What's a shallow reason you wouldn't date someone?

[Anonymous]

[DianaWest]

1. if i don't like his face. i want pretty babies, so the man i'm with has to have a nice face. this is first and foremost. i've rejected a lot of men because i didn't like their faces. i don't care about their bodies as much.
2. if he is extremely fat. i don't mind a bit of chubb (no more than 20 lbs though).
3. if he is unhygienic and smells weird. i need a man to brush his teeth and shower.
4. if he dresses like a slob. (i am more forgiving with this if he has a handsome face and a good personality. but he better go shopping with me for a new wardrobe because we are fixing his just-ran-away-from-home-and-had-no-time-to-pack-a-suitcase look.)
5. if he has long hair or a man bun. for the love of God men, long hair does not suit most of you. i honestly thought one of the guys i saw was a woman and accidentally called him madame. oh boy. then again, if i like his face and personality, i may put up with his hair, but not until i try to convince him to cut it.
6. if he does drugs, drinks a lot of alcohol, or smokes. no thank you! automatic turnoff even if you are the hottest man on earth.
7. i don't like guys with tattoos and a lot of piercings. if he has ears pierced that's fine, but i am not a fan of the bad boy look. i might be okay with one or two subtle tattoos though.
8. okay, this is super shallow, but i look at men to see if they have crazy eyes. if they have crazy eyes, i avoid them. i mean, i know you shouldn't judge by appearance, and maybe a guy is really nice and kind despite his appearance (if this is the case, i'd still date him). this kind of goes hand in hand with the bad boy look. i don't like men to look too tough.
9. not a fan of bald dudes. again though, if he has a handsome face and good personality, i don't care as much about a shiny bald head.
10. i don't mind chubby men, but i don't like men that are smaller than me at all. a complete turnoff. i am pretty small considering am not very tall. if he is my height and has a hot face, i don't mind. if i like his face and personality and he is 2-3 inches shorter than me, that is fine as well. i just don't want him to be too short or too skinny. i'd rather have a broad-shoulder chubby guy with a bit of muscle.
11. if he is not making the same salary as me. if i am much richer than he is, no thanks. i want to date my equal. if i am making 70k a year, i want him to be making at least 50k. it is not too much to ask to date your equal. notice how i am not demanding he make a six figure salary. but i am predicting than many gentlemen will have a lot to say about this point. just like men who say, i am very fit, i won't a woman to be as fit as me and to have abs. well, it's the same for me. if i am financially well off, i want a man to be so as well.
12. i don't like old men. sorry. am 22, so any guy over 29 is a grandpa for me.

[zagor]

Have fun with your cats...

[DianaWest]

@zagor lol. not wanting a fat old guy who smokes and does drugs, has tattoos everywhere and wears clothes he pulls out of dumpsters is too much of a standard for some men to live up to? too hard for you lads to meet such expectations? did you notice the parenthesis where i made exceptions to the rule (i. e. if he is handsome and i like his personality? don't men usually go for women they find attractive as well?). lol, also men expect women to have abs and huge boobs because they themselves "are very healthy and live an active lifestyle," yet women cannot expect men to be their equals when it comes to money.

[postaldudePL123]

@DianaWest have fun with ur cats sis

[spuitkaas]

To be fair, I think these are extremely reasonable and literally almost the bare minimum. Like sure some are just preferences, but others are common sense so I don't know why these guys say "have fun with your cats". Tbh I'd rather stay single forever and have lots of animals and friends than settle for less than the bare minimum thank yew.

[postaldudePL123]

@spuitkaas narcissistic people end up staying single coz they have too much high expectations and they think they're the centre of universe. And regardless of gender nobody like to be with a narcissist.

