Is the root cause of black women being least desirable in america due to their personality?

[Anonymous]

I've heard many men say they are put off by black women due to their aggressive and masculine personalities. Do you think this is the root cause for their desirability in dating?

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

Wow. Let me say some of these comments are very ignorant and stereotypical, though I am really not surprised since people can hide behind a computer screen or phone and say what they really feel.

Black woman here. I will say it's discouraging to know we're considered the least desirable race out there. And yes, there is truth to this statement: even on dating sites, it's been statistically proven that black women have a harder time finding dates than any other ethnicity. Why?

I blame negative stereotypes and how others perceive us. There are so many negative stereotypes based around black women- we're loud, obnoxious, ghetto, masculine... the list goes on.
So people already have these perceived thoughts about us, true or not.

Meaning those of us that are educated, have good jobs, take care of our bodies, are feminine, etc... will still be looked at in a negative manner because of how others have been taught or assume all black women behave!

It's pathetic really because for those of us that are desirable are still looked over unless we have lighter skin, or "act white" as I've been called by some people. The fact that someone considers me not behaving like a typical black woman as unusual says a lot about how people view black women. And it's sad; it really is.

[Dali-chan]

No. Men that aren’t attracted to them, do so because they were brainwashed by the Eurocentric beauty standard pushed by the medias. Supermodels don’t need an amazing personality to be attractive on a cover and yet you barely see one that’s not white with light features. most men care about their image and only want to be seen with the woman that’s the most conventionally attractive, when extremely thin women with narrow hips were the standards, you would see many guys drooling over girls that look like that, and now that insta models with big booties are desirable you see guys ignoring girls with no curves and making fun of them. If the medias stated the day after that black women are more attractive you would see many guys throwing many scientific facts about how white women are biologically less desirable. Some men are mature enough to not care about it and to only go after what they like wether society worship it or no.

[Leavesbound]

I am a white male. From the perspective of a white male, most of us don't really care about the color of your skin. That said, all of us white men know white men who would never date a Black women and the reasons I have most commonly heard given are as follows:

1) "They have a racial chip on their shoulder."
2) "Their family won't like me because I'm White."
3) "My family won't like her because she's Black."
4) "We would be too culturally different to have anything in common."

Everything that comes after 4 is racist and I won't repeat here.

[caring__1]

As long as people promote these negative stereotypes through various media, it becomes hard for people to accept that there are endless varieties of differences in any group. If a black girl wants to be a black girl, and this is all she sees in the media, how is she to become anything other than a clone of these negative stereotypes? Let's encourage people to be unique... to be themselves.

If you truly care, read this article in the UCLA Magazine https://newsroom.ucla.edu/magazine/safiya-noble-center-critical-internet-inquiry-algorithms-oppression

[MCheetah]

As a black man, I can it's half true. Half is personality, the other half are a f*ckton of other things; socioeconomic status, inferior public education, lack of father figures or strong male role models, negative past associations with unfaithful men (often black men), etc.

However, to be fair, MOST Western women nowadays aren't really too attractive on the inside. THAT can probably be blamed on modern Feminism, woke culture, Princess Syndrome, laziness, entitlement, porn, polyamory/cuckolding, simps, and other reasons.

So while some black women come off too ghetto to want to date, white and Asian women in the West aren't exactly much better or more appreciative of men nowadays. Sadly, places like Japan, South Korea, and India are starting to get "woke" too, making them soon to be as horrible as Western liberal women.

[GirlsTonguesHOT]

Racism.

Well some people may not be fond of Black women for understandable reasons, most of those reasons do correlate to racism. As well as unfair, bullshit stereotypes.

Fun fact: Black men HATE Black women. Which is fine. More black babes for I:

"Short Black Men ONLY, bruh! Not sorry, bruh!"-Kandibunz

"My 'Bahoogas' are a size 69DD, dawg!"-Kandibunz.

[someginger]

No since black women aren't just one big stereotype there people with different personalities.

The reason why black women are seen as less desirable is bc for hundreds of years being black wasn't seen as beautiful.

I mean look at places like Ghana and other places in Africa where skin bleaching is a massive thing, bc there trying to live up to the European standards of beauty.

