Why does he kiss me on the cheek while I’m sleeping?

[Anonymous]

So I met this guy on a dating site, he said he’s not capable of committed relationship right now. Recently, he faced some issue and I offered him my place to stay. In the past, when we hangout, he was really affectionate. But recently, he has been really secretive with his phone and distant in terms of hugs and kisses. (I’m not sure if it’s because he knows I like him and he can’t give me what I want that’s why he is being distant to avoid hurting me and stringing me along). But... while I’m sleeping, he would still purposely come into the room to give me a kiss on the cheek? What does that mean? Does he still have interest and feelings for me?

[Randomawkwardness]

I mean he could be really grateful to you and syill have some feelings but emotionally attached to someone else. You should really talk to him because it's sweet but kind of creepy especially since I'm going to assume you haven't known him for very long

[Asker]

I have known him for about six months and I know that he is not emotionally attached to anyone, but he is just not capable of committing to a relationship after his last one... would that help explain why he does that?

[Randomawkwardness]

6 months tho? I mean I feel like you would be able to commit again after 6 months so maybe you should talk to him and I don't know sometimes people just do little things that they don't really think about and this could be one of those things for him like he does it because he cares about you

[Asker]

I understand why he can't commit... he has some physical and mental struggles which I don't think he is at the stage of wanting a relationship to invest in, but I guess im just wondering, does he still has any feelings/interest in me

[Randomawkwardness]

I mean yeah I would assume so

[Anonymous]

TELL HIM TO STAY THE FUCK OUT OF YOUR ROOM! HE can't JUST BE COMIG IN WHEN YOU can't CONSENT TO KISS YOU!! That's very rapish 😡🖕

[Asker]

We have hugged and kissed before I just don’t get why he would do that when he’s being really distnat in general with affections

[Opinion Owner]

You can't sexually assault someone when they are sleeping just because they consented while awake? do you not see the same issues I do with this? If not, girl bye.

[Asker]

Yes I do see you’re point. I guess my question is, why would he do that? Like from what sort of feelings leads to that action?

[Opinion Owner]

He's a rapey fucking rapist. jc

[Drumlin2001]

Its rather creepy. You should ask him to stop.

[Anonymous]

he's hoping you'll wake up and suck his cock

[Asker]

Nah I’m 100% sure that’s not the case because he would just lie next to me as we did before if thags what he wants.

[Opinion Owner]

he's hoping you won't suck his cock so he kisses you lightly so he doesn't wake you up