[DianaWest]

@postaldudePL123 wow. i suppose not being a fat old man who smokes, does drugs and looks like he shops at the local dumpster is too much to ask for some men. do you like obese women who smoke, drink, do drugs, have tattoos and piercings all over their body and dirt and holes on their clothes? i think you should marry one to prove that you are not a narcissist

[DianaWest]

@spuitkaas agree. they don't even notice the exceptions i made. like, i won't have a problem with a bald guy or a long haired guy so long as i am attracted to his personality and overall appearance.

[jackderby_01]

Oh, so basically you want a perfect guy with specifications like a robot. How can someone change their face and eyes? Have fun with cats.

[Ninjazzed]

@zagor Have fun with your dick.

[zagor]

@Ninjazzed I always do, alone or otherwise.

[spuitkaas]

@jackderby_01 how is any of her specifications being a "robot". I meet the expectations and I'm not a robot (except for the long hair lol) ? She doesn't have to like every guy's face or eyes right? Do you like every girl's face you meet? Why don't you accept that sometimes a girl doesn't find your face or eyes attractive?

[Cherry234]

@DianaWest I agree with you about man buns and long hair. They're very unattractive on men in my opinion. I also am not a big fan of guys who are shorter than me (I'm 5'5) but I could take a guy that's about an inch shorter than me if he has a nice face and I like his personality. Ignore the guys here who are giving you crap about your opinion bc they're salty

[jackderby_01]

@sputikaas Yeah well, the question is shallow reason afterall

[DianaWest]

@jackderby_01 robot? where? my God you salty men, i made exceptions to the rule. i don't care as much about hair or height or clothing style or baldness if i like a guy's face and personality. are you going to tell me that you would marry a woman you are not attracted to? many men keep talking about wanting women to be thin and pretty. so when women want a man to be handsome, it's an issue? don't worry about cats so much. plenty of men on this planet that meet these basic standards

[DianaWest]

@Cherry234 lol, so true. I did make exceptions to what i said, but they probably didn't read that far.

[spuitkaas]

@jackderby_01 I think shallow is too negative of a word. I think we all have preferences when it comes to how someone looks like. If you don't, you are either pansexual or sapiosexual. There's nothing wrong with having preferences in appearance.

[jackderby_01]

@sputikaas Yeah, that I agree. Maybe it's cuz men are generally more minimalistic and simple.

[AmandaYVR]

I kinda can't get past some voices. It's never been a deciding factor, but sometimes I think it could have been. Cause when I am out and hear other people talking, inside sometimes I'm thinking 'eughhhh.' (But it's also the way they talk/what they're talking about.)

[TrueConfection]

"I'm from Saskatchewan eh!"

[zagor]

Vocal fry gets to me...

[AmandaYVR]

@zagor Wow, I've never heard of that term. Had to look it up.
I think I kind of like it.
Look at this - others agree with you:
"A 2014 national study of American adults found that speech with vocal fry was perceived more negatively than a voice without vocal fry, particularly in a labor market context. In young adult women, it was perceived as sounding less trustworthy, less competent, less attractive, and less hireable."

@TrueConfection Well fly on over then! I'll put an extra burger on the BBQ for you.

[TrueConfection]

The Saskatchewan quote was from the movie Grown Ups. A male bodybuilder flexes his muscles and when he finally spoke, he sounded like a chipmunk, "Hey ladies! I'm from Saskatchewan eh!"

[Aethereal]

I think my shallowest reason is hair. I won't date a girl with short hair. Since I'm attracted to long hair, I'd be admiring it on other girls if I were with someone who didn't have it. I don't think that would be fair to the girl I'm dating.

I think another shallow reason is very extroverted people; the ones who have lots of friends, need to see them often, and will likely want to do so without me. I'm very introverted. I don't think either of us would be happy in such a relationship (me wanting to spend lots of time together, her wanting to go out with her friends more).

[LeoElias]

Doesn't have a drivers license. Where I live, you need one to get anywhere. I don't want to bother picking them up all the time. It looks bad to me when they don't have one. Makes me think they are some type of idiot. There are many circumstances for why someone wouldn't have a license other than being an idiot that couldn't pass the test or is afraid to drive or whatever. But, I don't care why, they should have it. If they will get it soon then I will tolerate picking them up until they get it but if they never get it then i'm out of there.

