I have been talking to a guy for the last 2 years. I have known him my whole life as his mum is friends with my nan. In the last 2 years we have just gone round in circles, and still aren't official despite him being keen to tell me how much he has liked me since we were kids. There is always a different reason when I bring it up and it feels like he is playing me. It was his birthday yesterday and I surprised him with presents and afterwards he said "I want to make it official by Christmas". If he wanted it that back surely he could just ask there and then. Seems like he keeps putting it back and back. He also puts in very little effort until I am showing interest in someone else, then he makes me feel guilty with how "loyal" he is. Just can't wait around like this forever not knowing where I stand but feeling guilty for trying to move on.
Is he stringing me along?
