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I’m very damaged from sexual, emotional and physical abuse. I can’t form emotional bonds like others and I’m super promiscuous and cheat on my partners while being clingy and needy at the same time. All I have to offer is sex. People deserve better than me.
Yoi deserve better than that. You should love yourself before offering yourself to someone else
I would go to therapy. Just by the act of going you are setting yourself to make the mindset.
The worst type of woman.
@rossred It's not how she is, but what she chooses to do.
Either way she is an awful person.
@rossred And she didn't knew that till you brought it, do she?
She just needed to be reminded and pointed out.
Her posting this to make herself feel better is what makes her more awful.
@rossred That it's awful that she expresses she feels bad about how she has been doing till know, I don't agree with.
I just hope, she wears a card that says i'm a clingy cheater.
She is a dangerous creature.
@rossred Yes, it's called lying. Cheaters are quite easy to spot, cause they lie at other things. It's no surprise.
I just want to beat her up.
@rossred And that isn't a problem of her, but of you.
I'm not single
I have a lot of medical problems
I'm a bit overweight
That's all I can think of that's con's.
Single isn't a con :)
What a bummer. Not for you though...
I'm one of those hot and cold types, and sensitive to negative emotion
Yea i can't stand the negativity either
I can’t really deal with emotions or comforting, just not the warm huggy type of person, sometimes sure but not generally
I suck at comforting
I'm over 60 and despite being a very enthusiastic lover I have a medical condition that makes sex nearly impossible.
Aww i hate that happened
Me too. It is common with men my age and even more so because I have diabetes.
@Leavesbound
Have you ever consider buying a high-quality strap-on for men? I've heard if you put a condom on it the woman can't tell the difference between the real thing and the strap-on.
by the way, how old were you when you discovered you have diabetes?
@BLMUSER I'd rather combine pump with Viagra. If I'm using a dildo I might as well keep it mounted on the f*cking machine I built. At least my way I feel something while I'm doing it.
Oh and women can tell the difference. A dildo is cold while a penis is usually very warm.
I was 59 when I discovered that I had diabetes but based on the list of symptoms I have I've probably been diabetic for around four or five years and pre diabetic for probably over a decade.
I'm a grumpy old guy who has lived alone for many years and I'm set in my ways. Okay, that's more than one reason.
Im young and still set in my ways lol
Dunno, I guess if they want kids (since I don't want any), But someone who doesn't want kids would see that as a pro, not a con, so eh.
I don't typically think about negative traits.
Also that pic at walmart is the best xD
Yea it looks fun
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uSnh9C2znY
Only one damn I can think more than one, I´m kinda childish at times, I watch anime and love playing video games, I´m to horny sometimes also, oh and there are times that I have trust issues but not to crazy
Yea the anime and games would get to me due to annoyance with a past ex lol
I have intmacy issues and baggage from past toxic lovers. Even though wasn't and need love i sometimes do the opposite of that.
Just love yourself first :) so that others can love you
Thanks ☺️
If you don't like the colour pink you probably shouldn't date me
Hahha
I'm old fashion/traditional
I'm stubborn as a mule
I can be an asshole sometimes
Those are a few reasons take your pick.
I’m stubborn too. Why are you an ass? Like is it intentional?
I'm not doing it on purpose I just work with guys who kind of act like assholes and I spend 40 hours a week around them so you know you kind of subconsciously take on that behavior a little.
Im stubborn, I dont understand emotions that good😂, sometimes ill get irritated fast, ill say something dumb. I don't know what else
Yes im def stubborn and get easily annoyed
For me im straight forward and say what
I mean. I get frustrated and eventually get upset if I feel she is not being honest with me.
I get voiceful and can be intimidating.
can't you be straightforward in a nice way tho
Of course. I mostly am. I dont hurt people or upset people on purpose. I think I get misunderstood.
Sometimes dont know if im loud. My voice carries when im excited.
I have attachment issues and high expectations from every guy I talk to.
Girl yes like i’m always expecting the best
I suffer from a general lack of life stability, but I can guarantee you that things will be fun and interesting.
Get your life together first and have fun later
Oh I am. It's primarily a question of moving out my hometown for now and the aches and pains of working on set, but I'll be good soon enough.
"perfect sunny beach paradise day"
I don't like it...
Damn
I still go... lol
I just won't be that excited when asked "how amazing and beautiful this place is!!"
I can be Clingy, a bit possessive of them, and I can be a crack head without any crack, lol
But overall I'm a fun person to hang out with.
Lmao a crackhead without crack... well thats new
Apparently I'm an asshole, who never knows when to stop
Who said that
A german exchange student was the one who actually said it three friends got into angry fits one of them didn't so much say it, he kindly suggested it😂 via a fist to my face one girl told her sister on me multiple times but honestly
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some girls I've been with left field flailing an older cousin of mine slapped me (and a "tennis coach" I guess) one cousin just straight stopped talking to me at a family gathering once (last Christmas)
Small dick.
... That's all I can think of.
I don't really have any other negatives.
Nothing is ever too small for oral. Keep that in mind
Just makes it easier to deepthroat
@DizzyDesii But what about the vagina, though?
I dont even wanna lie to you on that one. Get a virgin cause everything looks/feels big/painful to a virgin. I loved my ex but he was like 4 inches hard. It was great for oral but never went deep enough. Myother ex was 8.3-9.1 inches and that shit hurt like a mf. I couldnt even take it all. I prefer someone 5-7 inches but haven't tried those yet
@DizzyDesii. Well, I do want to marry a virgin already. But mostly just on principle out of reasons of fairness. Because my horny ass waited even though it was a lot of work and sometimes torture. So I want to be with someone who has made the same sacrifice. I hope you can understand my feelings there. No shade on anyone who didn't wait.
If that also helps us have a better sex life, then awesome. That's just a bonus.
I dont see any shade because i still prefer virgins lmao. ain't gonna stop me from liking their innocence. I just can't stand virgins who beg for their virginity to be taken. Now thats a turnoff
@DizzyDesii Agreed.
Though -- ngl -- it would be a turn-on if it was a girl!
I would have fun with it. I would tease the hell out of her.
And then I would rock her world on the wedding night.
Im at work so can't watch rn
now you can
Lmao what is that movie
It's a scene in a movie lol the woman gives him a bunch of conditions and rules, so he simply gives her his one and only rule.
No i watched the scene. Im asking what movie is that
Babylon A. D.