My answer is no. So is about 99% of other men. We have more important things to do than give you that sort of entertainment. I get it makes you happy that you get such a selection but the "winner" then has to deal with the girl who enjoys guys fighting over her. That attitude doesn't make that girl a catch that makes her a burden and I feel bad for the "big winner"
This can make things uncomfortable Fast. If they compete, that is between them, but whatever happens, it is my choice. If that one guy does not act like the others, there can be many reasons. Yes I want an alpha, but I know that person will be with me forever
I know I do, but only once other people make me question where I really stand in her eyes usually it's not even her that causes it. People get in my head and then I just completely fuck things up in my head because of thoughts they encourage me to have. Usually ends badly, haven't had a happy ending to it yet.
Nah, I'm good on competing over women. I don't compete for shit in my personal life. I don't even approach women. I let them approach me and it's worked A-okay for me.
If you are seriously competing, you lack circulation between your ears. Even if you win, that will be your life for the duration of that relationship, constantly competing with other men because she most likely gets off on it or creates situations in which it forces you to compete. If you want to compete, be my guest. It's your funeral.
Be with someone who wants to be with you without any outside interference.
Nobody likes to compete, but sometimes it's a necessity. Most people like to be competed over as well. But most people want people that other people want because they desire serves as validation of the individual being desired.
I think most men dislike it, and I personally won't participate in it. if a woman insists on dating other guys while she is dating me I am immediately DONE with her. I've had this happen a few times, and I have never been comfortable with these situations.
Nope. Women love attention first and foremost. If you're stupid enough to put your self on the line like that, you just might be putting your life on the line. You could get hurt... or worse. 2 things a guy will go all the way for. 1. His money. 2. His female (or even one he perceives as his).
I have fought a lot and I personally hate it. I have also loss every fight for a girls attention. For most guys I would say it is not fun. For 10% of guys it is probably a game.
I certainly don't. I firmly believe if a woman desires you you don't have to worry about competition at all since she will only care about you and no other man.
4
0 Reply
Anonymous
(30-35)
+1 y
lol. God no. Fuck that.
Many girls like to rationalize it as inferiority in guys or whatever else to make themselves feel better what they got or what they might have missed. But really it's just that as soon as another guy is involved, it feels gross. I think most straight guys don't appreciate any kind of sexual association with other guys.
I would compete for someone I loved if I needed to, but I wouldn’t be enjoying the competition. It would be purely for what felt like a necessity. (Her)
Yes, this also trend, guys get jealous on some guy who has beautiful girlfriend, so they try to win and some time fight, do you know the story of Helen of Troy, two countries fought for 10 years for Helen
No, not really. If I have interest in a girl and she seems to be juggling me along with a few other guys I'll just move on and keep meeting other girls.
If dueling were legal men would because it would eliminate their competition and guarantee they win the woman. However, without dueling, men don't like competition because there is no way to guarantee that they win the woman.
No way. Not worth it. Even if you get through the first round, there will be a second and a third and a fourth. Most women that love the competition just love the attention and have to have more attention one way or another.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
79Opinion
My answer is no. So is about 99% of other men. We have more important things to do than give you that sort of entertainment. I get it makes you happy that you get such a selection but the "winner" then has to deal with the girl who enjoys guys fighting over her. That attitude doesn't make that girl a catch that makes her a burden and I feel bad for the "big winner"
This can make things uncomfortable Fast. If they compete, that is between them, but whatever happens, it is my choice. If that one guy does not act like the others, there can be many reasons. Yes I want an alpha, but I know that person will be with me forever
I know I do, but only once other people make me question where I really stand in her eyes usually it's not even her that causes it. People get in my head and then I just completely fuck things up in my head because of thoughts they encourage me to have. Usually ends badly, haven't had a happy ending to it yet.
Nah, I'm good on competing over women. I don't compete for shit in my personal life. I don't even approach women. I let them approach me and it's worked A-okay for me.
I don't like drama. I would remove myself from it completely. I don't think I've ever been completed over.
Competed*
If you are seriously competing, you lack circulation between your ears. Even if you win, that will be your life for the duration of that relationship, constantly competing with other men because she most likely gets off on it or creates situations in which it forces you to compete. If you want to compete, be my guest. It's your funeral.
Be with someone who wants to be with you without any outside interference.
Nobody likes to compete, but sometimes it's a necessity.
Most people like to be competed over as well.
But most people want people that other people want because they desire serves as validation of the individual being desired.
I think most men dislike it, and I personally won't participate in it. if a woman insists on dating other guys while she is dating me I am immediately DONE with her. I've had this happen a few times, and I have never been comfortable with these situations.
Nope. Women love attention first and foremost. If you're stupid enough to put your self on the line like that, you just might be putting your life on the line. You could get hurt... or worse. 2 things a guy will go all the way for. 1. His money. 2. His female (or even one he perceives as his).
I have fought a lot and I personally hate it. I have also loss every fight for a girls attention. For most guys I would say it is not fun. For 10% of guys it is probably a game.
I Lost all of m too. Now i turn that shit around if i have to fight for her attention she is gonna have to fight to ever talk to me again
I certainly don't. I firmly believe if a woman desires you you don't have to worry about competition at all since she will only care about you and no other man.
lol. God no. Fuck that.
Many girls like to rationalize it as inferiority in guys or whatever else to make themselves feel better what they got or what they might have missed. But really it's just that as soon as another guy is involved, it feels gross. I think most straight guys don't appreciate any kind of sexual association with other guys.
Men like to compete period. It's in their genes.
But with women, I think the focus is especially about winning. They love the in your face "Haha! I got her pal and you didn't!"
I would compete for someone I loved if I needed to, but I wouldn’t be enjoying the competition. It would be purely for what felt like a necessity. (Her)
Yes, this also trend, guys get jealous on some guy who has beautiful girlfriend, so they try to win and some time fight, do you know the story of Helen of Troy, two countries fought for 10 years for Helen
This is one of the worst games women play, it's an abusive game played by narcissists and sociopaths.
How many men have died or spent their lives in prison for her amusement?
No, not really.
If I have interest in a girl and she seems to be juggling me along with a few other guys I'll just move on and keep meeting other girls.
This dude in the front and center looks an awful lot like ex-WWE wrestler, Matt Striker
If dueling were legal men would because it would eliminate their competition and guarantee they win the woman. However, without dueling, men don't like competition because there is no way to guarantee that they win the woman.
No way. Not worth it. Even if you get through the first round, there will be a second and a third and a fourth. Most women that love the competition just love the attention and have to have more attention one way or another.