I'm more scared of being caught in an unhappy relationship. Right now I'm happy being single, but I do want someome eventually and I guess I am scared that once I actually try to date, I won't be what anyone wants
It’s a trade off you’re going to have to decide on. Are you healthy? Do you have good genes? The way you describe yourself sounds old fashioned and that is the best type of woman there is, especially in today’s society.
You are badly damaged by this Marxist society and your recovery can only be done within yourself.
Should you chose not to rethink and relearn your life's ideological existence, then start thinking about your favorite cats because that will be all you have in the future.
Being single has its advantages, especially for what regards deciding how to spend your life or what activities to entertain yourself with. Also how to spend your money and how much remains in your hands at the end of the month. Every lifestyle has its pluses. No matter how bad society sees them as.
This is a paradox is struggle with.. there are times I feel I'd be much more happier as a single person but other times I feel I want someone to connect with on a very deep level. I can ve very idealistic when it comes to relationships but then knowing I can never find the kind of relationship I need the only alternative is avoiding relationships altogether. Plus, I need a lot of time to trust someone and let them in.. not many people would have that kind of patience.
I love working out too and I'd rather stay home and finish a book I started or start a new one than go out with friends.. social events drain me out.
With all things considered.. I think living out somewhere in the mountains or deep in nature with all the books I can read and a few animals (horses, wolves) trumps a relationship.
The way things are going, I may actually end up alone. It's truly hard finding a partner that fits the bill for you that's willing to stay with you. I personally don't like being single so it wouldn't be my choice.
No not really. If it happens that I’m with someone, then that’s totally okay. If not, that’s okay too.
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Through life , you will see things differently so you will think differently, so I am not thinking about it right now. I will focus on things that important to me right now
No, whatever happens, happens. But seriously though, I’ve already been married, had kids, and been divorced - what else is left? I’m perfectly fine living out the rest of my days with cats.
Single forever: a real possibility for me, since I have not found the kind of woman I want; getting into a relationship with any other kind would be much scarier than going through this life alone.
No. I'm tryna vibe no matter what my relationship status is. I would prefer having a commited lifelong best friend I could have sex with anytime we wanted. If not then I'll find my way.
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I'm more scared of being caught in an unhappy relationship. Right now I'm happy being single, but I do want someome eventually and I guess I am scared that once I actually try to date, I won't be what anyone wants
It’s a trade off you’re going to have to decide on. Are you healthy? Do you have good genes? The way you describe yourself sounds old fashioned and that is the best type of woman there is, especially in today’s society.
This is just off one guy, though?
You are badly damaged by this Marxist society and your recovery can only be done within yourself.
Should you chose not to rethink and relearn your life's ideological existence, then start thinking about your favorite cats because that will be all you have in the future.
Being single has its advantages, especially for what regards deciding how to spend your life or what activities to entertain yourself with. Also how to spend your money and how much remains in your hands at the end of the month.
Every lifestyle has its pluses. No matter how bad society sees them as.
This is a paradox is struggle with.. there are times I feel I'd be much more happier as a single person but other times I feel I want someone to connect with on a very deep level. I can ve very idealistic when it comes to relationships but then knowing I can never find the kind of relationship I need the only alternative is avoiding relationships altogether. Plus, I need a lot of time to trust someone and let them in.. not many people would have that kind of patience.
I love working out too and I'd rather stay home and finish a book I started or start a new one than go out with friends.. social events drain me out.
With all things considered.. I think living out somewhere in the mountains or deep in nature with all the books I can read and a few animals (horses, wolves) trumps a relationship.
It sounds like you would rather be single your whole life, at least for now.
Usually when someone is scared of being single, its because they are co-dependent and that is not what you sound like at all.
Being single isn't really a bad thing.
It's being single and not wanted by people you want to date that is a bad thing.
If you're single but you have many attractive suitors then it's actually not bad.
The way things are going, I may actually end up alone. It's truly hard finding a partner that fits the bill for you that's willing to stay with you. I personally don't like being single so it wouldn't be my choice.
No. I'm afraid I will succumb to the pressures to stop being single. Being single is the only sane way to be. :)
You need to live your life how you feel fit. Do what is right and think about consequences before acting otherwise.
Not so much scared as resigned to the fact that it is inevitable. If I can't find a wife by my age it ain't gonna happen.
Yup i am. I want to die besides someone. Also who buys a bag for that much? me just here like i would never spend over $40 lol
Always been successful at relationships, but i can staying single happily whenever i want to.
I prefer single over unworthy relationships anyday.
Not really, however if I do end up being single forever I plan to live my best single life:)
One of my biggest dreams in life is to get married. So being single forever is a big fear of mine.
No not really. If it happens that I’m with someone, then that’s totally okay. If not, that’s okay too.
Through life , you will see things differently so you will think differently, so I am not thinking about it right now. I will focus on things that important to me right now
No, whatever happens, happens. But seriously though, I’ve already been married, had kids, and been divorced - what else is left? I’m perfectly fine living out the rest of my days with cats.
Single forever: a real possibility for me, since I have not found the kind of woman I want; getting into a relationship with any other kind would be much scarier than going through this life alone.
No. I'm tryna vibe no matter what my relationship status is. I would prefer having a commited lifelong best friend I could have sex with anytime we wanted. If not then I'll find my way.