I've only come across the "instagram girl" that's the one that makes me want to just stay single, the idea that someone could be more invested in what people think of their experiences more than actually experiencing it, bothers me.
And yo, what's wrong with obsessive gaming? That's like my whole retirement plan.
Yea the instahoes can be annoying. They basically selling they bodies and products along with it. Gaming was cute as a kid/teen. After a certain age, it doesn't have to stop but it needs to die down
What if you're married and all your husband (retired) does all day is play video games, binge tv series, only form of exercise is light home workouts and maybe a jog twice a month.
I’d remind him that i broke up with my ex of 2 years for a reason and that he's bout to become the next one. I dont care if a guy games but doing it daily/weekly is a turnoff. I’d respect him more if he peddled on the bike or ran on the tred mill while playing games of binging
Why, you gotta shatter my dreams? Come on bra, can't you like imagine like cuddling in bed and shit or on the coach under heavy blankets, playing a video game to completion in one sitting, you go first, you die, he plays, he dies, you play repeat till the credits roll and in the middle of the gameplay putting down the dual shock and picking up the joystick, watching your favorite shows from sun up to sundown
Its not i type all i get is scales i talk to them every day till they ask for money then I block them it turned out to be a job just trying to find a real human to talk too
Haha good question. The guys who make me want to avoid them are the lazy, boring, manipulative, liars and cheaters etc. Anyone else I can get along with, it’s more a case of whether the chemistry is there.
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Oh and aggressive mean types too, but usually they’re a bit manipulative and deceitful etc too.
People that think that their standards are somehow immune to a change of heart. You may think your standards are that strict, but I promise you that any guy you date is going to fail at least one of those. And if you love him, you might realize that it's not as big of a deal as you thought it was. If you're genuinely turned off by all of that, what kind of friends do you keep?
At the risk of seeming a bit overbearing, I REALLY think you should try to hold on to a few IRL connections. Once you start losing touch with the real world, you lose voices around you that can keep you grounded and in check from getting too far into your own head.
Sometimes the best thing in life is having that one person who can tell you "no" or "stop" or "bad idea" before you fall into your own echo chamber. Food for thought anyway.
To me it's somewhat the opposite. Although I'm by no means a frat boy and in fact I do many of the activities you listed but I don't like it when a girl catches feelings too soon like hold on we are strangers convincing yourslef you love me because you desperately need a relationship is a sure way to fail.
This is why I go for girls who don't complicate life and just do what they feel like doing at a given time
I have put up with so many things in my search for true love. I am just ready to give up, and be single for the rest of my life. I have been searching for way too long, with no results to show for my effort.
Honestly, not dating for relationships gets me none of that. The closest I get is being glad I can just go for whoever since I'm not monogamous. The only people I stay away from are those who aren't as good looking. If I were single, I'd stay away from starting a relationship with the types that are just not relationship material, like hardcore bimbos, cougars looking for a young boy toy, party animals, etc. They're great fun in bed, but I wouldn't do a relationship with them.
I'm not in the dating scene anymore thank you God, but the women that I've seen around are needy, tatted, alcoholic, gold digging wannabes. Other than being old and married, we'd be perfect for each other. Hahaha. You're a sweet woman and I have faith that the right guy will find you. You deserve the best.
You're very welcome Desii. Don't look for him anymore, let him find you. That's when you'll find the right guy. Tattoos and even airbrushing is a waste of money. I'd rather use that money and take my family out to dinner.
Asexuals can be such a waste of convo lmao. Gold diggers should stick to prostitution. Im sooo sick of indecisive dudes. Good lawd. Paranoid how? From covid? I like Harry Potter movies but could careless about the books and cosplay
I am not really picky when I pick a girl as long she is not rude or stuck up. As long she is nice, loyal, trustworthy, and has a bit a wild side on occasion I am fine with. It does seem I always end up with a girl that was or is a fraternity at college.
It's the "I hate all men" types for me really. Hard opinionated people kinda teeter on my meters haha like it's hot that someone knows what they want but I like balance and in order for balance you need the right opposites. I don't know that's my hot take
Yea i know a lot of the hate all men type. They hate when i disagree and show love for the boys. Sorry but at the end of the day, im looking to marry a man not side with some chick lmao.
