Name at least one con as to why someone should NOT date you? (Page 2)

[lovedejj_xo]

I can be stubborn and I don’t like my independence being challenged

[DizzyDesii]

Oh yea those are me too

[friendzoned4life]

I Have been hurt so much in dating if you gonna end it some day. I Probably try to off myself.

But if you tend to live a happy life together I think my con is I am really protective of my Phone and computers. Not because I have anything to hide but it is Just my private stuff and I feel u don't trust me if you wanna check it

[DizzyDesii]

Please dont do that. Remind yourself you're meant to live a long life and that it’ll eventually become the things you dream of

[friendzoned4life]

Can't take another heartbreak.

So I am not approaching anyone anymore

[cheapshotbob]

i am never serious , when my mom had a hysterectomy they used pig guts to stitch her up inside , so i bought her a piggy plush saying get well soon XD , her humor was not as good as i thought when i did that lol

[DizzyDesii]

I’d be so mad

[cheapshotbob]

so you would kill me also? i see a pattern , maybe i should avoid that kind of humor lol

[DizzyDesii]

Loll

[NightHawk99]

If you break my heart, I'mma break sumn of yours, either your property, or your dignity.

[DizzyDesii]

I thought only girls were that petty

[NightHawk99]

I can be too lol it honestly depends on how the relationship ends.

[BeachLuvR97]

I haven't been circumcised, and some women practically DEMAND it.

[DizzyDesii]

I wouldn't demand it. I just prefer it

[es20490446e]

Who cares?

[Joshua0213]

That i work a lot so can't hang out with someone much

[DizzyDesii]

Yea dont be a workaholic

[michael1469]

If you cross me, hurt me etc, I can turn on you cold turkey style and not miss a beat in my life.

[DizzyDesii]

Same

[anylolone]

Drunkard, chain smoker with a body count way too high for most people's taste.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn damn and damn

[anylolone]

Not a comprehensive list.

[Haeri21]

I frequently fail to keep my everyday routine promises such as "I'll definitely read the book you recommended".

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao

[wickhamhayls]

I can be hostile in public to people who irritate me. so if a store worker gets my order wrong or mixes it up, then she has to face some embarrasment.

[DizzyDesii]

Oh damn

[wickhamhayls]

everybody has space to respect it.

[Hakkerskaldyri]

I am highly aggressive to those who AREN'T my partner

[DizzyDesii]

Damn

[Pink2000]

I have trust issues.
I don’t listen.

[DizzyDesii]

I def dont listen haha

[Twalli]

I am EXTREMELY literal, and don't understand nonverbal communication.

[Dragonpurple]

Your not alone, so am I. I take the English language literally so when people say things like DEFUND the police I take it to mean that.

[Jamie05rhs]

Same

[A_Nihilist]

I don't think there's anything wrong with me but a big problem seem to have with me is that I have zero motivation to do anything.

[BLMUSER]

Tony Robbins says people aren't lazy. They just don't have any goals that motivate them. Besides, if you had 0 motivation you wouldn't get out of bed. Or go to work.

[A_Nihilist]

You don't need motivation to get out of bed. Laying in bed for long periods of time is just uncomfortable. As for works that's something everyone needs to do in order to not be homeless.

[BLMUSER]

According to Tony Robbins, we do things out of pleasure and pain. And pain rules the game. Do you eat healthy?

[A_Nihilist]

Eh. I wouldn't say I eat healthy but I wouldn't say I eat garbage either. Good mix of both.

[DarkCarousel]

Trust issues.
Indecisive about meals. LOL

[DizzyDesii]

Awww girl lmao

[Anonymous]

I'm a dependant person, something a real man shouldn't be.

[DizzyDesii]

It can be cute as long as its emotionally dependent and not financially

[CakesNCream]

I'm stubborn and argumentative

[DizzyDesii]

Why argumentative

[CakesNCream]

I'm passionate about what I think and believe. Sometimes I come across too strong

[humanearth]

I am a mild crossdresser
I am bossy
I am ariagint
I tend to be rude
I am very MARRIED FOR ONE THING and I dont want to duck it up, by stepping in someone elses pond

[SpiderManFan2002]

His hoodies will become OUR hoodies, yay communism😂😂😝😝

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao

[MasterOfReality]

I have a peanut sized follum bwebwe. (Swahili for dick)... Just kidding. Plenty for all... The only down would be if you were one of those annoying woke chicks.

