Will being able to do tricks and being flexible in bed (sex) make a man fall in love with you? Or choose you?

[Anonymous]

[SteveSmith1985]

nooooooo oh my god noooo!!!

This is like almost a "little kid" stereotype of what guys want. the whole "hehe... yea... and she's FLEXIBLE... think about what she could do with that in the bedroom" type of thing.

Well... let me tell you that it NOT 'a thing'. It's like a little boy's idea of imagining what sex might be like... and imagining (falsely) what 'cool' things a flexible woman could possible do in the bedroom.

Once you start having sex... you think to yourself "what exactly did I think flexibility was going to add to sex? What were these 'tricks' I imagined? I really don't know.

What I DO know is that I have had sex with flexible people. Two of my ex's were serious dancers (not strippers... but like ballet and whatnot) I've also had sex with girls who could bend themselves in crazy ways.

Flexibility does not matter. It's not a thing. It will never be something that will make a man choose you. And it CERTAINLY won't make any difference as to whether or not a man falls in love with you. It has zero real-world benefit in the bedroom... aside from novelty.

Don't worry about this. It's really nothing. 🙂

[Mark-IV]

you as a girl dont have to do strange. Flexible things in bed to please your man, if you thought so then you were lied to by porn and shallow magazine. Internet articles.
you can't force a man to love you sadly, but you can make his feelings for you grow deeper simply by being a better girlfriend, and yes that includes better sex, so dont go doing some super bendy sex position, instead try to make his day better and help him see the good qualities of your personality that he likes, its an artform and you can get a better advice from a woman than from me

[kyleelyn199723]

Nope absolutely not and my ex cheating on me is proof to that one.

[coachTanthony]

Men don't fall in love through tricks and being flexible in bed because if you can do it so can others.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, but it's not a hinderence and is certainly a plus.
Also people don't choose to fall in love, it's involuntary, like an erection, or being hungry or thirsty, or having to poop.
Love typically happens through infatuation, ie a person seeing you as a way to fulfill their fantasies, be those sexual, intellectual, comical, entertainment, comfort, or whatever other biological need.
It usually only triggers if the needs aren't already being met, and require company to do so, and only if sexual arousal is also present does it become that kind of love.

[The_Maphio]

Will play a part, but if the guy finds you uninteresting or less intelligent than his shoes, that's a no go either way. At the very least, you'll receive plenty of booty calls if you're good with sex.
Not what I think you want, but a start all in all, no?

[ohshee]

It depends on what you mean by doing tricks don't be doing some other guy and then while you're doing him if that's what you mean LOL

Look you don't need to do any tricks what you need to do is in brace the moment, feel the energy between you the most beautiful feeling in the world and race It Go with It the best trick you can do is be yourself and show him how much you like it

[RingOfFire]

Depends on what you call "tricks." If you mean good sexual technique than yes, it has something to do with a man's attraction to you and therefore ability to "fall in love" with you. I don't think most men really care if she is an acrobat or not or can suck on her own toes.

... Wait... suck on her own toes? 😍

[BCA6010]

It won't hurt, but I would seriously question the integrity of a relationship if it hinges on having a flexible partner in bed.

[Ironic_Method]

Not really. Being able to properly please your partner is big, but you don't need to be fancy about it.

Though I still remember every girl that I've been with that could deepthroat.

[genericname85]

no. it surely will be a nice plus for your guy but that's not what makes them interested in you as a long term life partner.

[BarryLiverstone]

Being attractive, meeting his needs and taking care of yourself will lead to love. Bedroom tricks can be learned over time

[Asker]

What exactly do you mean by taking care of yourself? Her hygiene? , personal life? Etc

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes. Meeting her basic needs and being a confident and secure person. Not needing a guy to be happy and whole.

[Browneye57]

Nearly irrelevant. You might be fun for a roll in the sack, but doing 'tricks' isn't what a relationship can be built on.

[Anonymous]

Nothing about sex is going to make him choose you. It’s how you are to be around consistently. Respect him, don’t take bullshit but don’t give it either. Be understanding and compassionate, a good companion

[Feelicks]

I'd honestly prefer a kind woman who cooks and cleans to a sexual acrobat.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, it will not. But he'll have a lot of fun with you for a while!

[Bean2thousand]

If a girl can't pull a bunny out of a hat, she doesn't even exist to me.

[Smegskull]

Nope. Won't turn good sex away but it's not nearly enough to secure a relationship.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Why do you think men love dancers, gymnasts, and cheerleaders so much, lol

[Rafts]

Not necessarily, if you can build a connection during s... that is more than just Sex then yes.

[Woke51]

People fall in love with personality.

[RHK36]

Lust maybe, but not love.

[zagor]

No, but it can sure be fun.

[Iron_Man]

Like what flexible tricks

[Anonymous]

Everyone is different, but no lol.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Well yes but actually no

[Anonymous]

It sure doesn't hurt!

[Nachowedgie]

That'd definitely be a big plus

[serious]

The answer is NO.

[Anonymous]

No, it is just a nice bonus.

[AmeerX]

Noooooo

[Wise4myage]

I think so, lol.

[MrPlentiful]

Suppose so

[In_Trance]

probably not