Ayyyy hell yes thank you. Haha I mean some men deserve the hate but honestly hate does literally nothing ever from any direction. I'm glad you've got your own head on your shoulders
People have to realize that you can't let a few bad apples spoil the whole bunch :) I’ve been boy crazy since age 3 so even with the negative experiences i had from time to time, nothings ever gonna take my eyecandy from me 😂
Again none of mine weren't turn offs. Eventually we just kinda grew apart or realized the time wasn't right. In fact my first boyfriend we ended up getting back together because our first time dating the time wasn't right but this time the timing has been right
Yea i get what you’re saying. But im saying its not like i went for these types. They develop over time. Like my goody two shoes ex started smoking with his friends like 2 years in. Thats late in the game but it made him a turnoff in my eyes
Yea and you mentioned that you never had a horrible guy so i was lettin you know that being a smoker doesn't make someone horrible. It just makes them not my type. Anyways, fair enough. We can go on about our day now
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I've only come across the "instagram girl" that's the one that makes me want to just stay single, the idea that someone could be more invested in what people think of their experiences more than actually experiencing it, bothers me.
And yo, what's wrong with obsessive gaming? That's like my whole retirement plan.
Yea the instahoes can be annoying. They basically selling they bodies and products along with it. Gaming was cute as a kid/teen. After a certain age, it doesn't have to stop but it needs to die down
What if you're married and all your husband (retired) does all day is play video games, binge tv series, only form of exercise is light home workouts and maybe a jog twice a month.
I’d remind him that i broke up with my ex of 2 years for a reason and that he's bout to become the next one. I dont care if a guy games but doing it daily/weekly is a turnoff. I’d respect him more if he peddled on the bike or ran on the tred mill while playing games of binging
Why, you gotta shatter my dreams? Come on bra, can't you like imagine like cuddling in bed and shit or on the coach under heavy blankets, playing a video game to completion in one sitting, you go first, you die, he plays, he dies, you play repeat till the credits roll and in the middle of the gameplay putting down the dual shock and picking up the joystick, watching your favorite shows from sun up to sundown
Yea i can play GTa or racing games with him a few days a month but he shouldn't be playing daily. there's more to life
Then what are you planning to do once you've made all doe you'll ever need to make
Enjoy everything i have
Diz, that is the cop out answer of all cop out answers
Its the truth
Its not i type all i get is scales i talk to them every day till they ask for money then I block them it turned out to be a job just trying to find a real human to talk too
Damn avoid those prostitutes like the plague
I DO I don't get a real human female to talk too
Haha good question. The guys who make me want to avoid them are the lazy, boring, manipulative, liars and cheaters etc. Anyone else I can get along with, it’s more a case of whether the chemistry is there.
Oh and aggressive mean types too, but usually they’re a bit manipulative and deceitful etc too.
can't stand aggressive dudes
I only attractive Sugar daddies, potheads, douchebags, fuckboys, & players type of guys😩. This is why I stay single.
The sugar daddies make me sick
I know right
People that think that their standards are somehow immune to a change of heart. You may think your standards are that strict, but I promise you that any guy you date is going to fail at least one of those. And if you love him, you might realize that it's not as big of a deal as you thought it was. If you're genuinely turned off by all of that, what kind of friends do you keep?
I cut all my friends off in 2019/20. They were friends of 8-10 years but we werent on the same page and that started to annoy me
At the risk of seeming a bit overbearing, I REALLY think you should try to hold on to a few IRL connections. Once you start losing touch with the real world, you lose voices around you that can keep you grounded and in check from getting too far into your own head.
Sometimes the best thing in life is having that one person who can tell you "no" or "stop" or "bad idea" before you fall into your own echo chamber. Food for thought anyway.
I haven't lost in person connections. I have plenty of those. I just refuse to label anyone a friend
To me it's somewhat the opposite. Although I'm by no means a frat boy and in fact I do many of the activities you listed but I don't like it when a girl catches feelings too soon like hold on we are strangers convincing yourslef you love me because you desperately need a relationship is a sure way to fail.
This is why I go for girls who don't complicate life and just do what they feel like doing at a given time
Yea saying ILY so quick can be a red flag
I have put up with so many things in my search for true love. I am just ready to give up, and be single for the rest of my life. I have been searching for way too long, with no results to show for my effort.
I've had results but disappointing ones
I am sorry To hear that. You are a beautiful woman, with a lot to offer. Hang in there, You will find your soulmate in life.
Thank you :) i hope u find love as well
The hopeless romantics who are a little too sentimental and the douchebag/fuckboy/player types.
Shit let me meet a hopeless romantic whos not afraid of commitment. The ones i know want the benefits of a relationship but dont wanna commit
I honestly don't know what that says about me if I keep attracting such extremes. I just want an even-keeled dude. 😭
It just says that we’re too trusting and a bit naive. Nothing wrong with that. In cases like these, We can't help who we attract
True.
