I'm talking to this guy and he said that he wanted to see how we connected in person before we date. I thought this was smart and we hadn't seen eachother in a little under 10 months at the time. Anyway its a week after us hanging out (We may have kissed a little bit). I ask him about us and what we were and what he wants us to be. This guy says well I'm not sure if we should date yet, but i wanna keep talking. I ask way and his answer is he doesn't think i can keep up with him. I asked some friends and family and they said this means he is just keeping me till he firnds better, is this true?
He is definitely stringing you along or he would have moved with exuberance at the opportunity to date and form underpinning necessities such as a preliminary bonding or emotional awareness found in connecting.
Instead he connected with you physically and without a Cost. He tested you out and believes you will not have sex with him (can't keep up). And it will be easier to keep you distanced in order to conform you to the idea of giving sex in exchange for a relationship.
The same relationship he was quick to avoid. What else does one need to move on as neither pregnancy or marriage is going to change his character tendencies absorbed in Self... what's good for Me, Myself, and I. 18 is an adult and it time to think like one. Listen to those with more experience in your Family. They've been looking out for you longer than anyone else.
What I've got to say... who cares!!! except that I am very analytical and can assess relationship. Most people on this site are not qualified to assist you including me. Mom...
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