a strong persons u will be the fqed one. do respect urselves (at least)

[SjE78]

yeah i see no problem with dating any woman who is a virgin, as i dont see any issue dating non-virgins... I have dated a couple of virgins before, and as long as we both click and get along, then it really doesn't matter...
what i would have a problem with is if them being a virgin is the only reason for dating them... if that was the case then i would step back...

[Variety_3-14]

As a 24 year old virgin turning 25 soon, and has dated a woman whose had 10+ sex partners, I have no room to judge.
Would it be nice to be with someone with relatively the same amount of experience with me, yes. But it kind of doesn’t matter. Love is love and I’ll marry whoever is willing. So clearly I’d date the same way too.

[worldscolide]

If it was for religious reasons i quite simply would not go near her. I won't be with someone where religion has that much control over their life.

[Asker]

No not for religious

[virgin20]

No judgement at all from me, If anything I'd respect it since she wants to wait for the right person. I'm 20 and a virgin and I don't get a lot of backlash for it

[Sagittarius_1204]

Yes, cause If I wasn't experience and he was to then I would feel comfortable and we would both take that experience together. Also I wouldn't judge cause you might like that he knows his ways around, and men after doing the deed more than five times their kind of confident and know what they like.

[DiegoO]

Oh, jeez. I had a terrible experience with my ex. I rather don't date anymore virgins, I just wanna have a normal sex life with no pressure of being "her first one", which most likely means you'll not be her last one. A sexually immature woman has many things to learn from more than one guy.

[WesBrewer]

I would be happy to date a virgin, mainly because that means she has morals but also because I personally want to wait for marriage and a virgin has been waiting there whole life so whats 2 more years.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Do people like you ask such questions on purpose in order toget attention/compliments by men since many men have no problem with virgin girls or even prefere it. So i dont understand why you ask such stupid question. If you were a guy i understand it since guys get virgin shamed. Society virgin shame men and slut shame women which should you already know

[PinkGuy]

atention seeking ass holes

[Iknowbestgirls]

I'll date a virgin with the confirmation that she lets me take her virginity. Dating a virgin is like having a best friend you only makeout with. Though if she still doesn't wanna have vaginal sex you can of course still have anal sex and be a virgin and oak sex is always a great option too keep your man satisfied. But a sexless relationship is unreality because suppressing your sexual needs is unhealthy.

[AFellowWeeb]

''vaginal sex you can of course still have anal sex and be a virgin''
ho HELL naw, dont even come with that bs

[Iknowbestgirls]

It's not BS it's reality

[AFellowWeeb]

any sexual act you perform, you're not a virgin anymore, being a virgin is abstinece from sex/ sexual activities, similar to buddhist monks

[Iknowbestgirls]

Let's not get religion involved in this. And no virginity is the preservation of a womans hymen. Fact!

[AFellowWeeb]

Stop being stupid, ure telling me a girl that blowjobs her boyfriend on the cinema is a virgin and a girl that does gymnastics that never even kissed a guy and broke her hymen on a training section, is not? Go back to the medieval era. Virginity is about abstinence from sexual interactions with someone else, then how would gay people lose their virginities?

[Iknowbestgirls]

You're the one who is stupid. I'll admit I wish I did live in the medieval times. That gymnastic thing is very rare and a different circumstances.

[DiegoO]

Lol, no man. If it was true, oral and anal sex wouldn't exist, if it was true, condom packs wouldn't come with 3 condoms for each sexual act: oral, vaginal, anal.

[AFellowWeeb]

@DiegoO
u can't get pregnant from anal or oral sex, ds, and if its not sex, then why its proper names are: ''anal sex'' and ''oral sex''?
Plus, a guy can put a condom on and then put his penis on a girls mouth or ass, so yeah, condoms dont need to come in 3 forms, moron

[DiegoO]

@AFellowWeeb My answer was for the other fellow. I found his answers borderline retarded.

[AFellowWeeb]

@DiegoO ho ok sorry then, mb

[DiegoO]

Lol, condom comes in packs because only an idiot is gonna use 1 condom for oral, vaginal and anal. One condom for all of them is a sure unwanted pregnancy and a sure sexual transmitted infection. For example, after engaging in oral, for safety you gotta use another condom. The saliva of your partner waste the condom to such degree that it stop been safe for penetrative sex.

Let's quit this crap, we can both agree that a guy who thinks that a girl is virgin after giving a blowjob or her asshole, is by definition dumb AF.

[AFellowWeeb]

@DiegoO ''Let's quit this crap, we can both agree that a guy who thinks that a girl is virgin after giving a blowjob or her asshole, is by definition dumb AF''
on point

[DiegoO]

*The guy, or the girl?

—"Oh, hun, keep blowing"

Next day

Marie's friend—Mary, are you still virgin?
—Nah, he haven't went in me yet, I only blow him.

*Plop..

[Iknowbestgirls]

@DiegoO I know your being sarcastic but your actually right that's how it would play out.

[Anonymous]

Quite the oposite! I would be honored by her trusting me enough to tell me! 🙂

[Asker]

Are you Virgin too?

[Opinion Owner]

Is it that obvious? 😅 Well, yep I am. I had hands full of university studies so I let relationships flow naturally not really focusing on them.
Sure, I dated few girls over the years but it never got too serious.

[Adam1978]

It's not something I would expect, I would however start looking for the redflags that is the reason she might still be a virgin. Especially if she reach a quite high age as such. So virgin not a issue, reasons for it might be.

[Miristheiss]

I married a virgin.

I judged the other way.
I would have chosen a virgin 100 times out of a 100 over a girl that has slept around and had a bunch of one night stands and casual sex and been with 20 men.

[AFellowWeeb]

how did u even found one, im curious

[yofuknutz]

Why not, they might be the one now with that said if you are a casual one-night-stand kind of person (I'm not judging that's only for God to decide) how do you feel about somebody that is inexperienced can you handle that or should you move on?

[Anonymous]

Do good virgin girls still exist? ↗

[DJB72]

Always respect the lady's choice. If she want to wait for marriage that's cool. I've only had 3 partners and when I got together with each of them I thought it would be a lifetime relationship.

[DiscomfortZone]

You mean, would I damn myself to a sexless relationship after age 20, because some moron has cultist delusions she for some reasons deems legitimate? Perhaps if she were the last female on earth. Just perhaps.

[Commandy1]

Whether they're a virgin or not doesn't bother me. And if the relationship developed to the point where she was comfortable with sex, I'd be honored that she trust me to be her first.

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin, but it's funny when I say that to a guy who I like. They want me to start my sexual life with them and I'm not interested in it or tried to push me on it. So, I think exits a type of judgment on that aspect from guys

[JMvolatile]

That depends on why she would be a virgin. If she was saving herself for marriage, I would not date her.