
What is your definition of a high value man?

I know a few high value men. I am so grateful to know these men in my life. As they're cut above the rest. There is something about them that sets them apart from the rest. They have been great mentors in business, life and as great friends & family members. Shown me that not all men are the same, as I've been treated with such kindness, honor, respect and generosity. I know my list seems long and an amalgamation; of many great males but these are the traits i have observed and my experience with high value men.
A leader. Well respected individual. A gentlemen. Loyal to those he loves. Holds himself accountable for his actions. Has respect for women and every other living thing regardless of race, religion, gender etc. Honest. Knows what he wants and goes for it. Confident in his body, his work ethic and himself without being arrogant. Knows his worth. Intelligent but helpful. Think before he acts. Never belittles others. Has self awareness. Generous and helpful. Kind. Emotional intelligence. Courteous and well mannered. They're truly inspirational and have great energy. I find them highly attractive, passionate, filled with good energy, a good listener yet assertive. Doesn't act on impulse. Takes calculated risks. Avid learner and a great teacher. Wants to make a difference in the world. Goes for their goals whether it be financial, fitness, life, material or not they always have a plan and take action.
Physically; theyre always well groomed and polished. They take care of their body, soul and mind. Usually fit and healthy.
** These men don't have to be good looking , some are very charming and charismatic so people see past that with great manners, intelligence, style etc
I liked your answer a lot except for the leader part but I think you are the only girl I've read so far that has answer this question in the way I expected. The others more so are speaking in terms of what they would like in a man.
@TrainingDay Thank you for that. I appreciate your response.😊
I'm CoachTanthony's Coach:
My Definition of a High Value Man -
1. MASTERY OF EMOTIONS
- This means you can voluntarily bring about any emotion and also rid of it or transmute any emotion.
2. SELF-RELIANCE
- Think this speaks for itself
3. SELF-DISCIPLINE
- This goes hand and hand with #1 so no point in saying it but for the sake of others. Since I mentioned this one I think I will not discuss looks as one with discipline typically looks taken care off.
4. SELF-CONFIDENCE
- Not hope or blind faith but real faith that is backed up.
5. SUCCESSFUL
- Having a chief aim in life and currently realizing your chief aim in life everyday. This doesn't mean you're rich or already at the top of the mountain. It means someone who knows what they want and is moving in the direction of it everyday. A lot of people don't define it as such but should in my opinion. Plenty of rich people who aren't successful any longer. I don't care what you use to be. Money does not make you a high valued man in my opinion but most will have it at some point.
6. PLEASING PERSONALITY
- This is a big one and is too deep to go into. One big thing that makes up a pleasing personality is Positive Mental Attitude. Obviously not being sarcastic and not being inconsiderate to others is apart of this one too. Like I said though this one is too deep and truly all of them are to write it all out.
LEADERSHIP IS NOT on my list because the best followers make the best leaders. You can be in a follower stage forever and still be a high value man. In some part of your life you will most likely be the leader. I didn't go super deep with my comment but I still believe it has a chance to win. I didn't relate this to dating. I related it back to overall life. Glad I could give you another session Anthony. Always a pleasure coaching you.
A high value man is one who is always on his purpose and bettering himself every day until his days are done.
If we want to get into the more technical aspects and materialistic view, it includes money, confidence, social/business status, fitness, attitude with how he carries himself and deals with challenges, independent, charismatic, yadda, yadda.
Bottom line, people's perception of high value is subjective, but what is commonly viewed as a high value one is a man who impacts the world and people around him who will remember him and sing his praises long after he is gone.
One with integrity, character, is true to his word, leads with actions not empty words.,. Anyone can achieve money, not everyone can be "high value".It's not what the man "drives" but what "drives" the man...
Agree 💯💯💯
👍👍🙂 not bad for no alcohol ehh🤔🤣
Not bad @Brainsbeforebeauty 😂
Not bad at all lmao
So now can have alcohol? I earned it right? Not for this answer, more cuz have so many body aches and pains today feel like got run over by a truck 😞
Well it's five oclock somewhere lol Go for it. It's only 2:45 here so I have a ways to go Ha
Me too cuz it keeps raining and don't have anything here, finished it last night
So you need to go out in the rain to get some booze? Awwwwww LOL
Or be smart and wait till it's not raining, seeing I'm walking not driving
Ok NOW having a drink... What good questions you got 🤔🤣
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Master of all instruments
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High value man: N. a man who is older and wiser.
