Would you date someone who has 40+ body count?

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Would you date someone who has 40+ body count?

MasseurDeMojo · Accepted Answer

I am on the fence with this one. I have met, and talked to women who have been either a prostitute, or a porn star. The prostitutes were working on getting out of the game, and starting their lives over with a real relationship; their body count would be around 200 to 500 depending on how long they had been at it; most were in the game for more than a year or two.

I have also talked to the porn stars who woke up one day, and decided to leave porn. Most of these women have been in porn for around 5 to 8 years; their body count would really be high you would think, but the over all body count is generally around 100 to 125. The number of people they have on sex on camera will always vary, but; they normally have sex on camera with the same people every time; so they are not constantly swapping to an unknown every time they film.

In any case when a person has had multiple partners, you being with that person, also means that you are communing with all their prior partners, since a part of them is always left behind in the other persons body. If you can live with that, and you truly do care about them, and they care about you, and commit only to you; then go for it!!!

There is a woman who was caught up in adult films (the dark side, where anything goes, including drug induced sex scenes), when she left, she got her life straightened out, starting going back to church, and seeking God. She found a good man, and married him. She knew that she would never have kids because of the damage that was done to her Vagina while in the adult film industry; she also at one point was wearing diapers, because her Anus had been used with out proper lubricant too many times. She went on with her life, went and got herself treated for all her problems; she no longer has to wear a diaper anymore, her Anus is repaired. And she now has a little girl, that came from her own body. She was healed all around. Yes, she was a 40+ body count; and a man married her, after she left the porn industry, and made \her a happy mother, and wife. She has a YouTube where she speaks out about the porn industry, and the women who are involved. A lot of them need to be rescued, as they were coerced from the ages of 14 and 15 to get into the industry. Had they been in their 20's, they would of refused.

Finally, if the person you are interested is a 40+ body count person, and they are very upfront and honest about their past, and what they want their future to be. Go for it!! They have just laid their life in your hands, once you know all about them, that means they are done with collecting new bodies to screw, and only want you!!! They will want to be with you every time you go out; they will not want to let you out of their sight; this is their way of letting all other people know, that they are only yours, and you are theirs!! They are the only ones for you, and you are the only one for them.

If a person is not upfront, and you later find out about their past, and they deny it , then you may need to move on!!! Red flags start popping up as to what else are they hiding.

Enjoy yourselves in the game called love; be careful, and open to all!! You may find your best friend in a 40+ body count person.

ChiTown33 · Accepted Answer

There's an old saying " you can't make a hoe a housewife".

I don't see how a woman who has slept with 40 guys fits in my life.
Another thing why date? I mean if she's slept with 40 guys it doesn't sound like dating comes first with her if you know what I mean. If she said " I love you" how could you ever believe it. I'd probably say " in what order".

You may think these are mean comments but there not. If a woman has been with 40 guys and now she's feigning interest in me it's because she's exhausted her supply of men. I'm not somebody's 41. PASS!

Jaylaaa2000 · Accepted Answer

It would depend.
If they are no longer actively sleeping around with others, and have 0 stds.

Yes.
My aunt met someone who slept around treated women horrible but he changed matured and learned.

They got to know eachother got married have 3 children and he is the perfect husband and father to his kids.

He raises them to not make the same mistakes he did.

All 3 of his kids are really great kids and she credits his heart to hearts he has with them.

We all have things in our pasts that we are judged for, I'm not going to pretend to be perfect.

The people who do the most good in this world usually made mistakes in their youth and learn from them, grow into better people.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Someone with that high of a body count doesn't sound like someone that wants to date, sounds like someone that just has casual sex hook ups, so no most likely wouldn't.
The sad thing is, people aren't always honest about their sexual past.. And for me it's not just the numbers, it's the how? Were they all consential casual hook ups, or how many were people they strung along for sex, or cheated on, or lied to to achieve that #.

Jesus_is_the_guey · Answer

I’m glad my wife was a virgin but to answer your question

JHNS98 · Answer

That would depend on her age and whatever else. Her having slept with 40 people or more tells mi nothing of the context within which she had those intercourses or whatever.

It might have been a phase of insane partying and sex in her student years, or it might be a huge red flag... If so, I would probably djscuss a friends with benefits arrangement

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

If she says it’s 40, it’s 40, if she says 1, it’s 1.

that’s how it works, a guy would not know exactly what her body count was.

he should not be asking, and she definitely does not need to say.

I don’t gives a rats arse what a body count is, I hate the term.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Hell no.
0 is marriage
1 to 3 is marriage with ability to have threesomes with girls only required
4 to about 10 or 20 depending on age and details is friends with benefits
Up in the 30 40+ is just total shit. I try not to fuck with these girls at all anymore but if i do or when i did in the past its pure pump and dump territory... shit everyone else did it too

This_is_my_username · Answer

It's kinda weird when they start counting to be honest...

