What is your definition of a high value man?

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TrainingDay · Accepted Answer

I'm CoachTanthony's Coach:

My Definition of a High Value Man -
1. MASTERY OF EMOTIONS
- This means you can voluntarily bring about any emotion and also rid of it or transmute any emotion.
2. SELF-RELIANCE
- Think this speaks for itself
3. SELF-DISCIPLINE
- This goes hand and hand with #1 so no point in saying it but for the sake of others. Since I mentioned this one I think I will not discuss looks as one with discipline typically looks taken care off.
4. SELF-CONFIDENCE
- Not hope or blind faith but real faith that is backed up.
5. SUCCESSFUL
- Having a chief aim in life and currently realizing your chief aim in life everyday. This doesn't mean you're rich or already at the top of the mountain. It means someone who knows what they want and is moving in the direction of it everyday. A lot of people don't define it as such but should in my opinion. Plenty of rich people who aren't successful any longer. I don't care what you use to be. Money does not make you a high valued man in my opinion but most will have it at some point.
6. PLEASING PERSONALITY
- This is a big one and is too deep to go into. One big thing that makes up a pleasing personality is Positive Mental Attitude. Obviously not being sarcastic and not being inconsiderate to others is apart of this one too. Like I said though this one is too deep and truly all of them are to write it all out.

LEADERSHIP IS NOT on my list because the best followers make the best leaders. You can be in a follower stage forever and still be a high value man. In some part of your life you will most likely be the leader. I didn't go super deep with my comment but I still believe it has a chance to win. I didn't relate this to dating. I related it back to overall life. Glad I could give you another session Anthony. Always a pleasure coaching you.

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

A high value man is one who is always on his purpose and bettering himself every day until his days are done.

If we want to get into the more technical aspects and materialistic view, it includes money, confidence, social/business status, fitness, attitude with how he carries himself and deals with challenges, independent, charismatic, yadda, yadda.

Bottom line, people's perception of high value is subjective, but what is commonly viewed as a high value one is a man who impacts the world and people around him who will remember him and sing his praises long after he is gone.

Siren777 · Accepted Answer

I know a few high value men. I am so grateful to know these men in my life. As they're cut above the rest. There is something about them that sets them apart from the rest. They have been great mentors in business, life and as great friends & family members. Shown me that not all men are the same, as I've been treated with such kindness, honor, respect and generosity. I know my list seems long and an amalgamation; of many great males but these are the traits i have observed and my experience with high value men.

A leader. Well respected individual. A gentlemen. Loyal to those he loves. Holds himself accountable for his actions. Has respect for women and every other living thing regardless of race, religion, gender etc. Honest. Knows what he wants and goes for it. Confident in his body, his work ethic and himself without being arrogant. Knows his worth. Intelligent but helpful. Think before he acts. Never belittles others. Has self awareness. Generous and helpful. Kind. Emotional intelligence. Courteous and well mannered. They're truly inspirational and have great energy. I find them highly attractive, passionate, filled with good energy, a good listener yet assertive. Doesn't act on impulse. Takes calculated risks. Avid learner and a great teacher. Wants to make a difference in the world. Goes for their goals whether it be financial, fitness, life, material or not they always have a plan and take action.

Physically; theyre always well groomed and polished. They take care of their body, soul and mind. Usually fit and healthy.
** These men don't have to be good looking , some are very charming and charismatic so people see past that with great manners, intelligence, style etc

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

One with integrity, character, is true to his word, leads with actions not empty words.,. Anyone can achieve money, not everyone can be "high value ". It's not what the man "drives" but what "drives" the man...

OlderAndWiser · Answer

High value man: N. a man who is older and wiser.

Roxxy99 · Answer

A man who knows how to honor and respect his woman but not be a pansy, who has clearly defined life goals, who values education, hard work, achievement, family, and integrity.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

A man who is kind to people who do nothing for him.  A high value man is patient with someone he disagrees with.  He assumes responsibility for his actions, embraces humility at all twists and turns.

LogicalGal123 · Answer

A high value man knows what he wants, he is stable emotionally, mentally and physically. He respects u, know ur boundaries, and doesn't play games. Pretty much he got his shit together.

electromagnetic · Answer

They don’t exist. A high valued man is any man that puts effort in maintaining a quality relationship with their partner. Money, material possessions, job, looks.. they’re mere add ones to what a man can offer.

Alyssa11 · Answer

A man who knows what he wants and where he’s heading in his life. He also respects people around him, regardless of who they are. He’s the type to respect women, even the crazy ex he might have.

Screenwriter · Answer

Exactly the same as a high value woman: employed, happy, attractive, in MY opinion, funny. Wait. Funny should be No. 1.

Jjpayne · Answer

I'd say one that is, supportive, affectionate, caring, sharing and make you happy

Citizenkirk · Answer

It used too be the guy who signed my paycheck each week.

Micksss · Answer

A man who does not play with your feelings, a man with good moral values, a man who not only respects women, but also respects other men as well, a man who talks in a very polite manner and knows how to control his anger.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Responsible Honorable Leader High earning Masculine Strong physically Moral Principled

Anonymous · Answer

Handsome rich cool smart educated good personality and interesting.

Browneye57 · Answer

Rich, good looking, confident, actually going somewhere and being someone. A success. That is what high value is.

ananias55 · Answer

A man who strived to improve himself emotionally, physically and financially.

Unit1 · Answer

He makes 100K annually or more.

exitseven · Answer

He comes through when the chips are down.

EyesOfGod · Answer

A guy who is happy with himself and his position in life.

Anonymous · Answer

This is a term used almost exclusively by women to describe a man who is tall good-looking and has copious amounts of money

Abtraction · Answer

A man who excels in multiple aspects of life, status, wealth, knowledge, achievements.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

A Silent G. Anyone can be one. No one can achieve it though, very few are born one

SenseiSeptred · Answer

A man that can be complete without a relationship.

Slim57 · Answer

Myself

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

One who does not answer GAG questions.

doopayo · Answer

Any man that’s not heterosexual and cisgender

Anonymous · Answer

A tall attractive man with a great body and a great personality. And financially stable also.

WowwGirl · Answer

The opposite of @oddbeme 🙂

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

Basically me

Momo888 · Answer

A true christian and family man.

Pepsiman23 · Answer

Lots of money

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