I was scrolling along in unanswered questions when I came across your post. I see that your post is 28 days old. How are things? Are you still with this guy? I decided to respond to this because, well, we both must be nuts. Why are we expecting some sort of miraculous long distance romance? I’m in ….(was? sigh...) in a similar situation, questioning a long distance relationship, except mine is in another country! (Interestingly, I’m also in California, Southern California. What part are you from?)
In your case, I’m curious as to what happened. My guess is either it ended, the indication being his comment, “I don’t know because I don’t know what time we’ll be back” (you’re right, to think an aka there) or you are still talking to each other, but not because you are really into each other but because, well, it’s someone to talk to… In the second case, you would both be stringing each other along. I have found in my long distance relationship, an agreed sense of direction and our relationship, kind of helped us to focus on things. Establishing multiple connections is also a must. The lack of those connections should really make you consider if this relationship is really what you want.
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