Exactly ha ha ha
A man who knows how to honor and respect his woman but not be a pansy, who has clearly defined life goals, who values education, hard work, achievement, family, and integrity.
A man who is kind to people who do nothing for him.
A high value man is patient with someone he disagrees with.
He assumes responsibility for his actions, embraces humility at all twists and turns.
A high value man knows what he wants, he is stable emotionally, mentally and physically. He respects u, know ur boundaries, and doesn't play games. Pretty much he got his shit together.
They don’t exist. A high valued man is any man that puts effort in maintaining a quality relationship with their partner. Money, material possessions, job, looks.. they’re mere add ones to what a man can offer.
A man who knows what he wants and where he’s heading in his life. He also respects people around him, regardless of who they are. He’s the type to respect women, even the crazy ex he might have.
@Slim57 She is confusing the word respect with treating others the way you wanna be treated generally speaking. Be polite and considerate of others. That is what she means. Not respect.
Respect - a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.
or
admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements.
I agree with you @alyssa11 even though I believe you used some of the wrong words at times or couldn't fully articulate yourself to get across 100% what you meant.
Thank you @TrainingDay
Essentially it all goes down to character and personal values. I respect everyone regardless as a general value because I am a respectful person. And I expect respect to be reciprocated. I treat people how I expect to be treated because life is all about duality and equal energies.
Exactly the same as a high value woman: employed, happy, attractive, in MY opinion, funny. Wait. Funny should be No. 1.
I'd say one that is, supportive, affectionate, caring, sharing and make you happy
It used too be the guy who signed my paycheck each week.
A man who does not play with your feelings, a man with good moral values, a man who not only respects women, but also respects other men as well, a man who talks in a very polite manner and knows how to control his anger.
Responsible
Honorable
Leader
High earning
Masculine
Strong physically
Moral
Principled
Handsome rich cool smart educated good personality and interesting.
Also tall and good body
Rich, good looking, confident, actually going somewhere and being someone. A success. That is what high value is.
A man who strived to improve himself emotionally, physically and financially.
He makes 100K annually or more.
So I if i make 95k I am not high value?
Correct.
In other words: If you can't party like him
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdVknLqOM9A
You ain't no woman's hero besides maybe your mother's (no offense).
Being high value to a high value woman has nothing to do with money and more to do with respect and loyalty. So love ya man but agree to disagree.
In a perfect world, yes, high value man and high value woman get together and live happily ever after with mind blowing love and sex.
Reality however shows 50% divorce rates and the rappers, politicians and rich dudes getting all the beauties they want and not want.
I didn't make these rules.
@coachTanthony agree 💯 with you here!!
I disagree with both of you. But after all I am CoachTanthony coach so i gotta school him again soon
@TrainingDay Thank you for your comments.
He comes through when the chips are down.
👍👍💯
A guy who is happy with himself and his position in life.
That was very general but correct in my opinion. I know we are giving subjective comments but i think it's correct.
This is a term used almost exclusively by women to describe a man who is tall good-looking and has copious amounts of money
A man who excels in multiple aspects of life, status, wealth, knowledge, achievements.
A Silent G. Anyone can be one. No one can achieve it though, very few are born one
A man that can be complete without a relationship.
Myself
Why would someone downvote you for that? You get upvote from me
Maybe it came off as arrogant @Brainsbeforebeauty
Or confidence, without them knowing you, how can they determine which it is 🤷🏼♀️ people just petty af
Lol a high value man would never say that. In fact they teach you firmly never to say this in the pua community. I'm not talking about the avg ones. The ones who a millionaires and get women like we get groceries. Not saying women are groceries by the way. Just the first thing that came to mind. If you have to qualify yourself then you probably aren't high value
@Brainsbeforebeauty THE PUA community DUH LOL
One who does not answer GAG questions.
True. But it doesn't disqualify one either. But i doubt my definition of a high value man would be on here.
Any man that’s not heterosexual and cisgender
A tall attractive man with a great body and a great personality. And financially stable also.
The opposite of @OddBeMe 🙂
Basically me
A true christian and family man.
Lots of money