What makes a woman a good girl? Ima nice guy so where’s my date lol. Welcome to the real world honey. A world where being good gets you overlooked. Where being good looking and willing to put out is everything.
Let me run a few ideas past you and you pick the prettiest one.1! The big city and the country aren’t the same. Smaller towns tend to stay within themselves and people care more about how they look to others... they are held to societal standards where as in the city you’ll never see the same person twice. Your friends are your friend because you’re the same so they won’t hold you to standards.
2! Your a 7 on a good day but your picking it guys that are talk, dark, and handsome, rich, and have a big dick... the problem is these men have a woman to replace you if you step out of line so why should they have standards? Then you have the other side. Women prostitution themselves on only fans and in their lives. Putting it in the first date or just using the guy for a free meal. Women dressing like school girls from a man’s favorite porno. That’s gonna make men appreciate women alright!
3! All men are trash except the 1 or 2 you know... I wanted to include this option for you feminists out there.
Ok being real for a minute... I deal with this exact same thing but worse. If your cute you got a new date next week if you want it. Marriage material man but at least they will pretend to care. Men like me don’t even get that. So ya. I pick 2. And because of 1 I can’t even learn what I lack to be accepted. Standards between the city and country are so different. Being a man don’t work...
20 minutes from not you won’t remember that someone else out there suffers the same thing you do. Set a timer and see. It’s so easy to overlook the suffering of others. The equivalent to you flirting for me is paying a hooker $300. Your pussy gives you privilege men don’t have. Many even most men don’t have that person that cares and your post online will get you 50 white knights and sir save-a-hoes.
It’s cruel but it’s life. You asked why and I told you. Pick whatever choice you wanna believe.
You could literally ask this same question about women.
"I see this happening all the time and it’s happened to me too. Girls always talk about how guys treat women badly and pump-and-dump them and how they only care about sex and don't really want to date or marry anyone. But I hardly ever hear why it’s okay for tall attractive guys to treat them badly, but short, unattractive, or overweight guys aren't even allowed to say Hi to them without it being sexual harassment. Why does it seem like the only guys women want are assholes? I’m starting to learn this is why decent guys are now going MGTOW and taking the Red Pill."
To answer your question though; you keep going after assholes and rejecting the guys less than a 7 who'd treat you right. Men won't give you sympathy when women see 80% of most guys as literally undateable and beneath her and then wonders why the guys 80% of women are going after have the nerve to treat her as disposable.
Most "nice girls' actually aren't that nice, at least in my experience. Just because you think you are nice, doesn't mean that you are. That aside though, most girls, even the nice ones, tend to go for the "bad" boys because of the thrill and because of the challenge, you can't change someone, they have to want to change on their own. Basically, most girls today just have horrible taste in men or misread the guy. Everyone has issues and experiences that shape who they are, along with their own beliefs and values. I used to be that nice guy that always got friend zoned, until I stopped caring, that's when people took me seriously. When you realize who is not worth your time and how to tell that they aren't, they either leave you alone or get more aggressive. In this "modern" age, if you can call it that, politics plays a huge roll. Women need to hate men and blame them for their problems, and men need to treat women poorly to make them feel like they don't have options. The simple truth is that both men and women can only take so much pain and hurt before they start dishing it out themselves because they don't know how to process anything nor take responsibility for anything that they've done. It's easier to hate and mistreat others, and blame them, than to aim back at the ones that hurt you in the first place in an mature, not childish manor.
Damn I must be doing something wrong because I can't even find the bad girls have you ever been out camping hearts and burning man or to a swap meet or to the fair maybe in a traffic jam two way street when going forward the other one going the opposite way you stop every 2 seconds access to the guy across from me will all those places right there is the stop-and-go type situation same as here you go in you answer a question and you move on not unless something Sparks and interested did you want to keep it going it takes both people it takes excitement something new the challenge something is going to make you feel good or make that person feel good if you just say hi and nothing else see you tomorrow or maybe not keep the fire going
Hold up, they actually talk about this often. They call him a "chad," and they hate and are jealous of guys like this. Basically, it's that the best 10% of guys get 80% of girls chasing them, and there's no drawbacks on his part, nor is there any reason for him to commit. The other 90% of guys are chasing 20% of girls. It's, weirdly enough, a talking point of MGTOWs or MRAs, and called a consequence of feminism and sexual liberation as there's no point in holding a relationship down. I'm not really in MGTOW or MRA. I'm more relaxed about the whole situation as I'm just average (normally called an 8/10), but it's weird and untrue to say they aren't talking about this.
I start to goast girls in the recent time, personal i'm just tired of drama and to much negative emotions and try to calm down the situation when she start to cry or feel sad.
Olso i don't feel anymore interes afther a crule brake up of mine from the past, so i simply don't see anymore the point to tell her what's wrong whit her/me/us.
I simply lost my interes or i never been interested but want to give her a chance to impres me whit something.
I think now that is bether this way and let the person think what ever they want then to face a crule true that will make them more sad.
I’m gonna try to make this quick. A lot of Women like bad boys or serious men. Why? Because they have a high perceived value. In which case those guys most likely have as many women on their phone as you have men you could hit up. Nice guys and nice girls are 👎🏽 Especially if they are calling themselves nice guys and nice girls. I would even say those who call themselves “good” probably are not. generally when I meet a girl that would self classify as “good” or “nice” they have an anxious attachment when as a man you’re doing what’s best for yourself, they can take it as a personal offense to them that they were being so “nice” or “good” to you and that you there’s something owed to them. That can quickly get twisted and become dark. Not somebody I would want to be with. Don’t call yourself nice or good, just try to be good person and understand that just because you are right or in the right does not entitle to rewards.
A lot I believe is down to how they think other guys perceive them.
social media and movies come in to it, Grease..
guys know other guys look at who they dste and a lot want to date a nice girl that looks or comes over as bad (almost sluttish) to how their mates perceive her.
I mention Grease, as it’s a clique for it, her song, his song about this hot girl, her mates saying how proper she is, the gradual change and in the end Bad girl.
Which guys? The ones who approach girls at the bar? Quiet guy in the corner? That geeky guy from your class? The guy who is always openly flirty and sporty?
The best guys are often the most easily overlooked because they will be doing their thing and aren't trying to flirt with you over confidently. If you wanna dig those guys up your going to have to play the part, because your gonna have to make yourself be noticed or even approach them based on more than your looks.
There can be several reasons but none is accurate, probably they find someone better, or they were not able to handle their girls moods and tantrums which honestly can go overboard sometimes, or maybe they just don't feel free with them. They might have family issues, their ex coming back, or they weren't ready for getting that close too soon. The thing is a lot of factors affect men's behaviour, a good way to prevent this is not giving them too much importance from the beginning and even in long term, you should have mutual thoughts about each other, if the second person is open about his life then you should open up a bit too, if he likes to keep it secret then most probably you should hold up some sensitive things about yourself. Never give yourself up as an open book letting them read up and then get bored.
It seems to me that in today's world the playing field has evened out. There are just as many "jerks" on both sides. If one is attracting a certain type of person I believe they shouldn't attack that person but ask why are they attracting that type of person?
The same goes for why women do it to good men.
It’s just a people thing. I’ve seen good guys and girls turn easily because they’re not communicating properly, have internal flaws, complicated/ unprocessed emotions, etc etc. I can go on and on regarding people’s choices in dating like everyone else but the major issue is learning how to take an emotional punch and still move forward without compromising your internal values
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