[DWornock]

There are exceptions. However, the primary reason is on average, black women are the least feminine and Asian women are the most feminine, and men are attracted to more feminine women. Asian men have difficulty because, while black men are the most masculine, Asian men are the least masculine, and women are attracted to more masculine men.

[Dali-chan]

Asian men don’t really have difficulty now that Kpop became a trend. You literally see many girls fetishizing korean men, at the point where it became problematic. It’s all about media portrayal.

[DWornock]

@Dali-chan To some extent. However, height is a factor as women usually prefer taller men and Asian men are the shortest; typically 2 inches shorter than white men and black men.

[NotARobberYet]

No.

White women are the most insufferable women among all, yet they're preferred to black women, which is extremely unfair.

[Jack9949]

I agree. Its because of decades of the media propping them up as the beauty standard

[Achilles1]

Both looks and personality.
For my personal taste, they are the least attractive.
Also find them to be the loudest and most unfeminine like.

[GirlsTonguesHOT]

I don't necessarily like or agree with your opinion, but thank you for phrasing it without being an asshole; unlike most people on this site.

[Browneye57]

So much generalization. You're clearly clueless, just making assumptions.

Date who you want. But quit making racist comments.

[Ifriqyan]

Then why don't they say they're not attracted to white women because of the entitled "Karen" personality.

I think it's BS.

[Anonymous]

There might be some truth to that because the black women that turn me on the most always seem to be the whitewashed ones.
Black women who act like white girls or have a UK accent are hot as hell.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

False. Black women are just about 9% of the population in America and doesn't help many of their black men are thirsty puppies who prefer non black women to be with to make social statement.

[Joshua213]

in my opinion white women are least desirable. Blsck women aren't the worst. Many non white people have similar beliefs to me, whereas most white people I've met don't.

[Avicenna]

I think that question is a very incomplete way of looking at it. It takes two to tango, so what men do black women consider most desirable?

[Anonymous]

I blame their idols like Niki manaj and cardi b. bad influences luckily not all are like that. same goes for any race of girls that act like that. I go for girls who speak English fluently and have an IQ over 100.

[Anonymous]

No. It's just the skin tone that's it. The same thing occurs in Asian countries

[jasco]

no most men actually want to date Asians and black women but they simply don't because of entirely different reasons

[Opinion Owner]

@jasco I meant as in how dark skin is presumed to be ugly and less desirable in Asian countries and i do not just mean China, Korea and all. I mean the complete Asian continent

[GirlsTonguesHOT]

This is because dark skin in Asia is associated with 'labor'. Asians that were rich spent their time doing indoor work. While those that were poor, spent their time doing outdoor work.

And yes, this does add to my misanthropy. And no, this isn't a reason to hate Asians or attack them for that matter.

I pray to the Devil every day that he destroy this wretched planet we live on.

[Opinion Owner]

@GirlsTonguesHOT LOL yes ik. But today the desirability doesn't come from thinking about labour but plain dark=ugly concept cayse that us how it has evolved to be

[GirlsTonguesHOT]

Precisely (and unfortunately) my dear.

The hatred for black woman and Asian men makes me want to kill myself.

[Aurora1010]

@GirlsTonguesHOT Are you an Asian guy?

[GirlsTonguesHOT]

@Aurora1010 No. A Black man very much into Asian culture... as well as Asian women.

And yes, I know. I like Asian women WAAAAAY too much. I've many issues.

[Aurora1010]

@GirlsTonguesHOT It's not really weird, I love the Asian cultures as well

[zagor]

Almost no black women I've known have met ghetto stereotypes.

[najekim]

Perhaps for some. But the majority are just normal human beings. It's those few who do have corrosive personalities that ruined it for the rest, IMHO.

[itsnotme123]

I've never heard anyone say this, but to be fair I usually try to avoid hanging around blatantly racist people

[Anonymous]

That and their unattractive physical features like skin tone, facial structure, hair texture, etc.

[Anonymous]

Aggressive, Masculine, Loud are undesirable traits in my female partner

[Dumplingcombo]

No, because oddly enough, the colour of your skin does not dictate your personality.