[KatieGotMail]

My epileptic ass could never be with you then

[DianaWest]

people with a below average IQ drive all the time. just look at the amount of accidents on the road from people who cannot follow the law.

[LeoElias]

@DianaWest true lol

[LeoElias]

@KatieGotMail so you seizures frequently?

[jennifer_bloom]

If they smile or frown too much - I like serious people but I do not like jerks.

[Grubhub]

What if they are neutral? Not too much smiling or frowning? Would you date them then

[TrueConfection]

I have a few deal breakers that I don't see as shallow (drugs, smoking, excessive tattoos, poor hygiene).

Shallow for me is a guy's accent. Yes, you read that correctly and it is shallow. I went out on 3 dates with this really nice guy, but his accent was like nails on a chalkboard. I love accents, but not his.

Don't ask me where he was from because I won't tell you. It was a particular U. S. state and I wouldn't want to offend anyone.

[Slartybartfast]

The last one LMAO. A friend of mine won't date "jersies" as he calls them.

[420Rachel]

Well I guess ultimately, if I don't find you physically attractive. It's just something I can't get past. If I don't find you attractive I'll have a very hard time wanting to get intimate with you. So if he's extremely overweight (I don't mind a little fluff), has bad teeth, or just an unattractive face, I'm not going to be attracted to him.

[420Rachel]

Also shorter than me... I can't do shorter than me.

[420Rachel]

I don't know why folks are getting downvoted for this question. She literally asked for shallow reasons you wouldn't date someone like wtf? 😂

[420Rachel]

*he not she

[NathanDavis]

would you date a Nickelback fan... ?

[420Rachel]

OOF. Depends 🤣😂

[NathanDavis]

lmao, I know... and ex of mine and also my best friend liked a couple of their songs

[NathanDavis]

they drink from their glass (or worse, a bottle)... while still have food chewing in their mouths... lmao, that just drives me all kinds of crazy inside, and while I've never said anything to anyone for doing this... I really don't see myself dating over and over if this is going to happen every time... lol

[LeoElias]

What if whatever she is eating made her mouth super dry and she won't be able to swallow her food without putting some water in her mouth so she doesn't choke lol

[NathanDavis]

@LeoElias do you mean... a full spoon of cinnamon powder?

[LeoElias]

lol thats funny. No, like turkey is pretty dry or a mouth full of crackers. There are a bunch of dry foods that soak up your saliva.

[NathanDavis]

@LeoElias I've had turkey and also crackers... never ran out of saliva

and, why would you fill up your mouth with food anyway...

[LeoElias]

because she has a big mouth ;)

[NathanDavis]

@LeoElias dry mouth can be a condition or a disease, check with your doctors

[LeoElias]

I don't think I have that problem lol but thanks i'll bring it up next time i get a check up

[Bigtatas]

If they like Trump for anything other than comedic relief.

[Fuentes]

Their brain compacity isn't up to par, they walk funny, she has man looking hands, she has small lips, lacks common sense, no ass, is a 2k baby (obvisouly meaning the new gen 18+), is a SJW, thinks every democrat is right even if there racist, to into politics, supports lgbtq, parents are racist, hates police for no reason, does drugs, acts slow, needs help with everything, super into religion, super into marrriage, wants abuncha kids, has cut boy short hair, tells me what to do, doesn't think south park is funny, has an issue with video games, doesn't drive a car, doesn't have a job (if your not well off)

[Azura_88]

He is ugly, average and talk to females of his same age.
I can excuse him if it was STRICTLY work oriented.
Him following 'girls' on social media.
(Exceptions are : sister, cousin, mom, grandma or a sister like friend). He should not follow more than 10 females.

[Azura_88]

@KrakenAttackin stfu old hag

[KrakenAttackin]

@azura_88. You are destined to be miserable. You heard it here first.

