For what reason would you turn down someone attractive who was interested in you? (Page 2)
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Well I just don't mind it's personality what matters I have a handsome best friend and girls are head over heels for him but he's interested in me but uk we're friends so 🤷🏼♀️
I would turn someone down if they had toxic relatives, or a mental disorder like bipolar or depression. No amount of beauty is worth those prices.
There's probably a few dozen other things I would add to that list, but yeah.. drama-infused women are also a hard nope.
Worth noting - I would consider them for one night stands or friends with benefits.
If you're too busy doing something else, or you're not into a casual dating experience, sure, the best thing is to turn them down, or say you're otherwise occupied.
-If I can't form a strong connection (emotional etc) with them that's a no bueno.
-No personality whatsoever and simply agree to everything. nahh
-When they lie for the simplest of things
-Already in a relationship
- Disrespectful and the list goes onn
I always watch out for the Personality they're swinging with and the Drama they're dragging behind them.
Bad personality. I am a really attractive woman and I've gone out on so many dates with attractive men where there were so, so, miserable and pessamistic, and just wanted to complain about the Republican party, the current administration, poverty, global warming, etc.
I would turn them down fast simply because I wouldn't be good enough for them in the long run. Plus, I'd have to constantly worry about them falling for someone who was just as attractive as they are.
There is no way in hell I'd ever date --let alone attract--an attractive person. Just no.
What are you talking about? You're extremely beautiful.
@Jamie05rhs Lol--that's not me in my profile.
I wish it was, though.
Oh. Damn.
Well, what DO you look like?
If i don't like them for some reason, it's not going to happen, no matter how good she looks.
Like when she is not my type at all, can't talk with her at all, or she has some bad habits, that i know she won't just abandon, like smoking..
If that was to ever happen to ME, I'd immediately think there was an ulterior motive or I'm being pranked again, nothing positive would be going through my mind and I would probably question them about why they would choose me, given my past experiences have all been shit and by questioning them I'd probably seem like I was turning them down or seem like I'm not worth the effort, which I'm not.
So my answer would be that they show interest in me and that's never been a good thing for me.
May I ask you why would you think that way? Actually the guy I'm interested in, replied the same. Now I'm pretty perplexed why do guys think that way!
@Jannat99 I think that way because I only know rejection, no female has ever had interest in me (I know this because every female I've ever met has told me so), no girl has ever walked over to me and talked to me except once but that turned out to be a prank at my expense and it was embarrassing as hell and I've been called ugly my whole life and a lot of that was by females.
So if by any chance another girl does approach me, I wouldn't know to think of it in any other way but negatively, I've never had any positive interactions with females. So I'd be thinking a girl approaching me has ulterior motives.
If we don't vibe or if we don't have the same goals in life.
In my case it would be because I'm not interested in having a relationship or a casual arrangement whatsoever
God! some people could be the SEXIEST HUMAN ALIVE but have the worst personality and attitude! and only care for themselves! and selfish, thats a no. but if you are very caring and sweet and opened minded then ofc :)
No connection, no attraction (no spark, you can think they're goodlooking but not your type), negative mindset, disrespectful... such a long list.
Personality, emotional unavailability, bad sexual chemistry. So many reasons. There’s more non-physical reasons to turn someone down than physical reasons.
I have done that twice, and in both cases it was because of personality and ideology. In particular, both were feminists with unhealthy perceptions about men and gender.
Generally: Expectations.
That I "worry" that IF someone attractive would be interested in me, I (likely) wouldn't be able to keep up with their "needs"/"desires"
If we didn't have some sort of connection or interests that were similar, are not seeking the same things
If they’re rude, if I am already in a relationship, or if I don’t have a good connection with them. Because I’d like to date someone who I can connect with, if it’s not there then I dont think it would be a good relationship.
Being rude, not knowing how to behave, and being liar, I refuse these features if they exist. He may be handsome, but the most important is character. I can't even have a friend who has no character.
If they aren’t Christian, smart, kind, and seem like an f**kboy who jumps from girl to girl. Intelligence and kindness is a total turn on if the guy is Christian and attractive.