What are some good specific reasons not to date someone?

[Anonymous]

[AviatorTom]

Let's see... here's a few reasons to not date someone...

They're the wrong sex (I'm a straight guy who only dates women)

They live on the other side of the world

They don't like nerds (I am one)

They're asexual

They have no money (I'm not going to support them)

They're not independent (I don't want to do eberything)

[exitseven]

Sometimes people get into a place in life where they should not date anyone. They might be going through a bad time and getting into a relationship will not help.

[melanieeeB]

Disrespectful, physical and mentally harmful, manipulative people and someone who is trying to gain full control over you and your life, possessive, super jealous, mental health issues, doesn't wanna introduce you to his closest friends/family, doesn't care for you and your well being... the list goes on

[samuluaa]

Here are my reasons

• Bad hygiene
• Low self esteem
• Mental ill
• Lack of physical attraction
• bad personality
• they are already in a relationship with another
• they are a sex addict

[Guy13]

Rude, dangerous, disregard for others.

[Weapon77]

1) They had sex with a bunch of people they weren't in a relationship with and didn't love

2) Any addictions or unhealthy habits they refuse to change

3) Abusive

4) History of cheating

5) Won't accept your religious beliefs or other values and try to manipulate you

[HighValue]

Incompatible morals like one person having a promiscuous past ONS, friends with benefits, etc. And the other person only has sex when in an exclusive relationship, incompatible long term life goals like if one person wants kids and one doesn't, things like that.

[Paul09]

If he's a bad boy, he will always be a bad boy. So do not exotic "change" him. Or once a cheater always a cheater. If they talk about sex early, red flag. Unless you want a one night stand. If the conversation isn't going both ways , drop them. For me, if they smoke cigarettes, not for me. Tons of makeup and take stuff plastered on the, not for me. Not active , outdoorsy, not for me. So many other reasons.

[Daniela1982]

They may be a serial killer. They just had a news article about a guy who tortures and kills women that he meets on dating sites.

[Jamie05rhs]

If they're crazy.
If they're narcissist.
If they're abusive. (Research the signs. Please read up on this and gain an understanding. This is the most important thing you can ever do for yourself.)

[Ms_Facesitter]

They're thinking about their ex, they live too far, they flirt with others too much, they lie, they ask for money, they're very insecure,

[DarkCarousel]

Criminal history, violent tendencies
Incompatible life goals

[Labokachulaa]

Inconsistent, immature, arrogance, rudeness, lack of accountability.. things like that.

[LiamJHayden]

The most basic:
1. I do not find her interesting.
2. She is rude.
3. She appears to be high-maintenance.
4. She's a drama queen.
5. She's obese.
6. She's a racist

[TheVigilantFox]

They’re a proven narcissist, they like children in the wrong way, they smell, they’re ugly, you generally don’t like them.

[Anonymous]

• Poor mental health
• past trauma - Boys get raped too ( sometimes by older women when they are only 5 years old ) and they become sex addicts when they are older
• hearing voices telling you to hurt people and yourself

[Anonymous]

1- she stinks

2- she has bad breath

3- she farts stinky in public

4- she burps

5- she eats/chews with her mouth open

6- she has facial/leg/underarm hair

7- she has skid marks inside her panties

8- She has a flat ass

9- She has big feet

10- She is not feminine

[Exterminatore]

If they sacrifice your dog to Zorcon the space god…. I’d say move on.


Also if they’re involved in the manufacture and distribution of meth.


Hit me up for more reasons.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Speaking for myself.

Non Christian.
Atheist.
Liar.
Rude.
Substance abuser.

[ShellyB]

I could list reasons but I think the better question would be reasons TO date somebody.

[Minahh]

He's not my type and is an entitled douchebag. Simple.

[TacosRAwesome]

- You find them unattractive.

- different values to me

- drugs and alcohol including smoking.

- been there done that

[SnoopBean9110]

Makeup is popular. Hate drama and popular people are good at getting it. I just want a quiet girl that cuddles nicely with me in a cozy couch on a winter day☺️☺️

[CuriousMufuxka]

Well I'm sure I'll get heat, but age. Not willing to go through it again. Some might see that as sad, where I take a deep breath and say thank fuck!