[Azura_88]

@KrakenAttackin haha I'm happier alone. I was miserable and didn't used to achieve my goals when I was in a relationship.

[KrakenAttackin]

@azura_88. Of course you are buttercup.

[Azura_88]

@KrakenAttackin 👌👌

[raw_is_war99]

Damn someone’s bitter and hates guys lol

[Azura_88]

@raw_is_war99 I don't hate guys. This question was about giving your shallow reasons. I used to be trusting. But then their female friends are not really their friends. I even caught them making a different account and following dirty pages. They could simply be frank about it but they love to do it behind the back. So they might be hiding even more things.
I have no problem in being single. But I do have problems with trusting them again. As a buddy I'm totally cool with it unless they don't start hitting on me.

[raw_is_war99]

Let me DM you I gotta ask you something for real.

[raw_is_war99]

@azura_88 guess not lol

[okaythen13]

Yo people being quite aggro to ya, can't say understandably so. I think you're projecting a past relationship onto this question, which I mean, no big deal really, but good to think about. Also good to think about maybe that your views on men and women being friends or following others is a bit much. Also, why do you say females? Should start using the word girls or women more haha, I think it sounds nicer and a lot of people think the same. Sometimes the people around you say females and often it is a sign of having dysfunctional or negative views on gender/sexuality and women. I think it's okay for guys to talk to other girls their age, or follow them on social media. I do think it's wrong when they're following just for the looks or to look at that girl more, because they are sexually attracted to them, especially when they have a girlfriend/wife - that's just plain wrong to me. But if they're friends I think it's okay, and the same for a girl following guys or talking to other guys. There is life outside a relationship :).

Best of Luck to you and feel free to ask any questions, I'd be happy to answer.

[Azura_88]

@okaythen13 that old man is aggressive with literally any woman. There was even a question about him and many girls said he's misogynistic, controlling and a bitter incel and how those girls are glad to block him because he always spits the venom for women in his opinions.
YOU'RE RIGHT. I used to be very trusting but later I found out they lie a lot. Even my male friends never stayed as friends. They wanted MORE than that, even if I never flirted with them. Most boys even confessed that they NEVER SEE girls as "just friends".

[Bigtatas]

I get where you are coming from. If you think or feel in your gut that they are hiding something the possibilities of what it could be drives you mad. My husband was watching porn on his phone and was embarrassed when I walked in the bedroom. He hid his screen from me and I called him out on it. If he had just showed me, I may have been disgusted by whatever it was or upset for awhile but got over it eventually. The fact that he hid it made me feel like he was cheating or watching something really bad. My trust was broken after he innocently gave a random female a ride home from a bar while drunk off his ass. After 15 years of me trusting him completely I thought I dont even know who this person is and who am i married to. He swears he didn't do anything but without a lie detector I'll never trust him like i used to. by the way, I dont like that guys follow a lot of women on social media. If you have a fulfilling relationship already why are you interested in other women. I dont follow any men... I hope you find someone to love and gives you the ability to trust again. Good luck.

[raw_is_war99]

@Bigtatas I agree with you 100%

[Bigtatas]

@okaythen13 I agree with ur opinion on following someone of the opposite sex on social sites for the purpose of sexual attraction, etc.. I know that I have more guy friends than women friends and that's bc they all think I'll eventually slesp with them even though I'm married. I'm wondering if my husband's female friends think that he will eventually rock their worlds through his mind blowing skills in the bedroom?

[Azura_88]

@Bigtatas I'm so sorry to hear that. Yes things would be much better if they can be more honest. I'm speaking from the experience of my friend. A married guy followed her on social media, then he started to talk to her, then he started sending her his flawless selfies and then he even confessed that he liked her. HE WAS FUCKING MARRIED. I totally agree with you that if a man is content in his relationship and is loyal then he doesn't NEED to follow other women. Because it seems like a normal follow but 90% chances are they're hitting on those women in their DMs. And the 10% are liking, staring and lusting at her pics. This will encourage them to flirt harmlessly and eventually have affairs.

