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My crush did. She's sweet, has a good sense of humor, has a good work ethic.
She's like sunshine in my eyes
Yes! A girl's character and values and personality are most important.
Thank you Jennifer for MHO! 😊
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u When you look like a koala bear, you SHOULD be able to attract most guys!
Yes there are many ways to attract men besides using your beauty/sex appeal.
One we like food. So if you bake guys treats like cookies or brownies they may grow to love you. A way to a man's heart is through their stomach.
To piggy back on that I was in one of my college classes and the girl sitting next to me put on I believe hand lotion that smelled like cinnamon rolls and I fell in love with her. I didn't know her name or remember what she looks like but I remember how delicious she smelled and that I was really attracted to her because of the lotion. 😂
Another tip is to be yourself. Your personality might mesh well with with his. I've met a few women online that I got along with quite well and I thought they were weird which was awesome to me. I would have asked them out if we didn't live so far away.
Make a guy feel 1. Accepted 2. Appreciated and 3. Approved of by you and he will love you.
Have a genuine love of men, and love of sex, then men will lust after you as well.
Combine those things and you'll have to beat men off you with a stick.
Till this day I remember girls from my highschool that I was not interested in physically but I loved being around because they were so feminine. My 17 year old self got a high off of being around them. Like that's when I felt best and it wasn't a physical thing.
1, there is no league
2, yes. A woman's confidence is attractive to me. Her intellect is attractive to me. Her ability to hold a conversation is attractive to me. Her work ethic is attractive to me. Her compassion is attractive to me. Many things aside from her appearance.
Sure! I am also a unique personality, funny and honest and I get all kinds of guys asking to hook up. Sadly I don't want any of them, but there are all kinds of ways to do it. Tone of your voice, certain scents you wear, your observable actions, and some even can feel a good aura around people. Sort of like a charismatic pull to attract others.
There is kind of a stereotype with European guys and Asian girls. I can say I've been attracted, but different reasons. One woman got touchy with me, but I was drawn to her work ethic she was vietnamese and hawaiian, the attraction very physical. Another woman is korean, I think he looks pretty but her brain is what I'm most attracted to naturally, spiritually she does share faith, so win win. For a time I considered physical attraction intensity as a scale, but now I don't discount the mind. I've been attracted to a lot of different looks from middle eastern to African, native American, Asian, and european, but very few minds.
If a girl is generally a nice person, smiles at me and gives me some indication that she likes me that will go a long way. Playful flirting doesn't hurt. One thing that takes little effort is simply don't cut your hair. Guys like a girl to have long hair generally.
Oh yeah definitely. Me personally I actually don't like physical touch and I personally get attracted to people that are similar minded or have similar personalities to myself since I want to be with someone that compliments me once I decide to start dating again.
Of course there are. Just too many guys too often think with their penis instead of their heart or brains. And any guy who says they don't do that either does and can't admit it or they know guys that are like that. It's just how are brains are wired but it doesn't mean we can't resist it.
The mind is the sexiest organ in the human body, you can gain it's attention by the way you talk and what you say. Sometimes it the things you do or how you do them that attracts a person. Or it could just be the love potion you bought or the spell you had a gypsy cast for you :-)
Ofc there are! I, for example, can only be attracted if a girl is a good person, and if we have similarities :D
Of course. You want to attract a guy in a non physical way simply stop selling yourself physically. It's not rocket science. YES! There will ALWAYS be guys that only look at you physically regardless. But it will be less. You want a guy to be attracted to your humor then show him your funny bone. If you want him to be attracted to your intelligence show him your brain. Etc. It really is that simple.
Well guys are 80% visual and just 20% emotional. So guys need a woman that they are physically attracted to, to make love. But you can attract a guy with a non-physical way. If you do, in the relationship he might be attracted to you but will not be able to get it up to make love if the physical attraction is not there.
Where you getting this statistic? I feel guys tend to settle a lot when it comes to visuals. And for a lot of them, it's because their feelings grow over time and many men boners overlap with emotion and actually can get it up. My Dad didn't find my mom attractive when they met but she grew on him and they never had an issue with sex. I know a lot of other guys who are in similar situation
And I was in that situation as I had no physical attraction for my ex. But as I seen her my attraction grew but not physically it grew emotionally. That falls under the 20% as it is still possible to fall in love. But with your dad and mom your mom probably changed her appearance like lost a lot of lbs. This making her physically attentive to your dad.
Actually my mom gained weight over the years. A LOT. It didn't change his attraction for her though. I suppose it depends on the man I know but some men are capable of having sex purely based off emotions. Woman can be similar. I know a friend who can't have sex with a guy who isn't hot (like at least a 9) and some girls who will dig anyone who is somewhat attractive
Yes, now you get it. It all depends on the person what they find physical attractive some guys find big woman, some guys find a big butt, some find big breast, some small breast attractive. But all guys have the 20% emotional. (Support, help, and emotional help in their life) attractive
Well no I meant it depends on the person how much their emotions align with their sexuality. My Mom isn't even remotely my Dad's type actually. But for him it didn't matter because when he loves someone he wants to make love, regardless of looks. My dad is somewhat demisexual though. I've actually met quite a few guys who are like that
@Leahbear232 How do you know so much about your parents’ sex life etc?
