Do fit girls really attract better guys?

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wolfcat87 · Accepted Answer

NO. I've been everything from fit to plump. While I did get far more attention when fit and when skinny, the extra attention was not from quality men. It was from shallow men. I could not find a single decent guy when I was smaller! It got overwhelming, and just made for increased heartache. You end up in the predicament of wondering how meany of the extra men even see who you are on the inside vs whether they just like your look. Every guy wants to stick it in, but that does not mean any guy actually wants the woman they are trying to stick it in. It's all lust and no substance.

I've found that when I am a bit plump, I still attract the quality men I would have while fit. That is because those quality men are taking the time to see who I actually am as a person. A less fit body can ward away shallow people just looking to win a trophy to brag about. I'm not saying being super plump is a good idea, but not being perfect is a good way to ward off tools. Then, it's easy enough to be perfect AFTER obtaining a great guy. Awesome way to reward him for being amazingly wonderful!

I use the same idea with makeup. I try to be as natural as possible when dating, so I know the guy wants the real me flaws and all and not just me at my best.

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

Define what you mean by better? Not everybody is attracted to the same thing and you tend to sometimes be who you attract. That includes physically which is mostly your face, not your body. Your face tells everything about you that rarely genetically changes.

Apope16 · Accepted Answer

It depends. For sex any girl can attract a stud. I am a muscular man with a soccer athletic build and I have had some great sex with fat/overweight women. But I would not want to be in a relationship with them. When it comes to dating i like a woman who is fit or chubby with nice boobs. I am a black man. Often times its hard for black men to date slim and fit white girls. Many black men date chubby or fat white girls. Part of it is racial hierarchies where white women who are fit trade up in societal status to date a financially more well off white man. Part of it is because black men tend to like big booty. So they are more attracted to a fat woman with big booty rather than a slim white girl without curves.

So for sex? Fat women can get sexy muscular guys in bed. Guys fuck anything almost. But for relationships? Slim chics have a huge status advantage.

GoodManDave · Accepted Answer

I think a more fit girl will tend to attract higher status guys - most people would probably view that as "better" guys, but that's largely on based on semi-subjective opinion. I think more fit women will tend to be able to have more options for who they want to date on average than women who aren't as fit.

The guys they choose tend to be the guys who are generally better looking, and who are genetically better looking (not always the same thing, but often), they tend to make more money, have better opportunities to stay fit themselves... have better connections and earn more, etc.

Skankhunt · Answer

Being fit is a plus, but it doesn't mean you attract a better guy. You can still attract a bad guy. Also, looking good can also repel guys with your looks, because they are afraid to approach you, they think they won't stand a change with you, because you are out of his league.

So, being fit has its pros and cons when it comes to dating. Most confident guys are players (not all of them). Looks doesn't attract necessarily a good guy, you still have to trust yoru gut that you'll pick teh good guy.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

Better? No.
More, Yes.

Well, better in terms of staying fit themselves and being healthier. Physically I guess you could say that you get more acsess to healthier guys that have higher fitness standards.
But that doesn't mean they have better mental perspectives at all times. Even if it's easier to be healthy mentally if you have physical health, there's still plenty of beautiful assholes. So if it's better or not that entierly depends on what you are looking for.

Generally for guys I think it is..
Good looks -VS- Personality.
Most of the time..

So if you're thinking about getting fit, there's no downside to it. And you will have more options. But more importantly, if you want a good longterm relationship.. never stop improving the mind and your open-mindedness. Get a broad perspective and improve on all fronts. Practice humility and understanding. Aquire a hunger of intellectual stimulance and keep it well fed.
Physical beauty fades eventually.

genericname85 · Answer

mental health and physical health are connected. if you consider "health" a good thing, you will try your best being healthy and that means you will try to stay fit. it's more likely to get with someone that share your views. that's why fit people usually get with fit people.

Anonymous · Answer

My best friend is extremely fit and she has an ex that cheated on her.
Even though she's attractive and a lovely person.

So just out from the one experience, no. Fit women don't necessarily attract better guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, fit girls attract all types of guys but she will be a lot more likely to get a fit guy if she is also fit because then their lifestyles and hobbies would align as well. Also I personally find the fit type girls attractive not because of their bodies but mainly because of the fact that being fit communicates to me that you are someone that exercises and puts a lot of effort into a healthy mind and body which could translate to happiness etc.. Basically all of the super fit people I’ve met usually have a lot of things going for them and tend to be pretty happy people. The same could be said for super fit guys as well.

flamiE · Answer

Not really. I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum and to be honest when I was bigger, I mostly attracted guys that were genuinely nice and didn’t care about looks and saw me for me.
Now I attract mainly ones that wanna have fun for the night, they don’t pay that much attention to my personality, if at all.
I also find that smaller body makes men cut you a lot of slack.
To sum it up, you would get more attention if you’re fit, not necessarily the attention you want.

el_Te_de_la_Rosa · Answer

I don't think so. Being fit may attract more people, not better people. Probably they attract other fit people. There's always an exception. My ex-boyfriend who is a trainer now is married to a chubby lady. She could be better, but not because of her fitness.