[SphynxUK]

Too many things really!
Too many moles on their face.
A naked torso profile pic.
Too smiley.
Too miserable.
Horrible hands.
He has a comb over.
Rides a motorcycle.
Has very young kids.
Is a gym bunny.
Has a wedding ring on.
If he’s materialistic.
And many more…

[K-I-S-S]

So, fit and riding a motorcycle is bad now?🤔
dammit, time to sell it and get fat againm😅

[Bigtatas]

@K-I-S-S lmao

[blank_expression]

A shallow reason you say? Sometimes because I am just not simply in the mood because I have a pile of stuff happening that needs to get done. Going with a women takes a lot of time and plus you are expected to remember stuff and be somewhere when I have things to do or I was called elsewhere. The moment I don’t remember something or I didn’t call or text soon enough then I am a ghosting bastard. The hell with that, and that is my shallow reason.

[LeoElias]

So you are independent and you want a woman who's independent as well

[Anonymous]

If a woman is not attractive (for a woman to be attractive, she ould have to be fit/slim, tall, and have gorgeous face, long hair, big breasts, big butt), she doesn't want to wear skimpy clothes that reveals her cleavage, midriff, thighs, and possibly buttocks, she wouldn't want to frequently make out with me in public, then I wouldn't date her. I know it's very shallow, but I would want the both of us to have as much fun as possible with each other, so on her end, she would have to fit all three of the criteria for me to date her.

[Lazi-boi]

I stopped dating someone because they used virgin olive oil to cook and I was a bit of a health nut at the time.

Now I use virgin olive oil to cook everything...

[OfDeath]

What's wrong with using extra virgin olive oil for cooking? That's actually super healthy.

[Cherry234]

1. A guy with a big, bushy beard
2. A guy with long hair or a man bun
3. A guy who's noticeably or significantly shorter than me
4. A guy whose entire body is covered in tattoos (even his face)

[Still-alive]

hmm will have to shave off the beard ;)

maybe :P

[iammaria]

Sameeer lul

[iammaria]

Same*

[Cherry234]

The people who downvoted me are salty 😂

[Comesaveme]

1. Very thin lips - I don’t enjoy kissing them
2. A full beard - for some reason I can’t find myself being attracted to men with full beards
3. Not fit - I prefer my men fit & athletic cause I am too

[Protein_mate]

Is it wide hips you prefer?

[Comesaveme]

Yeah I find full lips attractive!

[Protein_mate]

That's good to hear haha

[justlookin69]

Lmao!!! My boys talk about me on this but Big feet! I can’t do big feet on a woman (sorry ladies with big feet). If you wear a shoe size close to mine or bigger, then no!!!
Others I can’t do:
1. Being messy, both in character and at home
2. Putting yourself in a mans place. 👊🏽
3. Being toxic
4. Not actively listening but want to be right
5. Talks to much
6. Bad hygiene while being high maintenance

[llcanon]

This i know from living to 65-most women can have the love of a lifetime if she was paying attention. Women always say where are all the good men. Most of these men walk right past them and never see them as they are busy looking for that which is not someone of good quality or character.

[Hairylegs222]

Smoker
Fat
Lazy
Rude
Demanding
Tattoos
Extra piercings
Obsessed with traveling and hardly home
Has no hobbies
Has no car
Crazy religious
Crazy into politics
Involved with a crazy movement
She's crazy
Gross teeth
Huge mole on her face
Huge nose
Buzzcut Hairstyle
Immature
2 or more ex husband's
Obsessed with selfies

All I can think of for now and yes I'm picky lol

[Hairylegs222]

Gold digger (how could I forget this one!)

[muscularbumblebee]

1) they aren’t anywhere near as fit as me or they’re smaller then me
2) piercings in general except ears I don’t like (tattoos I love though)
3) poor hygiene
4) messy beard

[malwins]

Would u say im fit?