Either the "I'm tougher than nails" type that scares me, or the "either you buy me a car or I'm out" type who tick me off.
Lmao ole gold diggin hoes
Honestly, not dating for relationships gets me none of that. The closest I get is being glad I can just go for whoever since I'm not monogamous. The only people I stay away from are those who aren't as good looking.
If I were single, I'd stay away from starting a relationship with the types that are just not relationship material, like hardcore bimbos, cougars looking for a young boy toy, party animals, etc. They're great fun in bed, but I wouldn't do a relationship with them.
~ Manipulative
~ Selfish
~ Immature
~ gamers
Yes i get tired of all of those. Occasional immaturity and gaming is fine but not constant
Lmao I forgot I answered this questions
I was a bit mad when I did so too lmao 😂
I'm not in the dating scene anymore thank you God, but the women that I've seen around are needy, tatted, alcoholic, gold digging wannabes.
Other than being old and married, we'd be perfect for each other. Hahaha.
You're a sweet woman and I have faith that the right guy will find you. You deserve the best.
Aww thank you :) and i never understood tattoos. Just get airbrushed lol. It looks real and it lasts weekly. They can just change it haha
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You're very welcome Desii. Don't look for him anymore, let him find you. That's when you'll find the right guy. Tattoos and even airbrushing is a waste of money. I'd rather use that money and take my family out to dinner.
A lot of girls who can't have a proper conversation and are boring as hell and always the guy who has to initiate. Yea and gold diggers
Yea always initiating can be frustrating
Gold diggers, asexuals, people with paranoia, people who don't know what they want, Harry Potter fans, and the hyper-religious.
Asexuals can be such a waste of convo lmao. Gold diggers should stick to prostitution. Im sooo sick of indecisive dudes. Good lawd. Paranoid how? From covid? I like Harry Potter movies but could careless about the books and cosplay
@DizzyDesii Paranoid of men.
That they’ll be the next #metoo victim or some shit?
I guess! 🤷
Either that or they're scared that they'll fall in love and they don't know how to deal with those feelings.
I am not really picky when I pick a girl as long she is not rude or stuck up. As long she is nice, loyal, trustworthy, and has a bit a wild side on occasion I am fine with. It does seem I always end up with a girl that was or is a fraternity at college.
So dont date college girls lmao
Yeah I know but I never know they are in college till I start going out with them. They always tell me what they are going to college for.
It's the "I hate all men" types for me really. Hard opinionated people kinda teeter on my meters haha like it's hot that someone knows what they want but I like balance and in order for balance you need the right opposites. I don't know that's my hot take
Yea i know a lot of the hate all men type. They hate when i disagree and show love for the boys. Sorry but at the end of the day, im looking to marry a man not side with some chick lmao.
Ayyyy hell yes thank you. Haha I mean some men deserve the hate but honestly hate does literally nothing ever from any direction. I'm glad you've got your own head on your shoulders
People have to realize that you can't let a few bad apples spoil the whole bunch :) I’ve been boy crazy since age 3 so even with the negative experiences i had from time to time, nothings ever gonna take my eyecandy from me 😂
I’m sick of gorgeous weirdo crazy women why are all the prettiest women out of their fucking minds seriously I attract psycho women
😂😂😂
The two-faced, mind-game-diseased type; Which I run into more times than any. That is why I have been single for the past eight years.
Arrogant, entitled, narcissistic women always remind me how fruitless dating is.
Yea a lot of people dont deserve to be in relationships.
Ig i been lucky.
I never had a guy that was a horrible person.
I only dated 4 guys. They all started off as casual friends who turned into a relationship.
Maybe that's why.
I got to know them before we stared dating.
These guys werent horrible. Just turnoffs
And i got to know all of my guys before dating as well.
Again none of mine weren't turn offs. Eventually we just kinda grew apart or realized the time wasn't right.
In fact my first boyfriend we ended up getting back together because our first time dating the time wasn't right but this time the timing has been right
Yea i get what you’re saying. But im saying its not like i went for these types. They develop over time. Like my goody two shoes ex started smoking with his friends like 2 years in. Thats late in the game but it made him a turnoff in my eyes
I mean yeah that's your experiences.
You asked my experiences.
In my experiences i never came across any.
In yours you did.
Yea and you mentioned that you never had a horrible guy so i was lettin you know that being a smoker doesn't make someone horrible. It just makes them not my type. Anyways, fair enough. We can go on about our day now