Black women can be very physically attractive, and they can also have attractive personalities, but a large number of black women in the US have very off-putting personalities, and quite a few are extremely overweight.
Really, though, the biggest problem is the high percentage of black feminists with masculine energy and masculine behavior - that turns most men right off. They can be "strong and independent" if they want, but they're going to have to do so alone, because that's repulsive to men.
Of course, it's not just black women who have this problem, but I think black women bought into that at a higher rate than any other group.
There are black women who aren't like this, of course - I've dated a couple of them, and they were great girls. Unfortunately, they were the exception rather than the rule.
No, there's loads of beautiful black women everywhere. Don't let anyone try to break your confidence, you need to surround yourself with more positive promotion of black women and beauty.
No. They’re not unattractive. People saying that is disrespectful and rude. There is attractive and unattractive people of every race. Sure, people have preferences. That’s not wrong. But it’s wrong to judge someone’s value as a person.
Like how some people like brown eyes and some like blue eyes. I find many black women very attractive and others. Not so much. The same as all races.
Honestly the best thing you can do for yourself is learn to tune "society" out. People like to use "society" as a club to beat what they think and believe into others and push people to do what they think a person should be doing. It's basically the same thing that religious nut cases and cult leaders do. Just replace the books of Scientology with the idea of living in or being part of society and it all sounds or reads the same.
Also being wrapped up in what "society" thinks is a quick way of developing self hatred due to us never feeling like we are part of it or always failing to be part of it despite our best efforts to do so. You can also quickly lose and possibly never know and accept your true self as well.
Naw. Just a lot of racists really want to tell us as loud as possible society thinks we are not attractive in hopes of shaming us and lowering our self esteem.
But i think when you take the racists out the equation.
You will see we about as desirable as other race's.
There will be some people who love us. Some that find us no different than other races and some who just ain't into us.
Well, on average.. black women.. Like black people in general.. often have a wide nose, big lips / mouth.. And the afro hair... These features are considered " strong " by people from other races... and people often prefer women to have soft features because it's what makes them so different from men... So, it's kinda hard for black girls to be seen so attractive by other races... Even the black celebrities people mention as a prove... They're often light skin and don't have all the things mentioned above together...
Society doesn't actually say that.. A lot of "Black" women act unattractive by being domineering, loud, and boisterous... But there are a lot of pretty "Black" women out there and if that's you, you are a cutie.
I think attractive women are attractive 🤷♀️ I don’t like the colour orange though really, so if a women were orange or green even I don’t know if I’d find her as attractive as more neutral colours. Suppose it just depends on the colour of the background really 🤔 maybe orange chicks would look more attractive in the forest!
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Black women are not attractive to me, but attractiveness is a very subjective phenomenon and I understand that they are attractive to many other people.
A person doesn't need to be a Hollywood movie star to attract the opposite sex. There is almost always someone out there who will find you attractive.
why would you listen to society? why let others tell you how to think? How to act? How to be what they want you to be? I don't think you are unattractive at all. I know a lot of beautiful black girls/women. You need to believe in yourself and like who you are. That confidence will radiate outward and others will want to be around you. Confidence is sexy on a girl of any color.
I’ve seen a lot of attractive black women. I don’t really think that attraction has much to do with race but I think income can be a factor in how you look. Can you afford a hairstylist and healthy diet etc?
Absolutely Not True! I'm a White Male and think Black Women are just as Attractive as White Women! If anything Black Women have a Sex Appeal that other Races don't and I think it's Hot!
Nia Long was a hit in the 90's so was Jada Pinkett but she's crazy so I don't like her hahaha Beyonce, before she married Jay Z in the 2000's & Meagan Good.
Everyone want ass surgeries and lip surgeries to be bigger lol
For me, physically, unfortunately mostly yes. Personally, they make great friends with a wonderful sense of humor and great conversations. I am fortunate to work with some black women and also to have some as my friends.
It depends on what you call unattractive in a blank woman is it physical, mental etc. because women in general are attractive and that’s where it ends physical, mentally they are unattractive
Not really. In all honesty, I'm attracted to them the least in general, but that doesn't mean I'm not attracted to them. I've met some really fine black women. It's just not my main preference.
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