[DizzyDesii]

I rather be woke then asleep. 🤷‍♀️ But i choose to stray from politics

[Avicenna]

I'm a morning person and can't stand OCD types.

[DizzyDesii]

Im so ocd haha

[Avicenna]

So was a woman I dated two years ago and the one I was married to.

[OliviaOfTheScots]

Independence/stubborn

[DizzyDesii]

Same

[ChrisMaster69]

I have a lot of kinks

[DizzyDesii]

Aww damn

[ChrisMaster69]

Lol as in lots n lots lol

[yourbabygirl921]

When they have anger issue! Becuz at some point they can physically hurt you

[DizzyDesii]

No im saying whats a con about yourself

[yourbabygirl921]

Oof sorry

[yourbabygirl921]

Well that I have a tendencies to verbally and physically abuse, or that I have anger issue and have time to control emotion

[REALSTEEL]

to affectionate i was told

[DizzyDesii]

Thats a pro in my opinion

[REALSTEEL]

what do you mean pro ypu mean its a problem sorry i like to be affectionate

[DizzyDesii]

No its a pro. Not a con.

[REALSTEEL]

huh pro con what? meaning a good thing or a bad thing

[DizzyDesii]

A pro means its a good thing

[REALSTEEL]

cool thank you

[loveslongnails]

You're a trump supporting Republican and I'm an Independent who can discern truth from lies, and that will piss you off.

[DizzyDesii]

Is this a general statement? Cause i definitely dont support trump lmao

[loveslongnails]

It's a statement about me personally. You wouldn't want to date me if you're a trumper, and I don't really want to talk to you much either, about anything.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea like I dont care if theyre republican but if they go around praising trump, i’d look at them sideways

[loveslongnails]

Right. There's not much to respect about trump praising folks, especially after the post election nonsense and the Big Lie. If they couldn't see it in the four years, and STILL can't see it now, there's just no hope for those folks.

[Blackcupcake]

I’m not really affectionate

[DizzyDesii]

I can be that way sometimes

[Blackcupcake]

lol I didn’t even realize that I was like that until my friends started pointing it out

[Dontaaa]

I'm very negative minded.

[DizzyDesii]

Why tho

[Dontaaa]

@DizzyDesii I could explain, but I honestly feel like you'd disregard what I would have to say on the matter despite you asking <--an honest example on how negative minded I am.

[ariadneR]

Too nice and gentle and kind

[DizzyDesii]

Its only a con if u allow someone to take advantage

[jerdanro]

That's the kind of person I want in my life. Add passionate and you are a perfect partner.

[exitseven]

I can be moody at times. It used to be worse.

[DizzyDesii]

Well as long as you're improving

[exitseven]

I seem to be on a plateau right now.

[FakeName123]

I am stubborn as heck.

[DizzyDesii]

Same

[najekim]

I'm married and we'd have to get my wife's permission.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao

[BUNroaster]

Less experienced. I'm pretty much just a lamp.

[DizzyDesii]

Well i like to flick that switch on for a reason until it turns your lights on. I’m into teaching until we make the lamp shade shake

[BUNroaster]

My bulbs are burning bright, I hope to catch you on fire

[DizzyDesii]

Set me on fire? Ummmmm lol

[BUNroaster]

No? Yes?

[DizzyDesii]

Welp that escalated quickly

[BUNroaster]

HAHA guess it did

[BUNroaster]

by the way love the pic

[Mehzmeh]

I am an asshole. Lol. Like a really big ASSHOLE.

[DizzyDesii]

Its kinda expected from a chef or ex military. Sounds stereotypical but i’d be surprised to meet one who isn't at times

[Mehzmeh]

Lol. You're right. Lol

[egykimo]

Stressed out most of the time

[DizzyDesii]

What are you worrying over

[egykimo]

Everything I doubt I can do or a problem I think 8t us hard to solve

[es20490446e]

I hold very high standards for everything.

[DizzyDesii]

And you should

[es20490446e]

Totally.

