Are you scared of being single forever? (Page 2)

[zagor]

Then just stay single until you meet someone that changes your mind.

[jasco]

No I more than likely won't be single for to long, but as of now I am simply taking a break

[FlowerSeed]

Sometimes honestly I guess I'm like the little mermaid who always wanted to find her prince.

[VanillaSalt]

Ah the Disney fairytale that’s become a refuge for the foolish. I really want you to understand how horrible it’s going to be when your 70 with no kids. If you’re that against being married I recommend you pack a tent and go like in the woods for 6 months without talking to anyone else at all.

When your 70 you won’t be leaving your home every day. You’ll be reliant on strangers to use the restroom in a worst case. Strangers whom don’t care about you at all. Your parents will have died in your 50s probably and since you don’t have a man or kids you will only have friends at that point. What do 70 year old friends do for fun? What purpose will you have when your that person? It’s sad to think but an entire generation of fools are undateable because they can’t understand this.

[FlowerSeed]

@VanillaSalt what

[Dchrls78104]

@FlowerSeed and I'm like Peter Pan ruling Never Never Land after Captain Hook is dead.

[VanillaSalt]

Basically I said your living outside reality and this is how the world really is. Sry cupcake is a shitty world out there but ya just gotta make good on what you got.

[FlowerSeed]

@Dchrls78104 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAAAAAAAA... I can't breathe!!!

[FlowerSeed]

@VanillaSalt I'm looking for the right one, if he doesn't come then I will stay alone =^_^=

[VanillaSalt]

I wonder if you understand what that means. I used to be a caregiver. I took care of one old lady in particular that I remember for about 7 years. At the beginning she wasn’t too bad at least she could work. But she was definition cat lady having 13 cats. 60 something I think 66 or 64... anywho she scrapped by because of the vet she went to gave her special deals nobody else got. She worked 40 hours a week at a business she worked for for 13 years. For a while she had 2 jobs. Her medicine was very expensive especially the methadone. After a while she got sick with COPD. It got bad. Like coma bad one day. Eventually she couldn’t leave her bed. To be clear I worked with her on payment because of her situation and was extremely underpaid for the work I did. 24/7 in home cares expensive. Especially after her COPD kicked it up to 12.

This woman eventually died in her home. She only kept her home, cats, and a resemblance of her life because the stars aligned and I was there and the help she got from others like her small business that kept her going and her disability and early retirement.

How could a child understand your life being as simple as waking up going to work coming home laying in the couch watching movies petting the cat and sleeping every day for the last 15 years of your life. In the last year of her life it became too much for me and I had to get her professional help from a trained nurse. She completely broke unable to remember anything or recognize anyone. She died as she lived. Alone, poor, and in pain struggling just to get by. But your better than her you’ll be different and make it! I’m sure you’ll have no issue going through 50 years of monotony alone once your parents die and you have no one special to spend life with and no kids to watch grow up.

[FlowerSeed]

@VanillaSalt again I'm waiting for the right one =^^=

[Dchrls78104]

@FlowerSeed I am, too.

[VanillaSalt]

Of course at the ripe old age of 28. The walls a real thing. If your not finding men to your standards now how will you find them when your middle aged? And that’s not a knock I’m saying your not getting younger, more beautiful, and more fertile... your values going away fast. But let’s leave it to chance. I don't know what your like just that your 28 single and looking for the right one... like 2/3 of the female population.

[FlowerSeed]

@Dchrls78104 we're both optimistic =^_^=

[VanillaSalt]

Optimists often trip because their too busy looking up to watch their feet.

[FlowerSeed]

@VanillaSalt I'm not old.

[VanillaSalt]

Give it a few years and you’ll understand what I’m saying now.

[FlowerSeed]

@VanillaSalt okay bro

[WhiteWolf69]

I dont know. I dont know if I could be single the rest of my life or not. I've made it a long time so far.

[Kha0tiic_xo]

Fuck no, I'm comfortable alone, less drama, stress bullshit and wasted time!

[Narcotics]

Have been single all my life, why would i be scared now!

[HelpingMcHelpington]

Yes I am. I already hate I have to come home to an empty house everyday.

[Guanfei]

That's one of my biggest fear. A fear that is slowly becoming real.

[RickVienna]

Ohh yesss. I had some tries but it didn't work. Not easy... there is a reason. PM if you want to know...

[Ragee]

One of mens fears is being alone and sadly its most of the time

[Chthou95]

No. Love and relationships are not important to living a good and satisfying life

[Homer79]

No I enjoy the bachelor life I like the idea not really having to answer to anyone.

[Slim57]

Nope because I think i will stay this way after all

[robocop666]

some people are happy being single forever. I know people like this

[JesseJayNeak]

No, but I'm already busy planning my future. Love can come later

[JSmuve]

Eh, I'm more scared of going through my 20s without living it to its fullest. Oh wait...

[legalboxers]

hell to the fuck no. Im pushing 50.. ½ my life is gone.. am I gonna die alone... probably.. do I care.. no...

[Djaay]

No. Who tf wants to live in a single cell all they're life. Or are you suggesting that society or others won't like you period with the way you are?

[InterestedOne1972]

Yeas bit what can you do? Have female friends and masturbate for sexual needs. Works for me

[Snakeyes7]

Nah. If no one wants to be with me, that’s their problem.

[HiveBee]

Nah I'm more afraid I'll settle down too fast.

[Taurus90]

You need some me time and recharge your Batteries..

[Maxine_C]

Isn't everyone

[Asker]

But relationships is not for everyone

[Maxine_C]

So some people just prefer to be alone in the horrible pit of darkness that this horrible evil world is? The only light in the world is a relationship. But everything in the world and everyone is evil

[VanillaSalt]

It’s frightening to think isn’t it. Just imagine no family at 70. Stuck in the care of patronizing care workers.

But women these days say stupid shit like I’m okay if I never find someone or I don’t need a man or my favorite I know my worth I’m not settling... meanwhile the things they dont settle on mean absolutely nothing at the end of life.

My “I told you so” will come along in 30 years for you all. And I won’t be happy about it. For every woman happy about dying alone strong and independent is a man forced into that same fate.

[abhi75757]

Well if the girl in this pic i ll met i ll change my mind

[eagle1951]

had my dream girl for 37 years. i'm done. alone i will be

[GoldenTulip]

This is sad. :(

[bolverk]

Not in the slightest, I'm single by choice

[fonduegirl]

I'd like it that way.

[Anonymous]

I’d rather be single than be in a abusive relationship again

[DaveToo]

I am and will be, single for the rest of my life.

[7771999]

Not afraid, just saddened

[princeofromance]

Yes, I am terrified of it.

[Shihab91]

no... one day i will meet her

[Anonymous]

No, I've accepted it at this point

[Dchrls78104]

I, too.

[Anonymous]

Yes, i can see my future very clearly like that

[Mia-Wallace]

Absolutely.

[FreyaRed]

Nope.

[Sam_The_Savage]

I'm single with many girls.

[Nicegirldaqui]

Maybe I am.

[Sweetener_]

Not really

[Anonymous]

No, but my hand is starting to cramp.

[hellacray]

Not really.

[Anonymous]

Of course I am.

[Anonymous]

I’m only scared of nothing.

[clampfan101]

Sometimes...

[JohnGarcia]

Nope!

[Willoughby23]

No I just want more sex tbh

[Asianguy123]

yeah, why not? do what makes you happy.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No..

[Skyros]

To an extent

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[KrakenAttackin]

So be single.

[Anonymous]

yes, very scared

[Jmmmfi4]

Very scared