Many people like curvy body and it is most common in black woman so many like big lips black woman have it. Why they are still considered least attractive?
Why people think that black woman are least attractive?
I don't think its black women, I think its certain black women. I find with black women either they are stunning or very much not. Part of that I think is personal health and hygien and willingness to dress themselves up (wearing their natural hair even if it takes more effort to make it look nice vs. a wig or weave for example). I think part of that is poverty, the fact is the poorer you are the less likely you are to be attractive because you have less access to health care needs (so more likely to be obese which black women are, and things like that, dental care, working many jobs or long hours wears the body down more etc.(and that is coming from a man who is poor so I'm not saying this as judgment just a sad reality (if you have health issues you also can't adress them as readily as some one with more money) and things of that nature).
I also think part of it is behavioral, as I find, for lack of a better term, "refined"(I'd say educate but that isn't quite right a term) and feminine women more attractive and with a lot of black women in poorer black communities this is not a common trait amongst them. This is not all black women of course, I have found many black women who where very refined (I've worked with them, they carried themselves in a very feminine and classy way, they spoke eloquently and again, where very feminine and VERY attractive. But the poorer you are the less likely you are to speak in such away).
The third is I think more to do with familiarity. My friend said he would never date a black woman. He is now engaged to a black woman. I think part of it is since black women are only about 7% of the population (in the US at least), not as many men interact with them as much. As such I think that a lot of guys don't develop an attraction to them. Its like with anything else, you get use to those differences which at first may be odd to you, if you have good and positive interactions with a group of people you are more likely to look at them favorablly and by extension you will start seeing them as attractive. So I think this might be another issue.
Finally, the fourth reason is I think many guys won't admit when they find a black woman attractive. If you look at porn search data the, if memory serves, second most searched for catagory is Ebony. Now take into account that a scientific study tried to find the effects of porn on men only to discover they couldn't find a single man who didn't watch porn, and you have a LOT of men watching a lot of porn and a lot of them are looking at black women in porn. I think the reason for this is because one, a lot of non black men are told that black women only date black men, we (white men) are told that blacks just automaticly see us as racist and evil so we definitley don't want to stick our necks out talking to a black woman if it means she is going to just tell us we are evil because we are white or what have you. And finally I think their is still a taboo (though I think its self inflicted) about interracial dating when it comes to white men and black women so a lot of guys don't have the balls to risk being hazed for liking black girls (personally I have never had a racial preference, I'm not going to turn down a beautiful woman simply because she tans better then me. That said not every guy is comfortable taking that risk because they fear social stigma).
So I think this is why that is happening. Personally I have found plenty of black women attractive (the girl in the photo is stunning to say the least (and sadly far out of my league), I have seen black women so gorgeous men would drool over them so I know they exist and are not as rare as they are made out to be) I just think their are factors that exacerbate the issue.
Black women say they have a curvy body but they dont. They are fat. They are chunky. Thicc thighs is fatness. Thats unattractive.
Many black women live in the inner city where there is no grocery stores. No healthy food. Their thighs rub together. Their thighs jiggle yet they think because they post head shots with their boobs sticking out of their bra they are sexy. Uhm no.
Also... many black women have sour attitude and are disrespectful. They scream at you, have attitude, talk negative, and are emotionally abusive. I refuse to date a woman who is waving her hand in my face, cussing, and shouting. Fakeness. In the hood I see a lot of fake women. Fake hair. Fake nails. Fake eyelashes. Do white girls wear fake eye lashes? You never see that. I hardly see a white girl with fake nails either. All that fakeness is low value behavior.
Clothing. I notice a lot of revealing fake clothes. I like a girl who is fairly preppy on a date. Nice tight jeans with a low cut v neck top. But a lot of black women show up with revealing high skirts and tops with boobs hanging out. Then the neckless. Then the eyelashes. Then the nails.
Too much fakeness. Too much attitude. Too fat. Too diabetic.
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I think black women are beautiful and it might sound corny but I really do get attracted to every type of person. I think it’s only a matter of people opening their minds because people often stick to what they are used to. Doesn’t help that for centuries now most cultures glorified the most fair looking people as a sign of status and beauty. This is changing rapidly with globalization. If I can offer my opinion, do not let other people define you, and anyone who says black people are not attractive is just very narrow minded and a product of what they have been exposed to or taught by their immediate friends or family.
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Black men themselves say that they don't like black women. Kinda sad and self hate
Well I think that’s bullishit from them but I am sure that there are also black men out there who uplift black women, right? we all should be advocating to continue to see more types of beauty in mainstream media and I do see this happening though we have a long way to go!
Who cares how attractive people think a race is most people look ugly so that stopped being a metric for getting laid a while ago.
I’ve heard people from the ghetto want latinas over blacks because they think blacks will leave them for welfare. Could be why black guys are giving you trouble.
Where did you get the statistic that mostly curvy women are blacks? Are you talking about the obesity rates in the black community then yes they’re quite curvy. That’s one thing most guys don’t like. To the other point of liking big lips. Not ever have I heard a black, white, Hispanic or Asian man say they like big lips. I like them myself but I won’t pretend it’s the norm. Most black women don’t look like the picture you have posted. Everyone likes their own kind. Just do what’s best for you and find who likes you best. Not make everyone like you.