[Anonymous]

Drugs, poor hygiene, too many tattoos or piercings, shallow for me is the guy needs to have a decent job. Either make as much as I do, close to it or make more.

[Hallo626262]

Dumb wamen

[Sarahr123]

If they smell bad
If they’re shorter than me

thats it for the shallow reasons. The good reasons are: if they’re not intelligent, if they’re disloyal and if they’re rude, insensitive and lack integrity.

[kyleelyn199723]

1. Didn’t want to date a black guy
2. Guy did not text me prior to meeting up for a date. Just said a date setting and day but didn’t give any talk to him before that set date
3. Having a dirty apartment

[KrakenAttackin]

@kyleelyn199723. So you would reject a guy for not wanting to date a black guy?

[kyleelyn199723]

No lol I meant I rejected a guy for being black

[KrakenAttackin]

@kyleelyn199723. That's not shallow, it's preference.

[kyleelyn199723]

True, some would call it shallow

[Grubhub]

I bet you would mistake a Dominican guy for being black. It’s happened to me a lot by white people because they see color more than anyone.

[Grubhub]

@ kraken! But why is it just black men? I think it’s pretty racial if she just targets black men as the guys she doesn’t wanna date

[KrakenAttackin]

@Grubhub So what? Not wanting to date a black is fine. Fucking woke-ass bullshit trying to guilt white girls to fuck black guys.

[ceciliamrs222]

@KrakenAttackin what’s the problem white girls like black guys too? all it’s about preference

[kyleelyn199723]

@Grubhub I have hooked up with them before and I was quick to understand they simply aren’t for me. Dominicans and black guys. I dated a Dominican that looked basically black and he wasn’t for me.

[Tyrael]

Selfie with the duck lips pose immediately puts me off a girl. Crooked teeth also.

[Anonymous]

Girls who don’t shave. It’s one thing if she was very busy or on a backpacking trip with no access to a razor. But hairy legs or worse hairy armpits grosses me out like no other. I don’t care if it was the hottest girl in the world who wanted to bang right here and right now. The hair is just gross.

[TheorionMage]

Personal hygiene/grooming/fashion sense and a refusal to accept tactful constructive criticism ~
If I'M to be YOUR 'audience'... you're 'auditioning' (just as I am).

LISTEN to your 'audience'!

[BruhIm18AndLoveBTS]

Because they wouldn't be good enough. I say my standards are not that high but that's a complete lie, I'm very picky and it gets on my nerve because there is always one thing about someone that makes me not like them so I'm always single.

[notserana]

I would want someone who isn’t overweight since I’m not either. Also thin lips and a weak jaw / chin. I think your jaw makes or breaks your face, no need to have a razor sharp jawline but no chin or double chins are a no-no.

[Anonymous]

One wasn't cute enough because she was overweight and it didn't look good on her.
Another one was a race that I'm not as attracted to (My own).
Another one was taller than me, she was my race and she didn't have an ass.

[Dchrls78104]

I wouldn't date:
1. A girl who wears thongs.
2. A girl who has tattoos or body piercings.
3. Someone overweight, anorexic, or shorter than 5"0".
4. A girl who is flat chested.
5. A single mom.

[acidsex]

You got bad taste lol

[Explorer91]

Your not into them lol. Don’t know if that’s shallow or valid though, if we prefer to be single than date someone we don’t want. We are entitled to that without being labelled shallow.

[Cathy7734]

It seems to me that so many of us choose people who aren't that interested in us. And if we meet someone who is genuinely interested we run away.

