Do women prefer bad boys without considering nice guys & then moan about all men being terrible? then say nice guys are horrible when they complain?

[Anonymous]

Yes that’s true

No this is false

[Anonymous]

If ur calling urself a nice guy ur probably, not ur being self entitled, if u have good principles and morals then you'll do just fine. Each woman has their own preference. But the terms "bad boy" and "nice guy" sound very early nickelodeon and mean nothing irl. Just be a decent person, don't cheat, don't take the mick out of people, be loyal and trustworthy, that's all anyone can ask.

[Asker]

I don’t call myself a nice guy. I’m just really frustrated because it seems like whatever I do im unattractive to women and i can’t work out what im doing wrong. I’ve tried asking friends and no one can tell me. I’ve tried improving myself by working on my confidence, taking up sports, charity and volunteer work, getting a degree/working on studies, making lots of friends, building a career, being passionate about things I enjoy and most importantly, doing these things because I want to and just improving my life and not worrying too much about dating. I’ve tried asking many women out, I’ve also given up and not done any asking out. And it seems no matter what I do I either get rejected (if they don’t know me well and normally get offered friendship instead) or told that they think I’m a great guy but they just want to be friends (if they already know me well). And if I try to find answers, I get nowhere. I have so many friends and a good social life. But the one area I don’t know how to improve is how to get a date. I’ve never been on a date in my life. I’m really keen to find out what if is that I’m doing wrong so that I can improve and I apologise if I’ve offended anyone in the process. I know that I’m not entitled to a partner or relationship and I don’t expect every woman to like me but I’m simply looking for guidance on how I can improve so that I can at least get an opportunity of a date.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't try, when it's meant to happen it will, there's someone out there for u

[Anonymous]

Nope. Also, the guys who call themselves “nice guys” are not actually good guys. They just think they are and befriend women under the assumption that their fake niceness will get them laid.

[Asker]

So women hate nice guys.

[Opinion Owner]

No. We like actual nice guys, not the fake ones who lie and say they’re nice guys.

[Asker]

In what way do they lie? What do they really turn out to be like?

[Opinion Owner]

Read my very first comment dude. Reading comprehension isn’t hard.

[Asker]

That’s not fake niceness. That’s just a guy who is rubbish with women.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. But they think that “niceness” will get them laid, because they legit think they’re nice. But nice guys never call themselves nice guys.

[Asker]

But why be so hostile against guys who are simply rubbish with women?

[Opinion Owner]

How do you expect us to react to guys who treat us like just meat for their sexual outlets? Who demonize us for not giving ourselves to them? Who support those who hurt us?

[Asker]

Isn’t that how bad boys think “?

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. The only difference between incels and “bad boys” is that at least bad boys don’t pretend to be good to us before hurting us.

[AgentRED]

Women are only attracted to bad boys. Done deal.


And then when they get knocked up after douchebag leaves then, they get all bloated and then come chasing the nice guy. Nope I wouldn’t play that game.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nice guys are not really nice. A good guy is the best, someone with boundaries and a backbone. A nice guy will let her walk all over him.

[BarryLiverstone]

Good guys can be ‘bad’ in the right times.

[songinabox]

I don't date guys if I don't think they're nice. My boyfriend currently is nicer than me. I don't like when guys are nice to me with the expectation of sex. I try to genuinely make friends with nearly everyone I meet, and I find it really annoying when people have ulterior motives to their actions. Most guys that consider themselves nice are exactly like that.