JuliaStyles · Answer

40 is a lot unless you're like 80 years old. For me more than two is too many.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah someone with that high of a number must have no self control

Wiredone · Answer

I don't care what their body count is. As long as she has beautiful eyes, a nice smile, a great personality, and can hold a conversation, I'd date her.

Jessica405 · Answer

No. Never will. It shows that person is probably only wanting sex, and not a loving relationship. They must treat their partners with indifference!

cjmtherfcker · Answer

Define Date?  Casually for a few months or so , though ideally would like to keep her in the friendzone.

Agape93 · Answer

Sure long as they’re clean, stable and we hit it off

BUNroaster · Answer

Date? Yes possibly. sex or anything sexual before we married? Nah not for the longest I can keep from it. But I'm never gonna just write someone off because they hit it a lot.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. That's like dating trash and wasting time cause you won't get a fruitful relationship

Stephie2369 · Answer

I like older people so I would only assume they have a higher body count

Sophia001 · Answer

Yes  Because who can find body count  Or are there any damages to body parts  Lol

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

this

Drumlin2001 · Answer

If she's been sexually active for 20yrs i would say thats not so many

xichuwangwai · Answer

I aim for a potential relationship when I date, not one night stand.

Avicenna · Answer

Probably not, especially if she were still in her 20s. I like monogamy in a relationship, and a woman with that body count probably hasn't practiced it.

crazy8000 · Answer

Couldn't care less. As long she doesn't have any diseases or the ordinary thing's that I don't let into my pants or life.

JediSisko · Answer

Seems like a big problem with commitment issues.

I have a very different view of what the term “body count”. Not sure I’d want to date someone with a 40+ body count by the other definition either.

RHK36 · Answer

I guess depends on why it's so high and also how old they are.

FreyaRed · Answer

Maybe but I wouldn't try to achieve something deeper with this person, because it's pointless and you're just 41

Surely · Answer

I hope that you are not referring to yourself.
The type of guy’s would concern me more than the number of guys.
Providing there wasn’t any STD’s transmitted or children to several different sperm donors.

Sonorous · Answer

Considering I have a 0 body count, hell to that naw

EyesOfGod · Answer

Are you asking this for a friend or have you been in many gangbangs before you were even 16? Also no.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

"Date" with the intent of nailing her a thousand times, but I would NEVER seriously consider her for a long-term relationship or (God forbid) marriage.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No, because:
1. High mileage machines are usually cheaper than new ones because they are of lower value. Used and damaged machinery should be scrapped.
2. I would like to build my house in a private area and not in the middle of the freeway.

loveslongnails · Answer

That would depend on how old she is. If she was 18, then NO ! lol

Stevefiveo · Answer

There's no way you can take this relationship seriously when 40 guys have already fucked your girlfriend.

es20490446e · Answer

I would be highly suspicious about their capability to stay inside an airplane without jumping out of it.

TiffanyB · Answer

I don't know I mean I guess so because I don't like judging people

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Are you 40 body count?

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not, especially if they are around my age which is 20 makes them look desperate.

msc545 · Answer

I might not but not because of the bat body count but rather because the person had the bad judgment to tell me about it

Joshua0213 · Answer

Depends how old they are but probably not unless they're at least late 30s and I'm not really interested in that age

SHREYASH007 · Answer

lol , that huge count , is it some kind of competition.

Not_Brazy · Answer

Damn right because they must be good in bed. My current girlfriend loves the fact that she is body number 43 because she knows that i know how to fuck and she ain't gotta do all the work

oncpl · Answer

No objection to dating such a girl but for sex purposes.

Pete671 · Answer

yes definitely, I think that would be really hot actually,,,

Alyssa11 · Answer

I would absolutely not. Sorry not sorry.

Unbeatable · Answer

Id kms first because thats the level of self-disrespect and depression thats required

Anonymous · Answer

Id say no but mainly because I'd find someone with a number that high to be really impulsive and little to no standards with men.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Sure I would most people have a higher body count than that their just not gonna tell you the truth about it

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

No, she and I aren’t really that compatible. She only represents my horniness

friendzoned4life · Answer

Offcourse not 2 max. I WANT A WOMAN NOT A WHORE

2021biguy · Answer

No, it means that she doesn't commit to anyone and doesn't want a long term relationship.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

Probably, as long as they have no STD's Kids Legal trouble

Anonymous · Answer

No, not a chance. Just the thought of it turns my stomach.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Absolutely not... I'm only 18...

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Maybe I'm showing my age, but what's a body count?

OfDeath · Answer

I'd rather not date a mass murderer.

DJB72 · Answer

Not just "no" but OH HELL NO!

Ninani · Answer

Yes, otherwise I'd be a hypocrite.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

Nope.

Maspolomas · Answer

I would never date a girl who has 40+ in her life

Shiver · Answer

Would be hypocritical of me not to.

Lofas2121 · Answer

Any man or woman who has a 40 body count is a HOE.

Nik1hil · Answer

Wow!.. They must be really professional assassin

exitseven · Answer

No, I think she might have commitment issues.

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