[Explorer91]

@Cathy7734 I think that’s to do with not being open to receiving good things. Like if someone looks back on the last 5 years and goes omg so many shit things happened to me. The reality is probably a lot of good opportunities came their way but they rejected them. I think when you choose people who don’t want you it’s all about your mindset. Your not actually ready and open to letting something good happen to you, that’s my two cents anyway

[Cathy7734]

@Explorer91
EXACTLY!
It seems to me that subconsciously picking someone who isn't right for us is safer in the sense that getting into a genuine and healthy relationship can be scary. Especially if the woman has children. Letting a strange man into her life. And if they get married she has to change her last name. And it's scary for the guy too, especially if he is financially carrying the relationship. I mean, not all people are like this but I bet getting into a committed relationship can be scary.

[Explorer91]

@Cathy7734 yes and no. Maybe it doesn’t have to be as scary as you think it is, like you just said a woman has to change her last name. No she doesn’t. A lot of women don’t. That might be in your town or area you live, but a lot don’t. Sometimes things can be scarier than they are because of our perception of what commitment means. I don’t know if you live in a particularly difficult society for women but a relationship can be what you want it to be,

[molonski2]

1. Poor hygiene
2. Overweight
3 . Poor presentation
4 . Bad teeth
5 . Poorly spoken , foul mouth.
6 . No Dignity
7 . Unemployed , broke , drug user.
Although , I wouldn't call any of these reasons shallow.

[Xoxocutekitty]

If they do not have hair on the top of their head- this is a no go.

Note: when I'm in my 50s I can re-evaluate this.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Xoxocutekitty. Ha! By 35 you will reevaluate this.

[420Rachel]

My boyfriend doesn't have hair on top of his head but I still think he's gorgeous. 😂💕

[slatyb]

What's "shallow" to you? I have many reasons for not dating someone and I don't think any of them are shallow. You may think they are. For example, I don't date religious believers, tobacco users, or smokers.

[Cathy7734]

If he is too handsome and a lot of women are after his attention.

[K-I-S-S]

Why is that bad?
If he doesn't chase after them

[Cathy7734]

@K-I-S-S
It isn't bad. The poster asked to give a shallow reason. That's the shallow reason I gave.

[Kaamraj]

I will not date a woman who supports far leftist ideology or radical feminism. I have not met a woman who supports far right ideology as of now. I, myself am center-left.

[maxdf]

What do you mean by radical feminisisim!

[Bronjames9999]

You're looking for a needle in a haystack with no needles

[maxdf]

? Explian more

[Kaamraj]

@maxdf - Sure I will explain more. I live in India and I'm a law abiding tax paying citizen who just wants to live his life in peace. I try my very best to be fair in life and not to make anyone feel that they have been taken advantage of, in fact, most of the time I'm okay with doing a little extra so that my business and myself get a good name. Eg. If I deliver a load, say washing machine, my job is to deliver upto the customer's doorstep, however, if I see that the client is a woman, or a specially challenged person, I will do the extra and install it in their home also. That gives my business and myself a good name. I won't do it for everyone, but if that person needs it. Why a woman espicially, becase I understand it may be difficult for her to arrange for labor to do the same, espicially if she lives in top floor of an apartment.

Now, while I'm dating, I dont want to hear about politics. The daily outrage, the arguements, etc. When I'm with her, I want it to be just about us, not any movement, or hashtag. I will give you a small example. I was dating a girl, who I picked up and who was complaining that my car was too big and guzzeled fossil fuels. And that I should get a small car, possibly an electric vehicle. I argued that it's my work car and I use it to haul loads from 10kg to 800kg. I'm well aware that it's overkill for only two poeple, but apart form this I have a scooter and definitely she wouldn't want to be picked up in that. Note that my work pick up truck, doesn't have any company branding and looks just llike a normal pick up, it's absolutely spotless. Now what struck me the most is the casuality in which she was suggesting that I should get another car, not realizing the cost behind it. That too when I'm taking her to a nice place to have dinner.

