Girls have you ever chased a guy and did it work?

[jennifer_bloom]

I have and it worked long term

I have it and it lasted for a short while

I almost got him but ended up getting turned down

I tried to chase a guy and it did not work

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[AnonyWoman4309]

I have chased lots of guys before, sometimes it did work, sometimes it didn't. However if it did work it usually didn't last that long. Ever heard the quote guys are hunters?

Show interest, maybe pursue a little bit, but make sure he's doing some of the work, otherwise he'll recognize that you like him too much and he may take advantage

[GoldenTulip]

I never chase a guy. I see who chases after me and make a choice.

[blank_expression]

Define “works.” I have had women try to breed me and they were very pushy, assertive, if not aggressive. It works for a while but then the excitement wears off, dust settles and new ventures are waiting.

[Wisenhot]

You can chase him but if he doesn’t chase you back it won’t work.

[Anonymous]

Chasing is not the word for my situation. I just showed him I was interested and he reciprocated (got me a gift/ introduced himself to me etc.) but out of nervousness he avoided me (weird right) so I started avoiding him a bit and giving him space to see if he would come to me and he did but he was totally holding back. So I gave him a card with my number and name and now we’re together ◡̈

[jerdanro]

Great solution.

[ImSparkly]

I played the long game with my Hubby. I knew him for about four years before he would "date" me. When we met, I wasn't sure what I wanted, as I got to know him, I knew that he could be more than just a DILF.

[Xoxocutekitty]

I've found that men are more likely to take advantage of a girl if she chased him.

They'll treat her as a friends with benefits buddy, or expect her to just be around. Unless they see her value for themselves, many a man will continue to waste a girls time until they find someone who does catch their eye.

[jerdanro]

Isn't that the same risk men take when pursuing women? I'm not saying you should have to bear that risk, just saying the pursuer always does.

[Xoxocutekitty]

In general yes. But socially, any man that is used for sex can proudly say he got laid. Women that are used for sex are viewed with a myriad of silly adjectives. People still shame girls for giving it up (there's always one religious girl or middle aged man making it harder for everyone) and congratulate guys gets for getting it.

I think pre-bedroom activities, it is equal.

[jerdanro]

Good point. Well this is one middle aged man who wouldn't shame anyone.

[Luckycharms12]

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[PaynefulPleasures]

LoL 😂

[Luckycharms12]

Couldn't help myself it was perfect gif for this question 😂🙈

[PaynefulPleasures]

Yes it was thank you for sharing it made my day ✌️

[Luckycharms12]

Lol my pleasure

[PaynefulPleasures]

I don't pursue men I have them pursue me. I find it to loathing,& needy , which is definitely not me ✌️

[friendzoned4life]

How is it needy to not act like a lazy fuck

[thedancingcookie20]

I didn't chase but I was direct when I showed interest and made the first move. I'm still with him all these years

[friendzoned4life]

LADIES READ THIS COMMENT THIS IS WHAT WE WANT WE ARE TIRED OF GAMES WE NEED THIS

[TacosRAwesome]

I've made effort with partners when I shouldn't have, so not exactly chased but wasted effort if that makes sense. Result is pretty much the same though.

[Anonymous]

Chasing men never works... this guy blocked me for no reason at all and let me tell you sis they ALWAYS COME BACK after 6-7 month i found him on my email yesterday. He said i know u are mad i blocked u i am sorry this is my snap please add me back lol...

[Anonymous]

I’ve chased it does not work. Usually bc men go after what they want: if you’re chasing it’s because he’s not going after you. It sucks but it’s the truth

[es20490446e]

Not the truth. Some people has multiple good options, and the differentiating factor could simply be you showing as more willing.

[AzzaBlue]

I am not surprised by the pink answers. I said this numerous times before, that women will use any and every excuse in the book to be lazy children.

[moonpie89]

Only scenario I can think of was when I wanted this one guy to go home with me after the club and he refused.

[Jenngirl00]

I chased him and was able to get him, but you better see he has some interest before you chase him

[Ninani]

I found that I'm not much of a chaser.

[Anonymous]

I'm trying , I'm thinking what to say to him. but I couldn't think what to say. wanna help?

[fred_durst]

you should just give a sign and let him come to you
if you chase a guy , he will think you are easy
trust me

[friendzoned4life]

OP don't listen to this dude if you don't have a neon sign with the name of the guy u want including his personal security number with an arrow pointing to your pussy 999 out of a 1000 guys will not understand your hint and even then they will still be thinking must be for someone else.

Only way to get a dude is hoping he approaches u but a lot of us will never do if you are pretty cause of fear of rejection. So if you really like a dude Just say it

[SandandWaves]

I chose, I have and it worked long term

[SandandWaves]

I Read That Wrong:

[SandandWaves]

The Guy Has

[SandandWaves]

We both chased

[CentralPerk77]

Do you mean physically chased to like … mug them?

[SwitchGirl]

Chasing as in him not doing Anything at all?

[jahaims]

My wife "chased" me

[WowwGirl]

@gwenhwyfar 😂😂😂

[WowwGirl]

@jennifer_bloom my guy yes and he fully provides

[jennifer_bloom]

I blocked her cause I was suspicious that her profile might be fake. I don’t have proof that it’s fake but I block when I think there is a possibility of fakery.

[jennifer_bloom]

That is great you found such a good guy.

[WowwGirl]

Your next my dear

[WowwGirl]

Look for one with a 1950's mind set🙏

[jennifer_bloom]

: ) I know God will make sure I’m well cared for : )

[WowwGirl]

As do I. It takes time for all with holy intentions

[jennifer_bloom]

That is true. I know many very religious woman who waited long periods and tried very hard before they found a good high quality husband or wife but it’s worth the wait.

[WowwGirl]

It is and you will find one too