Why do guys treat virgins as a conquest not a person to date?

[Egirl28]

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He tells me he really likes me and I have great qualities but only wants a sexual relationship! He claims that he have a special connection on all levels and he has never felt like this about a girl but still doesn't want a relationship! He is obsessed with talking about his fantasies and being with me sexually !! I should be flattered but it leaves me wondering if I am as great as he says I am why don't I deserve a real relationship!!

[HikerDude]

The guys who do that either have a fetish for virgins or are trying to prop up their egos somehow. Most experienced guys tend to see virgin girls as a big investment, because things can get very involved with them. Virgin girls having their first experiences often develop feelings, and many of them have to be taught a lot about sex. At the same time, though, there are men who want to marry a girl who's never been another man's woman and possess her solely as his own. So it's not all negative.

[Egirl28]

What about if he's is 34 years old?

[HikerDude]

I'd say he's probably trying to prop his ego up a bit, especially if he was socially awkward or unsuccessful with girls when he was younger.

[JPrez]

It sounds like you are a great listener and he enjoys being able to share all of that. Unfortunately this guy lacks some maturity and would rather have sex with girls than a relationship. I don’t think it’s a reflection on you as you have some morals and are definitely relationship material. You need to move on from this guy and find one that will respect you and want to date.

[Anonymous]

Haha this why I broke up and ghosted my first boyfriend, still a virgin let's go! Yeh avoid them type you can read through them quite quick

[gabzz001]

Virgin gang rise up 🙌😜🥰

[Laciandmaci]

@gabzz001 Virgin here too!!!

[ohshee]

I don't see it as a conquest. It is really an honour it is special and even more so the older she is because of strength it takes to be disaplened and to be a leader and not fall in to the traps of there piers , and I feel the guy better be worth it and make it all about you and not be like 9 out of 10 guys who make it about them. And they are done and it's over in min I look at it as it better be a marathon and make have the. Best ORGASM ever so I guess me wanting to be that guy it's not a conquest. But an honour

[marvingayer]

Because most guys see them as a trophy rather then something they could possibly see them selves having a happy future with because they only care about looks or just that your a virgin rather then your personality and that's coming from someone in a happy relationship for the last few years

[marvingayer]

Its because he is already in relationship and doesn't want to tell you or he's bi and discrete about is more gay side or he just wants to be friends with benefits which is also fair but the better question is why most sex ed classes dont teach about proper communication between sexual or romantic partners in general

[chHaynes]

I'm sorry but guys would love to have sex with a virgin girl it just means they're first 2 have fun it's like a brand new toy to a kid I know it's a weird analogy but it's the best one I got

[pokenstroke]

some guys are that shallow, that they keep score of how many virgins they have had, they should be neutered. if a girl told me she was a virgin, though i felt honored, i always talked to her first, to make sure she wanted me for that memory. had mixed results, some were more sure because i asked, some thanked me for making them think. and a couple got mas at me, go figure

[Anonymous]

To be honest if he is doing this then he just want to get intimate with you, nothing else and don't expect any kind of relationship with him, he will definitely leave you after having sex

[ChrisMike1919]

Those guys are simply idiots who thinks with their dicks. Or dickheads in a word.

[Skankhunt]

I don't treat virgins as a conquest. Girls who are Virgin are humans too, they deserve respect.

[6RareBit9]

You deserve it, he's probably a closet gay who can't commit cause he really wants men's ass. Leave them child types alone.

[magiusX26]

lack of mental maturity

[Anonymous]

I would never do that.

[Anonymous]

They are dumb.

[locutus9999]

who do thatm