In general, in my area being fit is nothing. Being skinny is more attractive. Men prefer weak looking women than fit and strong, esp. younger ones. Older men like all available women.

JohnFord · Answer

Well, I can be fairly certain, at least in broad terms, a fit girl is going to attract a fit guy. GENERALLY fit people will have more in common, or at least that one thing in common, and that’s going to help form the basis of a relationship.

But that was not your question. I’m going to go for the easy option and say how good a person is (if we can even judge this) is subjective. Defining why people are attracted to each other is not simple lol. And then add in individual tastes and it’s almost impossible.

Do intelligent men attract better girls?

Do sensitive women attract better men?

You can apply the same question to many positive traits.

Orangesareyummy · Answer

My stupid gym isn’t open due to covid. I live in a rural area. The gym is a blessing. I cannot wait to go back

Scholastic · Answer

Fit and... Unavailable, jaded, bitchy - no. She is in a fight with her previous boyfriend for not marrying her/not delivering on her (probably excessive) expectations and just needs a punching bag or an affair for rebound (nothing wrong for two people on a rebound to help each other, by the way)
Fit and collected - most certainly. It may not be enough if she expect me to cook and clean and provide all the income - but if she works as well, or is happy to cook and clean and raise children/drive them to school and activities - most definitely, that's a 9.
A 10 is that but with real commitment to bettering her new family with me, not working for her parents/using my abilities to better someone else she is more loyal (or indebted, without saying it specifically) to.

Nawlins34 · Answer

I wouldn't say better guys. I think it's more accurate to say,

"Fit girls have access to a bigger dating pool than girls who aren't fit."

There is a group of guys who are actually decent men but they simply aren't attractive to women who aren't fit. Fit women gains access to them.

"What's your definition of a better guy?" - I can't answer this for other guys. I could answer for myself, but the answer is irrelevant: I'm off the market.

Missphoenix789 · Answer

Okay , so after reading all of these "adorable and interesting" replies , I'd love to cite that all you need to attract is "A Man Of Substance" ! Class and Standards are what matters!
And from what you can attract such quality is not what you look like from outside but what you look like from inside! ♥

JosyJosy · Answer

Depends on what you see as 'better' but if you mean, fit guys, the chance is I think bigger because people look for someone with similarities, and for someone really into fitness, finding someone to share that passion with, would be best, so fit guys be after fit women. But there are also fit guys who just like the more voluptuous ones,

oddwaffle · Answer

It can be mathematically proven. They attract all people more by default since being "fit" is seen as healthy and aesthetically pleasing to most people. Since they attract more people overall they should attract better guys because "better" guys is a subgroup of "guys" which is a subgroup of "people".

TheorionMage · Answer

Underlying ALL physical attraction lies Nature's intuitive foremost priority,
... the perception of the ability to produce healthy offspring.
All else... is... artifice and glamoury~

"When you have them by their balls, their 'hearts and minds' WILL follow"

BeMuse · Answer

People look for some that meets a list of many things. Being in shape might be one thing on the list. You might get one point on the score card for getting fit, but if you need 50 to get a date you won’t see the results unless you have the other 49 things going for you as well...

nathanp97 · Answer

Depends on how you define better. If you Include looks, yes. If you are fit you are more likely to attract someone else who is. It also depends on what you are starting with. If you are already attractive it won't make much difference. There are probably just as many good guys who are fit and who aren't, so it depends on personal preference, but it is always a good idea to work out regardless.

dolidol · Answer

I think not. If a guy pick you because of your body he is definitely not a better guy

John_Doesnt · Answer

Sir Mix a Lot would disagree, he likes big butts and cannot lie. Also, Pierce Brosnan married a fat chick. If James Bond will go for fat girls than any decent man could. James Bond likes 'em big

guesswhoseback · Answer

Besides looking better it also shows you have self discipline and are committed to something healthy.

I have a ton more respect for a heavy girl who is trying to get in shape vs. a crybaby one using “fat acceptance” woke crap.

Also a fit girl is obviously going to be much more confident in bed vs one who isn’t. Some girls are so insecure about their bodies they are afraid to get naked despite really wanting to do it.

loveslongnails · Answer

No, fit girls attract EVERY guy !! They still have to sort out the "better" ones. Just because you're more fit than the next guy doesn't mean you're better.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys with more coin yes, better? maybe.

Course it depends how you are evaluating the man, if all you care about is coin then the answer will always be yes.

