Today I heard that he asked my friend if I had talked about him and he talked about how he missed me. What I don't understand is this: he totally could've had me if he would've just TRIED instead of crying and saying it wouldn't work. Are his attempts at reaching out him missing me or does he just want my reactions? Is he manipulative or just really immature? And what is the best way to deal with him the next time he contacts me? (I still care about him, but I don't want to be strung along (
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I think it's probably normal for a guy to miss you when he's dumped you, even if he doesn't want to get back together. It's always hard when a person is pretty much gone from your life, even if you know that you can't have a future with this person.
Now of course I don't know how he feels, or what his motivations are. But I'd say give it some time. Maybe things will be great again between you two, but don't hang on to that thought.
As for anastasis, pay no attention to him. I don't know why he's on this site at all since he never leaves any worthwhile input and is basically just on here to be an asshole. I guess he hasn't quite understood the purpose of this site.