Boys, can elegance make a girl unattractive?

[Anonymous]

I’m often told by other women I recall them the women in these pictures, either because of the looks (especially Troian Bellisario, picture 1) or because of the vibes (Picture 3). I have some features that are not very attractive, especially my nose which is rather big, and I know this makes me less attractive. But I am extremely unlucky with boys, literally no one likes me, even the ones that you would expect to like girls that are a bit more classy. Is that a turn off somehow?

[ohshee]

Can I ask you a question can I see please see a picture of you I want to guarantee you your nose gives you character is lights up your eyes it makes your smile brighter and it makes you beautiful I will guarantee you that I would absolutely love to see a picture of you just so I can see what you think you're talking about I know what I'm talking about

[Massageman]

Yes, it can. I remember a particular regional manager for an employer was a (please read with snobby accent) particularly "elegant businesswoman". She had all the trappings- slick linen suit, just the right blouse and shoes, just the right amount of make-up, etc. But, she would sell her mother's soul to get ahead in business! THAT is the most unattractive part of her, and all the pearls in the world will NOT fix being a self-centered, corporate suck-up to others. [[[[ ahhhh - that felt SOOOO good! ]]]

[DermalPunch]

That's not elegance.

[Massageman]

@DermalPunch I think we may be using different terms for the same thing. OUTWARDLY, she look "elegant". On the inside, she had a heart of stone and never realized it! SO, while she may have been LOOKING elegant on the OUTSIDE, inside she was a self-centered MESS- very inelegant as you say.

[DermalPunch]

Yes, I can meet you there. Looked elegant but lacked grace.

[NotTacocaT6969]

You’re beautiful the way you are.


Elegance is incredibly rare in recent times.


It may make some men assume that you’re married, but if they’re truly interested they will ask.

[DermalPunch]

True!

[friendzoned4life]

Maybe you need to learn the same thing I learned learn to be happy with yourself first

I Promise you for every kind of Girl looks there is a guy I don't know if you tried asking out a guy yourself. For the sake of my answer I am assuming you didn't.

Elegance can't make a girl Unattractive however it can make her so attractive we men are too scared too ask her on a date

[boggboss]

Could just be your level off attractiveness or down to the normal days off most guys no longer parochial women these days and only doing it online which heavily weighs in on looks

[NMMan]

Not at all. Elegance would be something that would attract my attention, and fast.

[Synikal]

The way a woman carries herself with such radiance can most definitely be attractive. I don't mean in a rude unapologetic manner either. That was never sexy to me.

[Anonymous]

No. Elegance is a turn on. @nottacocat6969 is right about how rare it is.

[Browneye57]

Oh boy, it is surely all about you all the time, isn't it? Dear lord.

[JamieLoves]

Noooooo... More attractive!!!

[Wise4myage]

No, it means quite the opposite in my opinion.

[SuitAndTie]

No, it's the opposite. For me at least.

[7771999]

Make her more attractive

[Anonymous]

No those women are all attractive.

[abhi75757]

Notat all