Bear in mind though that a guy with coin can always trade out for a younger model so thats something to think about.

Billyscotter · Answer

When girls are really into fitness, they're more likely to attract guys who are into fitness and gym culture. I'm in good shape but I don't really care about fitness, diet planning and researching supplements, so I'm not drawn to women who are really into the culture.

reallyhonestguy · Answer

Better guys? Uhmmm...
I think they will attract guys that are more into gym like muscular and fit guys. Now... Generally they care more about appearance than other things.

If you think a nice ass will attract nice intelligent guys think again. They will probably like your appearance but if they judge the book by its cover they will think that your probably a hot lady and not the rest of the qualities.

Anonymous · Answer

There is NO such thing as being able to attract "better" guys. Attraction is a VERY blunt weapon. It works on ALL guys. So fit girls will attract more guys overall but that will mean more "good" guys AND more not so good guys. YOU need to sort out which is which.

red324 · Answer

If by better you mean a hotter guy with more options. I don't necessarily consider that better because that means you're just another girl to him and he will be more likely to use you and move onto the next girl when he gets bored

Dongtai · Answer

Better is very subjective. You’ll attract more guys in general. But that doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll attract higher quality men. Higher quality men tend to be more selective.

aliali8 · Answer

it will probably attract more guys, not necessarily better ones.

Vetis · Answer

I personally don't have time for a girl that isn't fit.

JuliaStyles · Answer

They definitely attract the fuck boys and bad boys, but that certainly does not mean "better".

jshm2 · Answer

No. Usually their "fitness" is their escape from their shitty/dull relationship

HikerDude · Answer

No, fit girls attract all guys, good and bad. Girls who are fit and attractive have the widest choice in who they date. It's up to them to choose the quality men and reward those men for doing things right.

Kiss_Me · Answer

Yes. Attractiveness by primal caveman standards is breeding potential. A healthy body goes a long way in attracting the sexual attention of men. Same for women being attracted to men.

Hazelstar99 · Answer

Even if you are fit, if you have shitty taste when it comes to dating. You're still going to keep choosing shitty guy or girl.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Better guys? No.  More guys? Yes. I spend a lot of time at the gym and that is what i see the most.

elly91 · Answer

Not necessarily better guys... but it does up your chances to attract fit guys I guess...

Dsg1193 · Answer

They probably attract better looking guys and will get more attention. Are they better people? I don't know about that

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Being fit, mean she tries to improve herself beyond fake eyelashes, plastic nails, ton of makeup and hair dye. It changes perception of boys about a girl in a positive way.

AwanAlphaMale · Answer

Yes very much so. As long as she is not like one of those disgusting women with muscles. Being fit is very attractive.

CubsterShura · Answer

Fit girls definitely attract MORE guys, now whether or not they are 'better' well depends...

iseekpinetrees · Answer

No. Nice body doesn't make up for boring g personality

casserolie · Answer

me, being a 5'3 and 126 lbs girl who never worked out in my life, reading the answers like: 👁👄👁

Kurαȷ · Answer

No, skinny girls who aren't that fit also attract better guys.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

If you are a girl, you attract a guy, if you are fit and the shapely you will attract more guys, and you would attract hell lot of guys, but you havd to decide later if they are better or not

zagor · Answer

What is a "better" guy? Fit girls generally get more attention from all guys, not necessarily better ones. So in the sense that they have more options, yes.

NYlatefun · Answer

Not sure if better but for guys like fit girls, I think.

Lion91 · Answer

Wild & Inspiration  Kick Ass Bad Girls sure 👍

Phoenix98 · Answer

I don't know about attracting "better" guys but you will a better time at attracting guys if your fit.

Anonymous · Answer

there is nothing that men are attracted to more than muscular women. ever hear the words "baby got back"? or "back so big you can see it from the front"

Nalix · Answer

They certainly attract more guys. By definition this will include more good guys AND more low quality guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Attractive people attract more people and have more options to choose from. It doesn't mean they choose wisely though.

Shubhamgupta · Answer

Yes, becuase figure is the deciding factor for the boys

pigoat · Answer

What's YOUR definition ? You asked the question after all Lol

jamesgoldman · Answer

No you'll attract more guys sure but just remember quality over quantity

Gosceewual · Answer

Every girl attracts multiple guys It’s jus the choice one girl makes to the other that ends her up with a better guy

dtweed1996 · Answer

Not always they tend to sometimes and sometimes they get unlucky and attract a guy who is not really that attractive

Just_Me89 · Answer

Being fit and looking healthy would attract anyone.

art84 · Answer

Would a better guy be someone with a six pack of abs and ripped?

KatanaSlice · Answer

Fit girls are more physically attractive so they have more options than women who aren't fit.

K-I-S-S · Answer

Yes they do, in a sense that they attract a lot more guys, some % of them are better.

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