[DarcRefractions]

Sex addict
Addicted to my career and finance

[DizzyDesii]

Work on that addiction 🙏

[Anonymous]

I have intimacy issues

[DizzyDesii]

Thats understandable

[Anonymous]

I was raped, that is the cold truth, nobody wants my baggage.

[lycanthrope3]

Do you need to talk

[DizzyDesii]

Not true. I know what you went through. Bot to the full extent but 3 certain encounters that felt like rape. Believe me, there are men and women who will listen and who can relate. Somebody wants you 🙏

[Opinion Owner]

aww thanks!!

[Opinion Owner]

@lycanthrope3 and yes

[lycanthrope3]

Pm me

[Opinion Owner]

@lycanthrope3 I did

[jerdanro]

I hope you get the help you need to drop that baggage. The only one who deserves missery is the bastard who did it.

[Visionary7]

I lose interest quickly and can appear boring

[DizzyDesii]

I def lose interest quickly

[clampfan101]

I desperately need self esteem improvements...

[DizzyDesii]

Learn to love yourself first and foremost :)

[clampfan101]

I’ve been seeing a counselor, but don’t feel like it’s making much of a difference.

[BLMUSER]

@clampfan101
Changing from the inside-out takes a lot of energy, effort, and time. What helps tremendously is to start a meditative and mindful lifestyle.

[Nazgol]

I can be too emotional and needy

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i can be emotional. But if anything i prob show i dont need them and they hate that

[Nazgol]

Also im argumentative prob lol

[Nazgol]

As" some" would say. I think it's just expressing myself

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm not affectionate enough I guess or my indifference personally.

[DizzyDesii]

Probably the being more blunt than affectionate lol

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No I don't think so.

[InferiorElegy]

So many cons that I don't want to list any, that would take very long to write out

[DizzyDesii]

Aww just one then

[InferiorElegy]

I'm not worth it.

[EaterPeter]

I would not want to do that with you at Walmart. 🙃

[DizzyDesii]

Thats some random meme 🙄

[EaterPeter]

🙂🙂

[deeks1121]

I assert too much dominance. Its my biggest flaw

[DizzyDesii]

So you never like bowing down?

[deeks1121]

I never bow down. Although there has been a few times it's been a welcomed change 😉

[flamiE]

I can be clingy and I’m low key sensitive.

[malwins]

Selfush ass motherfucker

[DizzyDesii]

We all have our moments

[jerdanro]

Nothing at all. I'm practically perfect in every way. Except when I quote old movies.

[abhi75757]

I am very much flirting person

[DizzyDesii]

Would you cheat

[abhi75757]

Never

[ayomanwya]

I’m not a talkative person

[DizzyDesii]

Awww why not

[ayomanwya]

Main reason is that I’m a shy person and I feel like I really don’t have anything to talk about. For example whenever my mother called me I really couldn’t say anything to her. If she said hi then I would say it back, if she asked me how I was doing I would say I’m okay or good or great

[DizzyDesii]

Dang

[ayomanwya]

What about you? Do you have any cons?

[TheLittleInnocent]

mentally ill

[DizzyDesii]

I hope it gets better

[TheLittleInnocent]

Thank you I've been ok for some months now so i think it will

[JesseJayNeak]

I'm jealous and possessive so be careful

[DizzyDesii]

Do you scare yourself?

[JesseJayNeak]

At times

[Anonymous]

I have an anger problem.

[DizzyDesii]

How do you work on it

[Opinion Owner]

I receive therapy every week. It is getting better, but I have a long way to go.

[DizzyDesii]

I’m proud of you :) i wish you the best

[Opinion Owner]

Thank You!

[beebella]

I'm too mean.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn why lol

[beebella]

Genetics, mostly. 🤔 Lol

I actually don't think I'm that mean, but apparently I can be when once I get comfortable with someone. 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Dang and you’d think its only when uncomfortable lol

[beebella]

I can be mean if someone does something to make me uncomfortable. 🤔😂

[fonduegirl]

I'm narcissistic.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn

[Ironic_Method]

I'm demanding.

[DizzyDesii]

Same

[slatyb]

I have high rest mass.

[DizzyDesii]

Wym?

[MLGbreezy]

I can be clingy

[DizzyDesii]

Sometimes thats cute

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Insecurity

[DizzyDesii]

We all have em