By flirting with every girl you think is cute and telling them you like them.
By asking out lots of girls. You dont have to know who she is or have a crush on her to ask her out. You're not a bad person for being attracted to how a girl looks.
You handle being rejected because any guy, even the most desirable guy, pimp playa, ladies man, is out there flirting and getting rejected all the time.
But you're afraid. Because you dont flirt. You dont ask girls out. You're not playful with it. You dont let girls know you're attracted to them on a regular basis.
Instead, you avoid all of that. So when you DO ask a girl out, you do itall scared and timid and afriad and unfortunately, even if you're an amazing guy and potential boyfriend/lover/husband, it doesn't matter. Being afraid dries up her pussy right quick!
Women spend time looking good. They lie and say "it's only for me not you Male pigs!" it's a god damn lie. These females are out here maximizing their attractiveness, spending hella money, doing everything they can to attract a man.
You have to do the same and maximize YOUR attractiveness, by learning to flirt and be confident and learning to let girls know you like them.
Sucks you practically have to become a pimp playa to do it. But it's not too bad. Real players and fuck boys are manipulators.
You can simply learn to tell the truth. And be attracted to girls and enjoy being around girlsand flirting and being honest that you want this girl to be your girlfriend or to have sex with her.
It's just society tells us it's bad, because the manipulative players have ruined the game.
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There are too many women in the world. The reason you're expected to make the first move is because you always put yourself in that position. I only approach women giving men choosing signals or allow women to approach men. It's 2021, women work and sleep like we do, so they can approach us if they're that into us. If she can't speak up, then that tells you that she's not gonna speak on necessary things right away when the time comes. Confidence and bravery are key on both sides
As far as rejection, just keep moving bro. You got no business getting involved with a woman who doesn't want to be involved with you. I always let a woman know how things gonna be if I just wanna sleep with her, friend zone her, or cut ties with her. You're wasting time building a friendship, because"emotional connections" are for loving relationships, not friendships.
You get rejected by a job, you apply to the next and build yourself up in the long run.
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At 20, it is hard not to take it personally. I get that.
After getting middle aged and having to eat enough of life's "turd sandwiches" and enough sucking on life's bitter lemons, it stops mattering. With each one, it matters less and less. I know that is not much consolation, but it is what it is.I tried not to get too attached to girls before I asked them out and I asked them out in a fun way, never too serious. As a result, I actually still have friends (they're married now) even though I'm married who turned me down. I always figured I'm doing pretty well if a girl can turn me down with a smile and a laugh. It's pretty easy to keep things light and easy that way and not take rejection too badly. You have fun with it.
I love rejection. Whatvi can't handle is not being refected but placed on a list of alternatives in case her number 1 choice doesn't pan out. I get angry. rejection does me a favor. the other is disrespectful.
I feel ya man easier said than done. Whatever happens don't be a dick to her. It doesn't matter why she rejected you she just did. One advantage I have being 45 is I've got to see a lot of the women that rejected me and how they've turned out relationship wise. You might actually want to thank some women down the road for rejecting you. They saved you a whole lot of heartache and aggravation.
If your heart is broken you can do one of three things to get over it. Drink a lot (easy) find someone to have meaningless sex with (moderate) or face your feelings and go through the healing process (expers only, very difficult, time consuming, and possibly not worth the effort)
i get rejected all the time so it's nothing new to me after everything i survived and I'm still alive im not complaining it is what it is just be happy with yourself and say Hakuna Matata which means no worrys
I just say thanks, no problem. How hard is that? There's more girls than one.
Just move on and heal. Your always gonna get rejected no matter what unless you get surgery like robert downey jr did on tropic thunder to play a funny black guy
I don’t put myself out there. Dating is stupid and women don’t deserve me.
I use the sour grapes method. "Eh, she probably wasn't for me anyway".
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