Would your parents care if you were to date outside of your ethnicity/race? (Page 3)

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Even if you did or didn’t care to interracially date, would your parents care if you did? My mom, dad and grandma have dated some of every race. As have I. However, I see no interest in dating someone who’s constantly jokes about stereotypical things and makes racially insensitive comments on the daily. For example, my grandpa loves to flirt with women of all races yet he doesn’t feel the different races should officially mix in terms of dating/marriage. And he only comments negatively on women dating outside of their race yet praises the men getting laid by different races. I’ve had to call him out several times about his double standards and slick comments in order for him to respect my history in dating a rainbow of men. But at the same time, no one in my family has ever been able to stop me from dating who I want. And I just personally refuse to continue showing interest in someone who allows their family to dictate who they date. Of course, I still find many men attractive but i lost interest in dating outside my race a good while back. Its just too much drama with the cultural differences and clearly not who I see myself building a future with in the long run. But i do have moments where i consider making an exception to the rule, only to end up regret that decision. Like I’ve really gotta stick to my stance. #FeelFreeToList #InterracialDating

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Don't honestly know and don't honestly care, I do what I wish and they can go fuck themselves for all I care about.

CrypticViper · Answer

As someone who's already mixed and have dated and married someone who was mixed, my parents didn't care at all. I can assume if I was with someone of a completly different ethnicity or race that they wouldn't care.

magiusX26 · Answer

nope. dated interacially while they were alive and there were no issues from either of my parents then. damn sure better not be any issues now that both have been dead around 8 to 23 years (mom 8, dad 23).

Avicenna · Answer

Nah, they wouldn't care- they went through this disapproval from family stuff already themselves (my father is Hispanic and my mother is Jewish).

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no. My ex immigrated here from Yemen and was still learning English. Although my mom was supportive, almost every week she would send me stupid shitty articles of women being taken as ISIS brides. I literally had no tolerance for that shit.

bellybuttonlint · Answer

Typically when people talk of outside your race they refer to ethnic minorities in the west dating white people.

Studies show that both white men and women are the most desired by a wide margin...2nd place might as well not exist.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

Mine are the the kind of subtle racists who don't think they really are. They would however be fine with whoever I date.

electromagnetic · Answer

My parents did it first so they can’t be mad at me for following in their footsteps. But no they don’t mind at all. My partner is brown.

TurkishGirl_ · Answer

There is only one nation my father would disapprove of. Other than that, my parents wouldn't really care.

ariadneR · Answer

Nope they wouldn't care. As long as he treated me with respect and loved me that's all they want.  Make sure their daughter is in good hands and loved the way she is meant to be loved and treated

melanieeeB · Answer

My mom wouldn't mind it at all , like she already knows that I will never date my own half ethnic group (turks) soo yeah

flamiE · Answer

They wouldn’t be against it but they wouldn’t be happy. They better deal with it if they’re against it cause if I like him he isn’t going anywhere.

Troyana123 · Answer

im from Venezuela and here the racism dosent exist so we not have that problem, we have all the races (Spanish, italian, natives, Africans, etc) but only 1 society

DWornock · Answer

It depends on how far out and how exceptional she is. If I'm white and she is Asian that is acceptable. However, if she is black, they would disapprove unless she is especially intelligent, attractive, and classy.

na2398 · Answer

Nope. They want to see me happy, that's all. I am open to interracial dating, however, I do have preferences (not racial). Where I live, there ain't many people from other races. If I find my kinda girl, I'd not look at her skin colour.

yourbabygirl921 · Answer

My mom actually incourage me to date outside of my race mostly Caucasians 😂and i like white guys, Hispanics/Latino mostly but she's supportive of who I would date whatever the race.

AnggieGirl · Answer

It’s absolutely radicilous that it matter what your parents think of who or what race you choose! Parents are to be our parents first but also let us love freely.

Anonymous · Answer

If these go south U can bet that the racism will come out especially if people play out the typical stereotype.

Aimée__LJ · Answer

My parents wouldn't care at all. I base this purely on the fact my older sisters partner is black and they have 3 beautiful mixed race babies.

Neko911 · Answer

Yes... My parents fucking hate it so much 2 the point my dad has actually hit me for dating my boyfriend

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