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They can avoid the situation completely. 100% selfish, immature and cowardly, yet somehow it's so common now that it's "normal". And women are just as bad as guys are. The worst with women is they actually think that "they don't owe him an explanation". Mind blowing.
Often, we become uncomfortable with a relationship, for whatever reason, but guys being guys, we may not be able to articulate exactly why we are uncomfortable, at least in a way we think you will understand or accept. We instinctively know you are going to start demanding to know "why, why, why?" But we don't know that why, exactly. Asking a guy over and over "why" is on the extreme end of uncomfortable, so we avoid it at all cost. Hence, ghosting.
At this point I don’t want nothing from a man at all. They can leave me the hell alone. Matter of fact, I am deleting all the dating apps off my phone. I don’t even want a man to talk me in real life.. just leave alone.
Well, I can say that girls do it more often then boys.
If you want to be friends then just say it. If you like messages every few days then tell that. I say it when I like to or not. It is better than ghosting.
True as a guy I already been ghosted so many times it's ridiculous and demoralizing. It's just really annoying especially when you do wanna date and have fun.
If Online, Can ghost any Time. Or whatever the Situation, It is just something that is catching on nowadays. Have to just move on and don't wear your heart on your Sleeve, Should they Leave.
I don’t even try anymore. There’s no point in trying. So I just don’t put any effort into getting to know anyone. I have no expectations anymore. I really be wanting to do what they do to me. But I am not try to be that low and immature.
Always prioritize physical one on one communication over online chatting.
The tone of voice, the expressions, the body language... These are very important when dating someone. You'll know who liles you for your personality & who lusts after you.
Tried that. Went to snapchat… even tried giving out my number. No go
I am done with online dating. I prefer the old fashion way.
So, if I see woman first time in my life, I didn't seen her good enough to take it further, I have to meet her again to explain myself and most likely see her tearing up or staring argument and in the end I would lose a lot of time, that I could use with purpose.
Why? Just don't waist eachothers time and move on.
Learn to talk with people in REALITY instead of the internet or the phone. You can't be ghosted that way. I promise.
Lmfao. 1 women goat fat more frequently then men. And 2 if I get a ducking 2 word answer more than 3 times in a row ima Casper you. I don’t got time for your boring shit.
Indeed, I never once goat fatted, so this must be true.
I fucked that argument up pretty hard lmao. I meant women ghost far more frequently.
I've never ghosted anyone, If I don't think it will work out, I tell her.
Ghosting is easier and hurtful at the same time.
But explanation drags on and on that leads to bitter and anger conversion.
The sooner all of you come to the reality, that other people are the worst, the better off you'll all be.
Ghosting is great.
Quick way to put that person on a shit list and not waste more of your time.
It’s immature. But like I said to a previous person, I am over it. Dating or getting know anyone, that ship has sailed.
Why not break up your girlfriend of 5 years by ghosting? It’s so much easier than telling her
Yes, these people are shit. I'm saying better for the one getting ghosted, in most cases. If they acted "decent" you wouldn't never know how bad they were.
Breaking up with ghosting would be pretty shitty, wouldn't know what happened with them.
I ghost when there’s no point in communicating. Some people will never understand you so stop wasting energy on them.
Nope, I will just stop wasting time on men entirely period
If that suits you. Gotta know when a relationship is in the red.
I guess in girls case they talk to so many people they just don't care about the majority of them, so they simply ghost them.
And they only talk to people they are interested in and ignore/ghost the others.
It's so bad.. no manners at all.
They don't know proper respect and have 0 compassion or consideration for that person's feelings..
People have ADD or ADHD can't hold the conversation long enough.
He was toxic and I was fed up of explaining and didn’t want to be rude, so it was just a simple way of saying, go f yourself.
If they don't communicate it simply means they don't qualify.
Don't take it personal, they do the same with everyone else.
Cuz 'we' are not always grown adults. You don't try to explain anything to BSC.
I am over it. I just won’t associating myself man anymore.. especially white men.. fuck them
You're a fucking idiot. And just proves you ARE bat-shit crazy. THIS is why a guy would ghost you - you're mentally unstable.
Yes, bimbos like you will stalk a guy, feign a fake pregnancy, come to his job, post ugly shit on social media, vandalize his car. No, you deserve nothing. You deserve to be along. I hope you like cats.
And you are a asshole to assume that I do any of that shit. I don’t even know where the fuck he works, I don’t have to fake a pregnancy. I do not stalk.. vandalize a car... you sound dumb as fuck... I don’t even drive so how the fuck would I do all that shit 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and when would have the time to do any of those things. Social media...🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am not even friends with person on social media. So try again. I am not crazy either. You dumbass old man gone somewhere
You dumb cunt, you just proved it again.
Again you old head muthafuckin!! Do you talk to your kids with that mouth. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I did not prove shit. Assumptions! But anyways goodbye you pervert.
FUCK OF CUNT.
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