Do girls prefer silent, mysterious guys over loud guys?

[Anonymous]

[Alpha09]

Confidence is hot, wether it comes in a high energy personality or a quiet/mysterious one. But that's different than someone who is constantly loud and always needs to be heard or the center of attention give me insecure vibes. And guys like that usually have a problem always trying to assert dominance over anyone and everyone. No thanks.

[dolidol]

it depends on what you mean by laud boys. If the boy is too inverted it is horrible, if he is too loud it is also horrible. For me it has to be either mysterious or mild playfulness.

[AlexanderAnttila]

What is this BTS man doing? XD Silently contemplating inside a demolished house with his eyes close. d

[WesBrewer]

Nobody likes a loud guy, so yes, being loud is annoying, be talkative is good but loud isn't.

[strawberrylipstick]

i mean you can't control that sometimes lol..

[WesBrewer]

@strawberrylipstick that is true

[strawberrylipstick]

cheers to adhd am i right?

[WesBrewer]

@strawberrylipstick yes cheers 🥂, lol

[PinkSands04]

I’d definitely prefer a more silent type to someone loud. I find loudness very obnoxious, in my opinion.

[aieeazumui]

But isn't holding a conversation with silent men a problem?

[PinkSands04]

Silent doesn’t mean mute 😂

[aieeazumui]

Even I didn't mean he is mute

[DizzyDesii]

I like mysterious lonewolfs who are open and talkative with only me.

[JosyJosy]

Agreed!

[blondie1234567]

Hell yes. Quiet confidence is big dick energy... loud guys just sound like they're trying to overcompensate

[aieeazumui]

But loid outgoing types seem mote energetic and get more attention n seem morr socially active

[blondie1234567]

@aieeazumui in highschool yes. But in the real world quiet confidence trumps that

[Anonymous]

All in proportion though. Too silent and mysterious might give me the vibes that he is suspicious. You know they always say on the news about the mass shooter that he was the quiet kid.
Remember, balance...

[Toast792]

Yes, loud guys can be a bit annoying, so i prefer quieter guys. the problem is I am also very quiet, (people sometimes assume I'm mute) so if a guy is too quiet we probably wouldn't ever talk

[K-I-S-S]

That would be pretty funny actually. 😅

Like hanging with my guy friend, we do stuff together, but we do not talk at all almost, well most of the days anyway.

[EllieFayre]

Well for some girls they prefer that kind of silent, mysterious guys but still there are some girls who prefer loud guys. Every girls have different types of boys that they like.

[BackAgain602]

Depends on the woman; we all have different tastes and preferences.
Speaking for myself, I think silent, mysterious men are so fucking sexy. They keep my mind going and guessing. For me, they're never boring 🖤

[iseekpinetrees]

Not too loud. Too silent too worried they have a condition or are broken

[Leyla_23]

No. Modesty often speaks of insecurity and complexes, rather than some kind of mystery

[strawberrylipstick]

insecurity isn't something to shy away from lol.. everyone is insecure about something XD it just means they don't have enough of a complex to pretend they aren't

[SanePlantHater]

Loud =/= confident. The confidence is what is attractive, not the loudness.

[strawberrylipstick]

im loud as hell.. sorry to everyone that hates that lmao.. can't fix it , adhd

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily mysterious but I like calm guys. I used to date funny, social guys who were "louder" and I found so much more peace and happiness in calmer quiet guys

[Justneedtokno]

Not all. It’s up each individual girl. I like a guys guy because i like being the center while being shy.

[Милашка]

Both are bad. by the way I'm married. I want only my hubby.

[karolaga]

I like shy quiet guys. generally those are the most fun to be around

[Lion91]

Yes they do. Because loud men are a bunch of babies 🥺

[Anonymous]

I definitely prefer the more quiet, mysterious ones

[KrakenAttackin]

The loudest guy in the room is the weakest guy in the room?

[lydia569]

I prefer extroverted guys because I am the silent, mysterious type of person.

[herthaxx]

Mysterious guys please... i do love mystery

[aieeazumui]

But who'll break the ice?

[JosyJosy]

I like silent, shy, introverts, they're welcome :)

[aieeazumui]

But don't you think that with such guys initiating things and breaking the ice is damn tough?

[JosyJosy]

@aieeazumui No I have an easy time going past that if I want to. I'm also introverted, so the chance is big that we already have something in common, and talking about something you love, is nice and doing the activity together is good quality time, initiating isn't that hard, just need to know how to feel him out and approach accordingly

[BlckGrl]

I love mystery and quiet ones

[blueebirds]

I do. I like them confident not loud though.

[Orangesareyummy]

I hate loud people in general.

[Blindguyplaying]

Ah yes the Twilight era teams. Those were the days

[Luckycharms12]

Quite get girl wondering about you

[JessieBellll]

No it depends on the person

[Anonymous]

It's always worked for me.

[Anime_Løser]

Personally I like loud guys better :)

[jimmy2]

Not at all they would hate that

[Anonymous]

Depends