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Then why so many black men don't like them and why so many white women do surgery for big lips. By curvy I mean body of girl I have posted
Attraction is not a logical process. For most men, we are either attracted or we aren't, and no amount of logical discussion will change our response. I am attracted to short women (5'0" to 5'2") with small boobs, small butts, and a cute face. Why? I don't know, but that is just the way it is!
I don't think about whether black women are attractive or unattractive. I am simply not attracted. An it has nothing to do with racist attitudes.
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Not even asking about you but about other men. How can men say they like latinas for being curvy and big lips while hating on black people for same features?
"Not being attracted" is not the same thing as "hating on" black people. Some people like Asians but are not attracted to them sexually. Same thing with every race.
Big butts, big lips thats what women think is attractive, not men. Men didn't say anything about big lips or curvy women are sexy, women said that shit. They put words in mens mouth then get themselves confused. Also fake nails, fake wigs, fake eyelashes very common in black women.
The black women in picture is like 1% of black women. Most of them dont look like that.
First it's not unanimous many do like black women.
Notable things that make them less attractive are wigs, fake long nails, and extra long eyelashes. Problem is these things are common trends for black women for some reason and they reduce the value.
You can always find a black woman radiating natural beauty and be just as taken with her as you would be any other color.
We live in a racist world. A world where black people are not seen as human beings and it's even worse if you're a black woman. Plus, many people believe in stereotypes and they certainly don't help us.
For me personally, I don't like the bubble butts most. of them have. Cellulite in the legs is very common. I don't like huge boobs, which most seem to have, and I'm not a huge fan of the hair if they don't try to tame it down. (I understand that the hair is hard to deal with. I have nothing against brown people. It's just not my thing.)
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Black women are too hot, and they highlight their hotness even more with tight clothes and excessive make up I think. They wanna look glamorous which they don't need, what they need is simplicity and elegance, this is how they become more admired and less desired.
It could be because of the political climate. BLM is ramming down our throats that whites are systemically racist. Whites are the cause of all of Black's problems. So when men see a Black woman, they pass.
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I am not only talking about white men lol why so many black men say so? Why mixed Latino Asian middle Eastern and indian men think so?
I've heard black women being criticised for being loud, aggressive, generally difficult to deal with, and angry---qualities certain to repel even the most devoted simp.
Well the reason why I think a lot of black women are unattractive is because of how they dress, act, talk, there makeup style, not sure if there is anything else but yea. The skin tone doesn't bother me tho
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Because most of them are from ghetto upper middle class or high class black women won't be like that
Could be since black guys don’t uplift them like all other guys do. Asian guys- they uplifted Asian girls through anime White guys- it’s ridiculous what they did to white girls. Everyone around the world wants a white girlfriend now. Hispanic guys- uplifted by their culture and many often are not shy to publicly say they love their Latinas. I’ve heard it a lot before. Black guys- degrade them kind of through rap music and single mother problems.
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I mean white men glorify white people in general many people also want white boyfriend.
Yes, it is sad. That’s why I don’t date white girls. I want to show my women they are pretty too because they see themselves as less pretty than white girls for being brown
Skin Color , Large Asses, Their use of the English language, Their Hair, Wide Noses.
Please note this is all generally speaking and you may see many black women who do not have any of the ones i have mentioned here like Somalians or Women from Ethiopia
They are attracted to those features I mean How can men say they like latinas for being curvy and big lips while hating on black people for same features?
They don't love afro Latina people were hating on amara la negra who is afro latina for being black. Even in many Latin America people find white people or mestizas (mixed between European and native American) prettier than black women
Outlandish traits, most likely. It's quite standard for members of a determined race to be more attracted by more homely looks. But of course, there are exceptions.
The majority of women I've ever found attractive, have been black. I could say about 70% of the women I've ever found attractive have been black. So it doesn't matter to me what everyone else thinks.
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But I am not asking about you just asking why most men think so. I am asking more about your friends that you
It could be prejudice. Could be peer pressure. Could be misconceptions of black women. Could just be that they just don't find them attractive. One of my friends isn't attracted to Black women. He just isn't. The rest of my friends ether don't find them as attractive, or not at all. One of them because of a bad experience, but that can be applied to anything.
Because most black women aren't curvy, they're "curvy," first of all.
Second of all, most black women don't have full lips.. they have fucking MASSIVE lips. Gross.
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Most white American women are also fat so? Most Black women in Africa are not fat. Lol why white women do surgery for those massive lips? If they are gross
Well. Although I'm only interested in my own race, I can see beauty in women of other groups.
Thing is, for a lot of us, most black women seem less feminine. Usually in their behaviour. Other times it can be facial features
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I am not talking about you. lol in fact I ended up asking this question after a black guy told me that he don't like black girls while think that Latinas are so pretty
I like black women , but most have an attitude, that turns me off. Too aggressive, have a lot of hate and are self-centered. This coming from a white guy raised in the projects.
