Why do women think virgin guys are losers?

[Anonymous]

I have been called handsome for many times by both males and females. I'm a blonde, built, 1.93 m kind of Viking looking VIRGIN guy. I'm not a meat head, I study architecture and I'm sapiosexuel. I love history.

Why do women think virgins are losers? Perhaps we just like intense romantic sexuality and long (perhaps a life) longing relationships, intead of one night stands. I wonder why women can't understand this.

[Anonymous]

I've been sitting here in the library trying to decide whether I should answer this question and get a bad reputation among the women folk, or just move on to another one. I guess I could use the anonymous function for the first time.

Women seem to think a lot differently than men. Men think up=up down=down 2+2=4 and if we see someone stumbling out of a forest or desert saying "Water... Water!!" We will gladly give them water.

Women seem to think up=green down=brunch 2+2= whatever the hell she SAYS it equals! and if a man stumbles out of the desert asking for water, she tells him, "If you're not man enough to find water somewhere else, you're certainly not going to get any from ME!"

[Bandit74]

Because most of us are. You may be an exception but you will inevitably get lumped into the same category from time to time.

[Asker]

Come on. Do you really think that not having sex makes you loser? I can kick the ass of a popular guy having one night stands every weekends. Being loser is independent of being virgin. I know it, because I know some loser, lacking self control and discipline one night stander guys.

[Bandit74]

Well somewhat, yeah. Although what I really meant was that virgins are virgins because they are losers and not necessarily that they are losers because they are virgins.

[Asker]

Really, which Constitution labels people as losers. I guess it is smth depending on each person. Isaac Newton lied as a virgin too. But, he was not a loser. Today probably the sum of 2 shallow popular girls IQ can reach his. I think virgins can be cool too. I catch lots of flirting looking in daily life.

[Asker]

*Died

[Bandit74]

Its not constitution, it's just a general trend in my opinion.
Well socially he probably was a loser, overall he wasn't. But you are just listing isolated cases. Overall I think the average male virgin is less confident, less attractive, and possesses lower than average social skills compared to those who are not virgins.

You are an exception but generally if a guy has the traits that women consider conventionally desirable he won't be a virgin for a very long time. Unless he's asexual, sapiosexual, or holding out for moral reasons.

[Asker]

I said I'm sapiosexuel. I think women should understand, not all of the guys are simple minded sex wanting creatures. I hate women thinking they deserve better life conditions due to just being a female.

[Bandit74]

As I said you are an exception but the general perception is that virgin guys are losers and as unfair as it may be you will occasionally be lumped into the same category as they them. Also women tend to prefer men with experience.

However since you are attractive, physically fit, confident, and intelligent most people won't think you are a virgin anyways.

[anonymous83]

I've never heard of this. Perhaps the consensus has changed, but it wasn't like that when I was growing up.

[Asker]

It is totally changed, sister) now virgin guys in Norway are seen losers mostly by females.

[anonymous83]

Well then their jack@sses. I personally value a connection over sex, so the idea of a long lasting, romantic relationship makes someone like you gold.

[Floppy]

That's why you're still growing up

[anonymous83]

@Floppy actually it looks like you are. i'm pretty sure your opinion will change when you get older, because by then sex won't matter as much anymore.

[Floppy]

I don't know what the heck you talking about and why you are applying it to me. Whatever you selling I'm not buying. Goodbye

[Asker]

@Floppy you sound very b*tchy elder sister))

[Floppy]

Someone blocked me I could not answer now it seems I can

[sunlite]

lmao i don't think virgins are losers since i am one too but wtf is a sapio sexual? hahaha

[Asker]

Sapio=knowledge in latin
Sexual=sexual
It means someone attracted sexually by intellectual properties of people.

[sunlite]

maybe that's why you don't have a girlfriend lmao

[HookingSwan]

not all women think that

and the ones who do are stupid

[Asker]

I'm glad to hear it)

[kaylaS91]

I've never had such a thought. I'm not into having sex with someone with whom I don't share a romantic connection, either, so you're not alone. :)

[Anonymous]

20 years old brunette girl and I'm virgin + haven't kissed anyone else yet, but I get attention from guys a lot. I don't think it's about the appearance, it's just we want things with speacial etc.

[Anonymous]

I don't think women think this. I think (on this board especially) they call the men raging at all women because they can't get sex with the ones that want losers. Two different crowds.

[Asker]

I had lots of one night stand chances. I decided to stay virgin, not obligated. Because you know STDs are too common. I would never love and respect a woman who transmitted me her old bf's STD. I want to stay virgin, untill I meet an honest and virgin girl like me. I don't rage on them. I'm confident of my look, I said I look kind of Nordic handsome guy like Alexander Skårsgad due to my heritage. I'm picky about women.