@Giselleselfish Because I loved with them for 18 years. Just kind of would run into them by accident lol it was gross. Also, we had thin walls, so even if I never walked in, I could hear it at night sometimes
I know if a girl made good star wars references I'd fall in love
Talk. A nice pair of boobies and a bubble butt wrapped in a skin tight dress attracts us meaning that we want to tap that. Talking might make us want to be by your side for deeper reasons than laying pipe.
Yes, absolutely. I've been absolutely head-over-heels for several women who were definitely not my type. I didn't even find them especially attractive. Something about those women just oozed sexiness though.
SOME feel attracted to clumsy "innocent" girls it makes them feel they need them. So i think thats why they feel attraction even if the girl is not their type physically!
Probably. I’ve attracted a few men on GAG and they claim it’s my personality but they could just be saying that. Who knows lol.
@alyssa11 a girl attracting men on GaG... I never really new that was a thing.
@alyssa11 I always thought Guys on Gag were the quiet unassuming type, polite, reserved etc.
Especially those Blue Anons, I had even heard their were all virgins.
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No, you really do have a great personality. (But you're also hot, so...)
What? It's true!
Yes definitely, actually that's how attract decent guys
Absolutely doable, but it sounds like you already know that.
Oh, absolutely, and as you point out, having a great personality is one of them. Attractiveness is multidimensional.
Sorry, can you define 'out of your league' for me? I don't want to make any assumptions
When you fall for someone's personality, everything about them becomes beautiful.
Femininity
Likeability
Sense of humor
Sense of style
Authenticity
Having things in common
Sharing common beliefs/values
Interesting skills/talents
Being good in bed
Absolutely, someone with a sense of humour who I get along with, if I spend time with someone, we both enjoy ourselves, and I feel that something afterward, then I know I'm interested
Of course. Because looks (and being visual) is what we will notice first about you, it's definitely not the ONLY thing. Your personality definitely plays a part in attraction.
you're saying you've done it and still asking if it's possible?
Playful and non-aggressive girls attract men, however for physical things you need physical kind of attraction.
I think attracting men physically is very easy. You don't have to be a 8-10, heck you don't even have to be a 6/7 to get a lot of gets attracted to hook up/date. In my observations, as long as you're a woman and you have something beautiful about you- even if it's just one thing (nice face but flat body or thin waist wide hips but fugly face) can get you quite a line of guys ready and waiting.
@Giselleselfish I mean you have a higher chance sure, if you're a 10. But I'm only a 6, maybe 8 on good days and I've never had trouble dating guys who were 9-10s. I don't really think you need to be on someone's level to attract them, higher chance sure.
@Leahbear232 Yes it's easy, but don't tell me, men you find attractive stand in a row to spend you a drink. I'm sure most of them you attract physically are below your expectations. Judging a person physically takes less than a second, judging someone psychologically takes some time even for professional psychologists. That's why psychological or emotional attraction differs, because everyone seems to be attractive until the person proves the contrary.
Personally, in real life I don't even let girls who aren't physically attractive for me close enough to reveal their personality. Online it's different because I know most pics are fakes and avatars say nothing about a person.
Actually, I've never had trouble attracting guys I wanted first lol sure not all the guys I've been with have been hot but most were. When I was younger it used to baffle me cuz I never expected them to return the feelings. And if I were you I'd give some room for a less attractive girl to reveal her inner beauty. After all, looks fade over time. That hot physical attraction is gonna go poof by the time she's 50
I even made a question about this-why do I keep attracting movie star, model looking men when I'm just a average looking chic.
There are non-physical ways to attract his attention. But to attract his interest, he has to like the way you look.
Not necessarily. My Dad wasn't physically attracted to my Mom when he met her but she grew on him. I think it's more common for women to do but I know plenty of men who get attracted to someone later after previously not finding someone attractive
@Leahbear232 "Growing on" is a thing. I've had people that have grown on me as well.
But it's not guaranteed. Sometimes there is just no growth that happens.
I agree. I don't think it should be expected as a norm. But it's certainly a possibility
Of course.
I think a 7 with a great personality can easily become a 9. Not a 10, but hey- 9 is good enough!
Personally though I think it depends on the guy. Some guys can are not as selective as others. I find that it's not hard to get laid/date as a woman. You don't even need to be a 7. You can just have a good feature and you're gonna have a line of guys thinking you're fuckable at least (For ex: very pretty face but flat body or fat body... Or having a nice waist to hip ratio and butt but fugly face) basically if you're at least average - a 5 , a female shouldn't have much trouble attracting guys.
Of course it's easy to get laid as a woman. Because a lot of guys want sex. Lol
Yeah- and it's not hard to get it sticking up - just need a good pair of tits or ass or both 🤣
It's applicable for me. When I meet people first, they don't pay full attention to me but gradually increase the potentiality after 2nd, 3dr... Meeting.
Sure, a woman's personality and intelligence are examples of that.
Yes thats possible but it depends on that guy what non-sexual things attract him in a girl
Yes. But it only works if you’re physically attractive too. If non-physical was enough, I’d just be with men.
Yes I'm certain of it. Not all men are the same just like not all women are the same 😜
Yes, your bahaviour and money you spent on that guy
Be hot and smarter than a potato.
Also, six-month-old babies can't really be all that honest... they don't talk. Unless you're saying you can't talk and therefore technically can't lie.
Oh yes for sure in many ways?
This is change for another mans
Can ya cook well?
Yes for me intelligence
Yes there are. Sure.
Nope
Yes.
Absolutely.
Possible
no, i don't
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