[have_a_good_day]

if they don't put a chair back in after they stood up or if they put a permanent marker into a holder with the point side pointed upwards. THERE'S NO REASON FOR PEOPLE TO BE THIS WAY 😠😠😠

[WVRLXCK]

Might be weird, but I'm not attracted to girls that are too good looking

To me personally is everything,

And I have to problem dating an ugly girl because I'm not that good looking myself

[Jonny59]

if she smokes, drinks, eats unhealthy always I eat unhealthy foods sometimes but not daily anyway, not taking care of her face because I do :) thats my things lol I think im seeking the perfect person from a fairy tale

[charltonhestonsgma]

You know how some people (mostly old alcoholic Irish men) have really massive pores and blackheads on a really reddened nose and it looks like a strawberry? that.

[pjf1958]

A preconcieved assumption, that you're intellectual, and emotional expectations of that individual will give others the impression that you've relaxed your standards.

[sage2021]

Now give us your answer in plain English please.

[Ninjazzed]

For being broke, missing teeth, unintelligent, smoker, unsanitary, or arrogant.

[Titanya]

Hit the nail right on the head, especially with the teeth

[Ninjazzed]

@Titanya End up meeting this guy to find out he had several teeth missing yuck.. he didn’t even mention he was partially deaf.. fucking catfish.

[Ninjazzed]

@Hallo626262 Women aren’t gross because you’re gross, shit bag. Also get raped? Clearly it hit home for you. Kill yourself, cunt. 🖕🏻

[Anonymous]

When I was dating, I would never date an obese woman. Some people would consider it shallow. There were a few women, who were really great people but in the end , I just wasn't attracted to them at all and didn't want to have sex with them.

[bobalife]

Bad hygiene or doesn’t groom well…
Doesn’t really smile nor have a friendly one since I like happy/positive guys…
not much taller than me..

[Ronald_25]

Curly hair, I don't know why, can't stand it, it makes me very uncomfortable and unsettled.

[Still-alive]

i guess my shallowest reasons would be

1. I don't find her face attractive
2. she is obese. i can deal with chubby.. but when its really huge yeah its just not attractive for me.

[Babygirl_S]

If he's obese and unhygienic because I am thin and I don't deserve such a man.

[kc_4308]

Drug and alcohol addiction.
Doesn’t meet my standards.
Doesn’t meet my criteria.

[sage2021]

If he wasn't intelligent. If he had an accent of any kind. He has to speak very good English.

[Schizoaffective]

Being overweight, bad hygiene, my height or shorter

[ChrisMaster69]

She supported the ‘wrong’ football club

(soccer)

[Anonymous]

If she had a real ugly personality. Or if her personality weighed over 250 probably. If her personality had really short hair. Lol if her personality had hair where it shouldn't but doesn't where it should. If her personality had really oily skin.

[Jlegacy]

Double earrings hole. Tattoos. The waistbead. Short hair. Coloured teeth. Hairy legs. Love of coloured lens.

[AdithyaR]

If they don't like anime and video games.
Also if they don't know the difference between astronomy and astrology, I'm out.

[ToastyOats]

I have no shallow reasons to not date. I have been without sex so long, and my T-levels and intelligence are so high, if I've got a deal breaker its probably a felony!

[Anonymous]

They are broke, short, and have generic mutation issues within their family.

[IveGotNoName]

Low intelligence, but I don't know if that is shallow

[Jejsjsjdj]

Not being good looking (not being attracted to them physically)

[Azaelia]

I don't want to be ignored even though I'm the winner when it comes to ignore people haha lol

[humanearth]

They dont do strap on anal sex with me and won't do group sex

[Subarugirl]

If he were younger or significantly shorter than me

[TacosRAwesome]

If they're smaller than me.
If their misspellings go beyond text speech.

[poneglyphs]

How tall are you then?

[TacosRAwesome]

@poneglyphs 5ft5 but I know a lot of men my height or less.

[poneglyphs]

Damm well I'm 5'2 so.. @TacosRAwesome

[Protein_mate]

-Doesn't at-least put sone effort into keeping fit
-Drugs/smoking
-Small minded
-Lazy
-Unhappy
-Doesn't laugh often
-Serious
-Lack of ambition
-Lack of interest in others