[Opinion Owner]

You're making a choice and plan and people should respect you for it.

[TruExo]

Oh yeah dude same here. I get called a loser all the time. Just because I'm a virgin and waiting til marriage. Smh. But when I'm online I get mad compliments from mad girls saying good job and other post I've things.

[Accipiter]

Because the media tells everyone to believe virgin guys are losers. It's sad how many people buy info the media gospel

[Atashi7]

Don't generalize, it's a bad habit. Not all women think virgin guys are losers. I don't

[Mia101smirh294]

Not all women think that
I personally don't understand why people would -sorry 😶

[mberrie]

I don't think that way.
Some people are easily influenced and believe stereotypes should be true always. SIGH!

[User999]

Most women are very insecure and thus pick on everyone.

[bubbletrouble]

Most of them do but I don't depending on the reason why he is one

[Lonnie1997]

You're not alone I been laugh at and made front off my whole life because I'm virgin and I choose to save myself for marriage.

[Floppy]

Virgins are not losers. They are just stupid

[Toad-1]

why?

[the_rake]

lol wut?

[TruExo]

I respect this girl. Let's face it guys. We are stupid for being virgins.

[Asker]

Why stupid? I respect non virgin women and I think deserve equal respect from them.

[Floppy]

I let all you guys babble to the point I don't know what you're talking about. I said virgins are stupid and he asked her gets to say he respects non-virgin girls. What does that have to do with virgin girls? There are prostitutes available so virgin guys are even more stupid because they have the opportunity to find out what's it all about and they don't take it. You can ask a prostitute anything and she will answer with an academic educated answer so you won't be in the dark

[Asker]

Nope, I'm confident with my sexuality. I would never have sex with a prostitue. I would hate myself due to buying human meat by prostition. And it is not allowed where I live.

[Floppy]

Can you message me privately?

[Floppy]

Asker, can you message me privately I am floppy. Since your anonymous I can't message you

[Asker]

Why?

[Floppy]

And Asker, a virgin telling me he's confident with his sexuality is ridiculous. Analogy would be a guy telling me he knows how to ride a bicycle because you read a book on it

[Asker]

Some guys have potential by nature))

[Floppy]

That's high-voltage (potential) but low amperage equal small wattage. Another words no power

[Asker]

Anyway, I will keep my virginity for a special girl. I'm 22 not that old to meet my dream girl)

[the_rake]

'a virgin telling me he's confident with his sexuality is ridiculous.'

Floppy, that statement is ridiculous. Virgins can be confident in who they are, they don't need to have sex for that. Look at all of these teens and young adults who downgraded to prostitutes and sleazy partners they were not physically or emotionally attracted to. You're saying that these people are more confident than virgins when the truth is the opposite: these people were so UNconfident that they would resort to any measure to lose their virginity. Virgins have kept their dignity in tack and chosen to find someone that actually meets their standards. Virgins are MORE confident in many ways. So they do not know how to 'ride that bike' yet? They will learn when they find a good partner and as a result, it will be less of a bumpy ride.

[Asker]

@the_rake exactly. I think virgins by choice are more selective and confident people. Not all of the guys want to buy human meat by money or want a sexual relationship without compassion.

[the_rake]

exactly.

[ClariceOwen23]

I've only ever heard men say that

[Magsleigh1]

You actually sound like a dream boat to me!

[Asker]

Why?))))

[MissMillionDollarMan]

I don't think virgin guys are loses...

[MissMillionDollarMan]

*losers

[Asker]

Where are you from? I'm sure not Norway.

[MissMillionDollarMan]

East Coast US

[Asker]

Hmm, I think American women is anti-virgin as much as Norwegian women. I read it in Reddit, Yahoo and here so many times. I think I should find and marry a Catholic Polish girl. They value virgin guys waiting to find a compassionate relationship, instead of one night stander westernized women.

[MissMillionDollarMan]

read it in Reddit, Yahoo.
that right there is a problem.

[Shorty1991]

Virgins are not losers full stop.

[AnayaWilliams]

Not all of us think like that.

[jwhit]

I don't care what anyone thinks of it.

[jacquesvol]

Do women think virgin guys are losers?

[Asker]

I live in Norway, yes most of them do. Especially feminist and overly liberal ones.

[jacquesvol]

Well they can easily help them out, can't they?

[Asker]

They can, but I'm not attracted far left wing feminists. They lack of feminity and they are fat mostly.

[jacquesvol]

If you reject them, it's normal they reject you.

[Asker]

But I don't humilate nor hate them because of their choices.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't take women seriously.

[Asker]

Why? Don't they deserve to take seriously?

[Opinion Owner]

No they don't.

[Asker]

Why are they stupid?

[Stanley23]

Yeah, he's right @asker, you shouldn't